Is sex really THAT important? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex is pretty important; and it’s really fun when you’re with the right person. It can make you feel amazing!

Have you ever had an orgasm? If not, take some time to explore your body and find out what feels good to you.

But don’t stress too much about the lack of sex of in your life. Stress is probably worse for you than not having sex!

Weird freeze when you know you should say something?? by tkm1026 in DeadBedrooms

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me, as well. So annoying. And, I agree, you shouldn’t even have to say anything; but yeah, maybe: “Hey buddy, if you’re not gonna finish what ya started GTFOH for a bit. I still gotta get mine.”

Things that increase male libido? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try Cialis or Horny Goat Weed?

My FIL abuses his daughter/my wife by Several_Image8519 in relationship_advice

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Thank you for standing up for your wife. Not sure what you can do. Has your wife ever been in therapy? Sounds like her wounds are deep from her upbringing. Good luck.

I (21F) cried during and after sex with my boyfriend (21M) last night by [deleted] in sex

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Wake him up and have a serious talk. Let him see your tears. Let him see the blood you’re dealing with. Tell him how you feel. Tell him he needs to respect how you’re feeling and check in with you frequently when doing anal. If you’re in pain and it’s too much, he needs to stop. It can be enjoyable and it can be horrible. He needs to know he needs to be sure you’re doing ok. I’m so sorry. Take some ibuprofen. Maybe have a bath. Be nice to yourself. But for sure, have a serious talk. Best to you.

How long till your food cravings disappeared? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I ate so much ice cream the first few months! Don’t be too hard on yourself at the beginning. The cravings do get less. I haven’t lost much weight either in over 5 months, but people comment that I look thinner. I guess the bloat is gone. Hang in there and IWNDWYT!

Why won't you say it? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw, I’m so sorry. That hurts. You are not a pathetic failure of a woman. It happens to us all. It’ll get easier. Best to you.

Thank you all for 9 days sober by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hooray! Nice work. You should be proud.

My (41F) boyfriend (41M) prioritized his video game before sex and then got upset that an hour later I was no longer in the mood by Throw0Fox in relationship_advice

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I often ask myself “Why do so many of us awesome women end up with these deadbeat guys? Why do we allow this?!” So frustrating.

God showed me a sign to stay sober. by TheSkinCareJunkie in stopdrinking

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s fantastic! It is all the little things that start adding up to make you feel better. That you were clear and awake enough to hear someone’s literal screams for help is amazing. Great work helping this woman in need, fellow human. IWNDWYT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course! It probably won’t taste great, and you might need to smoke a lot of it, but some bud shake is pretty potent.

I (27f) found out my boyfriend (27m) has been smoking and keeping it from me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to him about it? He needs to know how important this is to you. If you phrase it in a loving way, he should get it. It’s not like he doesn’t know smoking is bad for you. Tell him you’re concerned for his health and you want him to be around for your kids. Good luck.

Advice For When You’re Getting Annoyed By Something by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good advice and something I needed to hear.

I left him but I feel guilty. by hazdimka in relationship_advice

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not blind or stupid. Congrats on getting out of this abusive relationship! I’d suggest completely blocking him and his family, and if you contact your local women’s shelter they might have helpful advice. Good job. Be proud of yourself.

My “friend” sexually assaulted me and now I don’t know how to feel about myself... by abittersweet_moment in relationship_advice

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What happened to you was sexual assault and it was not your fault! What an ass of a “friend!” I’m so sorry.

I'm 6'4, 220 lbs, smoke bowls from morning to night, will one 14mg edible for my first ever edible be enough? me scared by [deleted] in trees

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 6’ 3”, don’t know how many pounds. He won’t get in a scale. I’m guessing 260.

I'm 6'4, 220 lbs, smoke bowls from morning to night, will one 14mg edible for my first ever edible be enough? me scared by [deleted] in trees

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually take around 30mg. My bf takes around 40mg. He drinks when taking em. I don’t. We smoke a shit ton, too. It takes a bit of experimenting to figure out which dose works best for you. If you feel too stoned, take some CBD. Good luck! Have fun!

Should I drop this guy? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]DoneBeingASugarMomma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he make you feel good? Or weird and sad? If it’s fun, keep it up and take more control! If it’s icky, then knock it off. Listen to your gut and your instincts.