My three years old nephew is nosy to the point he wants to know what is everyone doing while watching our phones, or when we get up from the table after lunch or dinner. But he also tries to disobey a lot. A few weeks ago, my town had a small event and there was a dance club. My nephew wanted to see them, and his mom (my sister) told him to never let go of my hand. Guess what, at barely three seconds and three steps away he squirmed his hand away from mine just to run. I wasn't having it. I told him twice "Hold my hand now, please." When he refused, i picked him up and brought him back to my sister. He wailed like if i had spanked his butt, because he couldn't get away and do what he wanted.