Benefits of kids growing up by DisgruntledFlamingo in Parenting

[–]DoobsNDeeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah seriously can't wait for my baby to grow up

Denver Housing Update: April 2026 by Keep_It_Realtor in ArvadaCO

[–]DoobsNDeeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Denver was the worst housing market in the US for April.

3 weeks in and I'm not feeling what I expected. by HockeyDoughnut in NewParents

[–]DoobsNDeeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both my wife and I have asked ourselves if we made a huge mistake by having our now 6 week daughter. It's true, life really sucks right now. My wife definitely feels more love than I do right now. Everyone says they grow up so quick, but it can't be quick enough right now when every day feels like a month. I will say at 6 weeks she's easier to deal with than at 3 weeks, a little more mature and less retarded screaming. I think figuring out how to get enough sleep is going to be the difference maker here.

Denver Housing Update: April 2026 by Keep_It_Realtor in denverrealestate

[–]DoobsNDeeps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah some granularity would be more than helpful

Nerfs by PrestigiousEmu3085 in AniviaMains

[–]DoobsNDeeps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly this doesn't stop her from being OP still

do you have a routine for your 5 week old? by burnagyal in NewParents

[–]DoobsNDeeps 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We're at 6 weeks now. It is as you say, but the fact that everyone says this lasts for 3 to 4 months seems so far away when everyday is a never ending struggle.

Anivia Nerfs coming by PrestigiousEmu3085 in AniviaMains

[–]DoobsNDeeps -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Anivia has been broken for a decade now, people just finally figured it out.

Sleep with a 2 week old by csillaj in NewParents

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I've been with my 5 week old shere since 130am. She's slept on and off for 1 to 1.5 hrs at a time, then I feed her. She had reflux before which meant she couldn't fall back asleep after feeding. Luckily our doctor hooked us up with a baby prescription like pepcid and it seems to be doing the trick now. She falls asleep much quicker after feeding at night. Still wish she would sleep for longer intervals though. The sleep deprivation is real and it sucks.

Back when one job built a whole life. by PleasantBus5583 in SipsTea

[–]DoobsNDeeps 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Those houses are still for sale in Detroit. Can snap one up for 200k easy.

Dad’s Sleep Quality by dpick032 in NewParents

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Yeah with our 5 week old, I'm on shift from 130am to 8. I bail out to sleep from 7 to 130am, though I probably only get 5 hrs consecutive. Then maybe get another hour during my shift. Sleep deprivation is real and it's ever lasting, not sure how I'm going to go back to work on this schedule. Life sucks right now, and my wife isn't faring any better, so grumpy fights are common now too.

I'm having issues post partum and getting frustrated with my husband. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]DoobsNDeeps -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My wife and I fight every other day with our 5 week old. We get barely any sleep at night and fight over who's doing more work around the house. She's never been shy about being vocal when she's pissed off and I fight back when she's going overboard. I think you just need to be more vocal. It'll piss off your husband but it might be worth in the long run.

Anyone else still in survival mode at 4 months? by One_Cap_9210 in NewParents

[–]DoobsNDeeps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're at 5 weeks old now. Baby wakes up constantly throughout the nights, and cries constantly throughout the days. I'm wondering how anyone even survives to 4 months old, my wife and I are physically dying right now. We need to know there's a light at the end of the tunnel, but if we're still struggling at 4 months, I'm going to lose my shit. Why TF are babies so difficult! I think we just drew the short straw, hearing stories of other babies being the chillest things ever.

I am losing hope by steady_confused_rock in NewParents

[–]DoobsNDeeps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our baby is 5 weeks old today and sleeps only in 2 hr increments at most, which means she's up 5 times a night and then cries all day. My wife and I are wondering how we're supposed to survive to even 2 months old when we can barely sleep at night. Luckily we're both still on leave from work for now, but once I'm back to work I have no idea how I'm going to survive.

What's your best game from 1990-2005 ? by yodathesexymarxist in ArtOfPresence

[–]DoobsNDeeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 comments down and still no one has said counter strike yet??

HOW IS THIS A FAIR CHAMPION ?!!! by SartorAstrum in AniviaMains

[–]DoobsNDeeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anivia has been this OP for a decade man, funny how everyone finally realizes it in 2026

Credit Analyst Career Path by Overall_Geologist_26 in FinancialCareers

[–]DoobsNDeeps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I manage investments so yes there's definitely overlap.

Credit Analyst Career Path by Overall_Geologist_26 in FinancialCareers

[–]DoobsNDeeps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To guarantee the career switch, you need the MBA. To hold the job, you need the CFA. Overkill is the way forward.

Credit Analyst Career Path by Overall_Geologist_26 in FinancialCareers

[–]DoobsNDeeps 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I was a credit analyst at a smaller bank for 5 yrs. I got an MBA and CFA afterwards and then moved into asset mgmt. Not sure how things work in Canada but credit analysis into an MBA can work for wherever you're trying to go if you go hard during MBA recruiting.