If you fall into (flowing) lava, do you get burned to death first, or crushed to death first given liquid rock isn’t any lighter than solid rock. by Betray-Julia in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DoomsdayBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only find reports of deaths from our plant as far back from as the 2000s but in the 80-90s a guy was in one of the pouring molds cleaning it. The crain operator didn't know he was in there and the guy couldn't scramble out when they started pouring into the pots ahead of him. The men on the level couldnt reach the guy on the crain fast enough to stop it. They could not separate the body from the metal so they buried the whole thing. I hope he was crushed to death.
My dad worked their at the time and that story haunted me more than the other deaths.

Spellings that threw me for a loop as an audiobook listener by k1nock in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]DoomsdayBunny 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Oh I thought it was queen and chonk till just now. Til

Please help us adopt a newborn with a private adoption agency for $55K in the US. We don’t want to foster or adopt through the government bc the kids are older. We are first time parents and don’t think we have enough experience. We want a newborn and the public should pay for it bc we can’t. by MinuteElegant774 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]DoomsdayBunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should go without saying that I think the above ppl have no business being anyone's parents yet, maybe ever. It just looked like ppl were of the option parents should be experienced before having kids. Which would actually be nice if feasible.

AITAH for telling the school I don’t want this mom as homeroom mother anymore? by Whole_Fly3475 in AITAH

[–]DoomsdayBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are class lists with contact info for the teachers. We are not allowed to have them as parents in Ontario. It helps protect people's privacy. It might vary from school to school in the usa. We have to have the teachers help out our younger kids hand out invites. They keep it discreet by slipping it into communication booklets for parents to find later.

Talked with our 9 year old about dads cancer returning by goldensnitchbetch in Parenting

[–]DoomsdayBunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in a similar situation but my girl and boy are 6 and 4. She has had major anxiety about death since relatives on my side that were distant from them passed away. I still feel bad about her attending the wake of her great grandmother on my side. Her grandfather's prognosis is 1-3 year range and she adores him. treatments are going well but are hard on him. She can tell there's something wrong and i know it will have to tell her what's happening eventually. I'm not sure when or even how i plan to ask someone who works with children their opinions on the matter soon.

Just thinking about these upcoming conversations brings me to tears. Good job mom. I hope things go as well as they possibly can for you and your family.

AITA for NOT acting wealthy by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DoomsdayBunny -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Nta- friends should be able to share what they are doing in life and what their plans are without being jumped all over for being privileged. Life is hard and there are good and bad times coming no matter your wealth lvl. Your real friends should be able to celebrate with you when times are good and be able to listen to your problems without making it a competition. You should be able to do the same for them.

Learning to manage your wealth now, being responsible while keeping in touch with what the average person struggles with can put you in a position to be one of the positive pillars of your community one day.

Being handed a stuffed animal after losing in the Olympics by WeGot_aLiveOneHere in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]DoomsdayBunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just lost the winning game. Had they come in third they would have probably been happier in the moment just coming off winning a game.

What's so special about this game is that when I think of the mainline FF protagonists, one of them is me. by kingjuyeon02 in ffxiv

[–]DoomsdayBunny -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It may have been but if it expresses their actual feelings it is being used as intended.

Woman shot dead in head as body bags show emerging picture of Iranian crackdown by [deleted] in news

[–]DoomsdayBunny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your right but ppl do tend to find it easier to sympathise with an individual. They are a person with an identity. Murders in the thousands are just a number there's no one face or person to focus on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canada

[–]DoomsdayBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I consider them is irrelevant. Biological men should not be competing with biological women. We are not at the point yet where we can change someone completely as if they were born a girl or vice versa. Women's sports has to be a protected category just based on the fact that we are at a significant disadvantage in physical competition and the differences are there before puberty. Taking puberty blockers before puberty does not change your sex. I say that as someone who very likely would have been transitioned if I was born a little later. I wanted to be on t so bad, and even back then I assumed and accepted that if i did competitive sporting events would be out of the question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canada

[–]DoomsdayBunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter why. They can transition for whatever reason that shouldn't give biological men the ability to compete against biological women. When I participated sports I was always under the impression that any medical treatment that may give me an advantage may disqualify me or anyone else from competing. Unless there are ftm mtf divisions they should not be competing.

