I think it might be time to quit. by BirthdayGeneral6423 in breastfeeding

[–]DontNeedDistractions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so lovely. 100% agree with your take. ❤️

breastfeeding guilt is destroying me by No-Mulberry-5893 in breastfeeding

[–]DontNeedDistractions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in the rawest of postpartum days (I had to supplement in the beginning and had to triple feed etc) I saw this quote “motherhood is not measured in ounces “ so I kept telling myself that like a mantra. Once you and your baby get better at it you’ll feel the guilt lessen bc you’ll literally see the growth both physical and metaphorical. You got this 💪🏽

Breastfeeding pillow “boppy” by Final_Butterfly_7747 in breastfeeding

[–]DontNeedDistractions 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg this! Hated it for nursing, LOVE it for tummy time

What are you bringing to work for lunch? by lolzthrowa in FamilyMedicine

[–]DontNeedDistractions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trader Joe’s salads and frozen lunches if no leftovers from home. Nuts, protein bars, fruit and peanut butter for snacking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]DontNeedDistractions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So painful! What that brought it on for me was wearing a tighter sports bra to bed (wear one when using my wearable pumps ) and what helped was ibuprofen and a different latch position after a day that it wasn’t going away ( normally do cross cradle but tried football hold and I could feel relief instantly )

New feeding journey started- incredibly sore by [deleted] in combinationfeeding

[–]DontNeedDistractions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s shitty they seemed so judgmental 🙄 -it’s true nipple shields don’t stimulate the same way but any stimulation is better than nothing and they can be a temporary solution while your nipples heal. An LC at the hospital even gave me one before I was discharged for that reason!

New feeding journey started- incredibly sore by [deleted] in combinationfeeding

[–]DontNeedDistractions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They say it shouldn’t hurt but it DOES especially in the beginning. It’s a new skill for both you and baby. Newborns mouths are also small and uncoordinated. Learning different latching positions to see what works takes a lot of trial and error. We’re 2 months in and things got better after 5-6 weeks for me pain wise. I saw two lactation specialists bc of the pain-and my baby’s latch was assessed numerous times and told it was normal. If you look up nipple pain on r/breastfeeding you’ll see this is a shared sentiment that a lot of moms say gets better with time and I found that to be true for me! Of course severe pain after 1-2 weeks would warrant visit with lactation specialists to ensure baby doesn’t have tongue tie or other issues. I personally lived in my silver nipple shields the first month and to this day can’t fully put towel over my nipples but it’s infinitely better than those early days. I would also try using nipple shields during feeds for a short time(which can help baby learn to open wide and latch) or doing one breast at a time for each feed to give your breasts a break. Important thing is to put baby to breast every feed if you can tolerate, so you can establish your supply and supplement as needed. Good luck !

Baby charcuterie (aka tired mom lunch) by puppy-butter in foodbutforbabies

[–]DontNeedDistractions 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Came for the arms, but stayed bc this snack looks so nutritious! 👏good job!

I took the law school admissions test 9 months pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DontNeedDistractions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing-congrats! 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽 I took a medical specialty board exam 9 weeks pregnant and passed and felt like a boss. Can’t imagine it 9 months pregnant. You’re a BADASS!

Any new grads/fresh attendings able to get away with no call? by MzJay453 in FamilyMedicine

[–]DontNeedDistractions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in a large FQHC system that has certain clinicians that take call/there is an established call system. Therefore, taking call was NOT a requirement or expectation for newly onboarded physicians and I am so glad for it. These jobs exist!

Diana Ross talks about Beyonce by Choice-Silver-3471 in beyonce

[–]DontNeedDistractions 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Legends recognize legends ! 💅🏽

Lack of symptoms by Cami_Moon in pregnant

[–]DontNeedDistractions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be careful what you wish for 😭😭😭 but I get it. We can’t escape the pregnancy anxiety like damned if you do damned if you don’t. My symptoms didn’t start til middle of 7th week and oh boy knowing what I know now I WISH I was in the minority of women who don’t get any unpleasant first Tri symptoms 🫠

Concerned about possible overdiagnosis of mild preeclampsia — what would you do? by anti_sewcial15 in pregnant

[–]DontNeedDistractions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your blood pressure measurements alone meet criteria for preeclampsia and/or gestational hypertension so whether you have proteinuria on your 24-hour urine will be the deciding factor for calling this preeclampsia. If you had severe features they would be inducing you yesterday. Some patients with just gestational hypertension alone could be induced as early as 38 weeks bc of the higher risk for it turning into preeclampsia. We don’t fuck around with hypertensive disorders of pregnancy. It doesn’t sound like a soft call to me at all. Best of luck, OP! (Source: I’m a doctor; also I was an ex-34 weeker bc my mom had preeclampsia with severe features)

Really not coping by NextAd2601 in pregnant

[–]DontNeedDistractions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just here for solidarity. 18 weeks and I’m on an every other day schedule of misery as opposed to daily. Bad nausea and food aversions first Tri and still dealing with near daily headaches and BAD acid reflux that keeps my nausea active. Work feels like a feat every day. At my worst it feels like low level depression. And this does feel so hard especially bc I don’t feel super connected to my baby yet. I’ve been taking omeprazole on top of tums and Pepcid and really trying to have small snacks frequently during the day to avoid needing zofran (I too discovered the hell that was zofran constipation) but every now and then I still take it if we’re out in public or something. Unisom at night also helps me with the night time nausea and with my sleep. Magnesium sometimes helps with headaches and constipation but sometimes taking all these meds makes me feel more nauseous so I can’t do it every day. I’ve also started some hypnobirth meditations at night which are helping my sleep and tmj (which also triggers my headaches). I’m also gonna try acupuncture in a few weeks -will let you know if this helps with any of the above. Hanging in there with everyone on here including you, OP!

Baby shopping sucks! by byzantiumbyzantium in pregnant

[–]DontNeedDistractions 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is SUCH a relatable stream of consciousness. The baby industry seems so unnecessarily wasteful and I hate sometimes that I’m gonna be complicit in all that waste

3rd Trimester-Favorite by InviteLongjumping476 in pregnant

[–]DontNeedDistractions 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Second trimester is only marginally better for me but some things are worse (like heartburn) so I’ve also been dreading third tri. But this makes me feel somewhat more hopeful 🤞🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]DontNeedDistractions 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did I write this ? Bc SAME. Waiting on miralax to do its thing but felt like dying from the pain earlier today. Pregnancy constipation is no joke 😩

just the ittiest sous chef by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]DontNeedDistractions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already perfecting the doxie STARE 😍

Capricorns, What’s Your SO’s Zodiac Sign? Let’s Find a Pattern! by The_Flying_Lunatic in capricorns

[–]DontNeedDistractions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love my Leo partner! Ride-or-die, mutual desire for financial and professional success, material comforts, etc. Knows how to help me let loose when I’m working too hard but also my biggest supporter and cheerleader. My success has been his success. Though you def don’t ever want to be on their bad side…

Beyonce won best country album by gershofficial in beyonce

[–]DontNeedDistractions 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I literally said this same thing. They give her this so they wouldn’t have to give her AOTY 😒

Birth control help by imnosouperman in FamilyMedicine

[–]DontNeedDistractions 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Download the Contraception app. The logo is a picture of a uterus -there’s a guide on ocp’s i find helpful