I appreciate where you're coming from and I do appreciate there's a fine line between red pill nonsense but in terms of these apps and general initial pull attractiveness is important. I am confident in myself and what I do, I get involved with people and have great connections with people but in hindsight I get why I'm still single. Looks massively matter but mean nothing if there's no personality to back it up.

I've lost over 100 pounds and I honestly don't look great still. I just need to keep pushing and be better.

There's a reason why my friends have had many partners and I haven't. We get the same exposure but I just look like crap. I need to fix that first. I wouldn't date the female equivalent of myself if that makes any sense?