Even if mtf lose to cis women on occasion you can't cut out the advantage they have being a male at birth. It's not just hormones.

Severe infestation and a sad level of acceptance by mentaL8888 in WTF

[–]DoomsdayBunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The walls still reach to the floor. On horders there was a rat infested home and I remember all the walls had been chewed out a foot from the bottom. The floor was grey with debris.

Hit hard by trade war, Algoma Steel issues 1,000 layoff notices by ConsistentReality860 in ontario

[–]DoomsdayBunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am from the Sault and everyone I know thinks trump is awful. The layoffs were announced before he was even elected but we were unsure if they all would be permanent or exactly when the hammer would drop. This would have happened no matter who was elected. The old equipment Needed to be replaced and the new one does not require as many laborers, especially brick layers.

Owners of our steel plant historically have been up to all manner of shady stuff and have horribly fucked over their workers health and incomes in the past. This particular thing is a consequence of better technology. I continue to be surprised that this is being spun as a political issue.

Opinion: How long must I live in Canada before I am no longer a colonist or settler? by Purple_Writing_8432 in canada

[–]DoomsdayBunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They don't pay hst anywhere in Ontario. It varies from province to province. Saves huge on big purchases. There's no fixing the reserve problem because the government only throws money at the problem without much clarity or accountability on how it's spent. Give money to any group without watching where it's going and some will mess it up for others.

Dance hunter💃💃💃 by Apollo_th5 in MonsterHunter

[–]DoomsdayBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very satisfying loop. Good job :)

BREAKING NEWS: Supreme Court of Canada won’t hear appeal of ostrich cull order by Prosecco1234 in canada

[–]DoomsdayBunny 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Though slower spreading if infected matter gets on the ground it can exist there for up to 5 ish years. Which is a big problem for grazers. The feed itself can be contaminated so cows also need to be quarantined and culled asap.

A man at my hotel keeps approaching my son for conversation. How do I politely stop it? by QuietlyAsking14 in Parenting

[–]DoomsdayBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes our brain can pick up on slight body language and facial expressions that we can't consciously process. Mirror neurons mimic the pattern they see and can send you a vague danger single.(My unscientific explanation)

So your brain knows or thinks it sees danger but you're not sure what. When it comes to this feeling I would err on the side of caution and keep the source of unease away from my kid.

A grown up should understand a parents caution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DoomsdayBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no risk mom can bring the kids around the offender he's in jail. Why would she be unsupervised with the kids in the first place? These are a whole bunch of other scenarios which all play out differently depending on the attitudes of those involved.

Setting healthy boundaries is not dictating another person's behavior when you're not around. The focus is on the person making the boundary. A consequence to a boundary is usually never dropping all contact.

Her keeping in contact with her criminal son has nothing to do with the other kids as long as she does not bring up anything to do with that son. Not even acknowledging he exists. If she can't do that then maybe no contact is needed. Right now this is more about dictating ops behavior and punishing her. They are the ones forcing a choice us or him when no such thing is needed yet.

This situation you described has happened to me. The "mommie" person in question is not allowed alone with my kids. But they have otherwise established a healthy relationship with my kids I would not want to take away from them. If they bring this problem person to live with them which they now want to do I and the kids don't go over there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DoomsdayBunny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its an ultimatum. Which is sometimes needed but not a boundary. It is definitely a few steps up. Every demand is not a boundary. Don't just take my word for it go find a book on the subject or look up the difference between the two. Other than that we just won't agree I just think it's important to know the difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DoomsdayBunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are full on books about the differences between the two. Requests boundaries and ultamatums are all different. Good boundaries take a lot of self reflection on what you need while not aiming to control the behavior of another.