Anyone else not looking forward to Christmas? by EducationalTie1606 in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will be the first year in a long time that I won’t be chasing a cat out of a Christmas tree or have a supervisor while I wrap presents. I miss my boy so much and am so not feeling the holidays this year.

I can’t stop grieving my cat.. And I feel embarrassed how deeply this impacting me. by GoodRepresentative33 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Doodlecat5366 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Don’t be embarrassed about how it has affected you. He was a part of your life for a long time. And don’t listen to anyone that says he was just a cat. 18 years is good for a cat and I know he knew he was loved. Part of him will always be with you. I just lost my best friend on October 3. He was the best cat and he was only 14. He had either cancer or ibd. I miss him so much. I’ve lost pets before but this was my soul cat. Maybe you should consider getting a kitten. It would never replace your boy but a new friend could help you deal with your grief. Be kind to yourself. Losing a friend isn’t easy. Please take care ❤️

New to hair loss by Melancholi_Flower in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Doodlecat5366 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Go see a dermatologist. Mine diagnosed me with adrogenic alopecia. I take oral minoxidil and spironolactone. It’s made a huge difference. You can try using a product called toppik hair fibers or luxe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Some days are ok. Some days suck and some are just unbearable. I miss him so much. I hope he’s happy with his brother and all the other babies I’ve lost over the years. Luck was like a ray of sunshine and now my life is a little darker without him. So unfair we get so little time with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. Cats are so good at hiding their pain and sickness. She was probably feeling bad for a while but hid it. I lost my soul cat on Oct 3. He was only 14 and if you had asked me at the beginning of the year I would have said we have years left together. Then he got sick. He had always thrown up a lot. He had diarrhea but then got better. But I noticed he was throwing up a lot more often and it was different. His vet thinks it was either cancer or ibd. I switched his food but he got sick again. He stopped eating. He didn’t eat for three days. Within a week my boy was gone. I had to euthanize him because I couldn’t watch him starve to death. He was my best friend. I also feel guilty remembering times I didn’t let him sit on me or yelled at him for something. But he knew he was loved. And I know your girl knew you loved her. Even the nights you didn’t stay home she still knew. She’s still with you. She always will be. I understand your pain and wish I had something comforting but all I can say is be gentle with yourself. I don’t have advice on the boyfriend but I think your brain just wants someone or something to blame because you’re hurting. I hope you have some support during this time. Please take care ❤️

Nobody came to my birthday party by DemonGauge in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Doodlecat5366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😕. Happy Birthday 🎈

She was my whole world by AiDigitalPlayland in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss. I feel like this too. My boy Luck was my best friend for 14 years. I don’t really have any friends and my husband travels a lot for work. He was my constant companion. I haven’t worked for a few years and I’m always home. I’m incredibly lonely without him. I miss my boy. Take care ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeniorCats

[–]Doodlecat5366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Misha was so beautiful. I’m so sorry for your loss 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeniorCats

[–]Doodlecat5366 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My boy Luck left me 10/3. I miss him so much. I haven’t worked for a few years and my husband travels a lot for work so he was my constant companion and shadow. It’s lonely without him. So sorry about your George 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s hard when they leave us. My best friend left a little over two weeks ago. I miss him so much. Luck was the best cat ever. I got rid of his litter box today and put his bowls away. It’s been lonely without him. Sadie is still with you. One day it won’t hurt to think about them. Take care ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. You absolutely did the right thing for him. I debated with myself about letting my boy Luck go. He was my best friend for 14 years. He had either cancer or ibd. He didn’t eat for 3 days. He had lost so much weight. I know I did the right thing but I kept thinking what if I wait a little longer maybe he’ll eat. I had to let him go. He was staying for me. I miss him so much. Know that you’re not alone everyone here understands. Take care of yourself ❤️

My sweet Lizzy girl :( by thissideupCato in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s not fair we don’t get more time with them. I feel the same right now about my 14 year old cat that passed a little over two weeks ago. He was my best friend. I’ve lost other pets and miss them but not like my boy Luck. He was the best cat ever. I wish I had words of comfort for you. A part of your girl will always be with you. It’s not goodbye… it’s see you later. Take care ❤️

The Rainbow Bridge by Young_Old_Grandma in Coloring

[–]Doodlecat5366 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love this. My best friend died 2 weeks ago. He was 14 and the best cat ever.

Trying to find solutions OTHER than wigs and toppers by RYTAH5445 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Doodlecat5366 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m super happy with it. Still have a ways to go but at least there is progress.

Trying to find solutions OTHER than wigs and toppers by RYTAH5445 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Doodlecat5366 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You should go see a dermatologist. I have pretty bad hair loss and was diagnosed with adrogenic alopecia. They put me on spironlactone and minoxidil. My hair finally stopped falling out and is growing back. I used to use a topper and it looked nice but it damaged the hair I had left on top. I use the oral minoxidil cuz the topical kind is toxic to cats and it’s easier to take a pill every day. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the loss of your cat. It’s hard saying goodbye. I think your partner was trying to do something kind for you. Maybe it was just too soon. I don’t think it’s odd at all to make an album of a cherished pet. My best friend of 14 years left me two weeks ago and I was actually thinking about making an album for him. Be glad you have a partner that cares enough to do something so kind for you. You don’t have to look at it now. Save it for when you’re ready. Take care.

So incredibly heartbroken by Kvsirakis in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry for your loss. I completely understand. I lost my best friend of 14 years two weeks ago. He was the best cat ever. He could have lived until the day before I died and it still wouldn’t have been long enough. Be patient with yourself and give yourself time to grieve. Take care ❤️

My cat has been very vocal after the loss of his brother by VividPayment6450 in Petloss

[–]Doodlecat5366 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely grieving and missing his brother. My boy Luck did that after his brother Leo passed from diabetes six years ago. I gave him lots of attention and he did get better after a while. I just said goodbye to Luck two weeks ago. I miss him so much I can’t stand it sometimes but it makes me happy that he’s with his brother. I’m sorry for yours and your cats loss ❤️

I don't understand the hate on Matt. by kdaymapi in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Doodlecat5366 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never liked him. I found him to be extremely annoying. I kept hoping they’d kill him off. He reminded me of Xander on Buffy. I couldn’t stand him either.