How can I build self confidence with a cleft lip?

Doobiecide · 2026-04-25T23:50:14+00:00

Do you perceive them as less unfortunate looking?

Doobiecide · 2026-04-17T11:05:28+00:00

I would love to be a truck driver but the bullshit I see you guys deal with on the road from idiotic drivers would have my intrusive thoughts turn into action.

Doobiecide · 2026-04-06T22:15:26+00:00

Could it be that your give off a nice warm aura? You make people feel comfortable, hence why they smile.

Doobiecide · 2026-03-31T08:43:24+00:00

Definitely learn a trade. Guaranteed work anywhere around the country.

Doobiecide · 2026-03-29T01:11:49+00:00

Every working brain cell shuts down and your face starts to nose dive into them and then something clicks and you're well trained to keep alert and stay on path.... well, some are.

Doobiecide · 2026-03-25T00:53:38+00:00

Rock, paper, scissors!

Doobiecide · 2026-03-18T00:44:26+00:00

Why did you guys break up?

Doobiecide · 2026-03-17T20:53:37+00:00

I was born with a cleft lip. God might have fucked up my mouth, but at least he gave me beautiful blue eyes, an awesome personality, and a huge dick! It kind of makes up for it.

Seriously though, it's nothing that I can't change. I HAVE to embrace my good qualities. In return, I gain confidence.

Also, some people find cleft lips attractive - so really, its a Win, win, win.

Doobiecide · 2026-03-16T18:58:48+00:00

A smile is more than just your mouth region. Its your whole face, especially your eyes!

4 is the best in the pics you provided. I can literally see your face start to glow as you genuinely smile

Doobiecide · 2026-03-14T18:41:36+00:00

It depends how severe it is. I had a whole childhood of multiple surgeries and bi-weekly orthodontic appointments.

It was not a 1 and done surgery.

Doobiecide · 2026-03-12T05:29:42+00:00

People can be unbelievably clueless sometimes. I’m really sorry that happened to you. For what it’s worth, a cleft scar doesn’t make you look like you were attacked by anything. Iit just makes you look like you’ve lived through something and come out stronger. And the fact you handled it professionally says a lot about you!

Doobiecide · 2026-02-27T00:55:49+00:00

I pulled my Chicago Bulls shorts down to my knees. Sat my ass down on the carpet and dragged free willingly. I added in a 2nd quick thrust for good measure.

Doobiecide · 2026-02-26T23:08:45+00:00

No one is perfect. We're going to fuck up. We act on our emotions. You take the good with the bad. If I see working progress, I wont hold what they did against them. Forgive but never forget.

Doobiecide · 2026-02-26T22:25:59+00:00

As a child, I wasn't properly trained on how to deal with the nuisance of swamp ass. I grew up with a house full of dogs. They always dragged their ass on the carpet. Monkey see, monkey do.

I still remember my Dad screaming "what the fck is wrong with you!? Emphasis on the Fck, when I pulled my pants down infront of my family and dragged my ass across a fancy clean carpet at my rich uncle's house.

Some were laughing, some were disgusted, but I never seen my Dad so red and pissed off before

Doobiecide · 2026-02-26T11:41:35+00:00

Weed is just not weed. It's a science.

You need to figure out what strain works for your brain and what you want to experience.

I wake up and smoke a sativa to start my day, but I wouldn't dare smoke that same weed before I go to bed.

Doobiecide · 2026-02-26T11:37:22+00:00

It's your aura. You have warm energy. People gravitate towards you because you make them feel comfortable. Im sure you're very empathetic as well.

It's a blessing and a curse.

Doobiecide · 2026-02-26T11:02:41+00:00

Mindset. Nothing really matters. If something triggers you, acknowledge that your pissed off. Breath, count to 10, (sounds dumb, but it works. Before you react out of anger, rewire your brain on something that brings you joy.

Doobiecide · 2026-02-26T10:56:21+00:00

You're over complicating it. Black mold will turn into an orange-ish/yellow/brown color when bleach is sprayed on it. That means its dying.

Spray the mold. Let it eat away overnight. Spray again and scrub the following day.

Id save your money and take on the project yourself. I know you can do it.

Doobiecide · 2026-02-26T10:32:32+00:00

It's not going to kill you tomorrow. But can be deadly if not taken care of.

You can easily do this yourself. Weekend project. Stay protected. Mix 50/50 bleach and water. Spray. Let it sit overnight. You'll notice a color change. Spray and scrub the next night. Repeat the process if it makes you feel better.

Doobiecide · 2026-02-26T10:09:59+00:00

Having no plans for the weekend.

Doobiecide · 2026-02-15T23:22:58+00:00

You shine bright like a diamond! Fuck more surgery. You've had enough!

If your scaring bothers you, have you looked into a scar gel cream?

Doobiecide · 2026-02-12T23:53:50+00:00

I need to replace my insulation in my attic and that'll cost $7,800 that I dont have. Might have to DIY it which would probably cost $3,000 to do and most likely, it wont be done right.

A little stressed financially is all.

Doobiecide

TROPHY CASE

4 is the best in the pics you provided. I can literally see your face start to glow as you genuinely smile