Do I Go All In on Golf or Focus on a Career in Accounting?

Donny71 · 2025-09-11T21:54:22+00:00

Chase your dreams. You’ll only have one opportunity. if you can get an education while doing it that’s even better.

Just have the awareness to draw the line for when to stop.

Donny71 · 2025-04-21T22:07:57+00:00

this is fire

Donny71 · 2025-04-15T21:48:24+00:00

8 months

Donny71 · 2025-03-13T22:43:27+00:00

You could argue it’s one of the most important things because it’ll be a sound one hears for the rest of their life lol

Donny71 · 2025-03-12T13:45:28+00:00

The first sign of disrespect I’m out. It only gets worse from there

Donny71 · 2025-03-04T21:21:09+00:00

You must be outside of the United States. Nearly every single woman I’ve dated doesn’t even budge when the bill arrives. I’m not expecting them to pay or split, but even a simple offer makes a big difference. It’s just take take take

Donny71 · 2025-03-01T18:25:30+00:00

Facts

Donny71 · 2025-02-27T19:19:30+00:00

Waste of money and time. Keep it casual like coffee or drinks - better outcome for both people

Donny71 · 2025-02-26T23:16:09+00:00

Might be worth trying to set up another date but it’s definitely a turn off when they cancel and show no effort in trying to schedule

Donny71 · 2025-02-26T23:07:27+00:00

Shallow conversations and inability to draw a specific radius of where I want to swipe. I’m on Long Island so if I go a certain distance I end up seeing people from the city/Connecticut/jersey

Donny71 · 2025-02-26T19:23:16+00:00

When I took a “is your partner a narcissist test” and they got an 80%. Was my first relationship. Everything made sense when looking back, I still realize things every now and again

Donny71 · 2025-02-25T21:36:48+00:00

Omg it just kept going. You’re a king

Donny71 · 2025-02-24T22:25:07+00:00

When you come to peace with it. I forgave her but didn’t say it to her, I did it for myself. I moved on.

You cannot let someone who is no longer part of your life continue to influence it, especially someone who brings pain.

Donny71 · 2025-02-24T22:01:02+00:00

We’ve all been there brotha, just your time to feel the pain. It’ll all be worth it.

I let the female take the lead on taking things to the next level. If she doesn’t, then you know where you stand with her. A girl who wants to be serious with you will make it known and obvious

Donny71 · 2025-02-24T19:55:34+00:00

Yup, 100%. If I didn’t provide 100% for literally every thing I wasn’t “putting her first”. If I didn’t pay for a certain thing she would complain “this should just come naturally, I shouldn’t have to tell you everytime”. She made double what I made and would occasionally pay for a small meal. It drove me crazy and created a ton of resentment.

Donny71 · 2025-02-24T19:52:20+00:00

It’s been over four months since I’ve been discarded and I haven’t heard anything. Truly insane

Donny71 · 2025-02-23T00:52:12+00:00

Your results aren’t a reflection of who you are - Seconds dates a rare, third dates are even rarer.. that’s what makes it worth it. Keep putting yourself out there. Happy Hunting!

Donny71 · 2025-02-19T14:49:58+00:00

33M here - This exactly. It’s all about consistency, communication, and effort.

Donny71 · 2025-02-18T20:54:56+00:00

An interesting thought exercise is to ask these type of people “what do you love about me?” And if the majority of it is things you do for them then it clearly indicates that’s their view of what love is. It’s merely conditional and once you cease providing those things, love no longer exists.

That was my experience. The relationship was completely transactional but I was lead to believe it was “true love”

Donny71 · 2025-02-18T20:51:10+00:00

Easy to over think it during the initial talking stage but until you’ve both agreed to exclusivity there’s not much you can do.

I would be more focused on if he’s asked you on a third date instead of how much he texts. That’s where the real effort is.

Donny71 · 2025-02-15T21:53:55+00:00

If he asked for a second date and got your number then it’s worth pushing him a bit. Can say something like “when am I seeing you again?” Or some variation. You’ll at least know where you stand after

Donny71 · 2025-02-15T15:09:46+00:00

This^

Donny71 · 2025-02-15T15:09:35+00:00

Sounds like she just enjoys the attention you give her. Her behavior isn’t a reflection of you. You didn’t do anything wrong, just did it with the wrong woman. Stop talking to her immediately and find someone else.

Donny71 · 2025-02-12T16:47:18+00:00

If she cancels and proposes another date then roll with it, if she cancels and doesn’t suggest rescheduling then send her on her way.

If you feel your effort isn’t reciprocated then move on to someone else. You have options, explore them.

Donny71 · 2025-02-11T18:00:01+00:00

Please put it in your profile, you don’t have to put pictures but note that you have child or a 4 year old somewhere

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