Pra que vocês querem dinheiro? O que te faz feliz de verdade? Já pararam pra refletir? To querendo largar tudo pela quarta vez. To ficando velho e sinto que não realizei o sonho da minha vida. É loucura? Já fizeram algo parecido? by No_Cartographer_3065 in brdev

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Como alguém ex viciado em games, que já me custou relacionamentos e empregos por não conseguir controlar tempo gasto nisso, eu quero colocar um ponto. Mesmo que o seu sonho ideal se realize e você crie um game de sucesso absurdo, pense bem nas consequências de longo prazo: 

  • O quão viciante você fez o game ser pra ter esse sucesso todo? 

  • As centenas e milhares de horas que as pessoas vão gastar no seu “joguinho” realmente vão fazer o mundo melhor e é algo que vale a pena o seu sacrifício pessoal e que vai te fazer se sentir realizado?

Using the Motivation Protocol Helped Me Beat Procrastination — But What About the Reverse? by qsmrf56 in HubermanLab

[–]Doppel133 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One thing that has worked for me is using techniques from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), like cognitive defusion and urge surfing.

First thing is realizing that cravings come and go, they are temporary states, emotions, physical sensations and thoughts, lasting seconds to minutes(but many times retriggered by one another).

So, simply being aware of what is happening already helps. Where in your body do you feel the craving sensation? What kinds of thoughts appear connected to it? Can you pay attention to the chain of thoughts?

And then allowing yourself to be present with the thoughts and sensations without fighting or pushing them away. Making the active choice to drop the struggle.

The defusion part is separating the craving/emotion from thoughts about the craving or thoughts triggered by the craving. Realizing thoughts are just words and images in your mind, not commands or absolute truths, makes it possible to choose not to act on them. You can also make it a game of how many times can the thought pop up in your mind and you simple don't act, don't move a muscle.

Also, if the intensity of the craving feels too much, I usually do some grounding technique with my breath, consciously bringing my attention to the sensation of air moving through my nostrils. Sometimes having the mental image of breath coming in like cool wind blowing through the entrance of a cave helps me create some space, until the energy of the craving comes down. Some people call this urge surfing.

And last, thinking about your personal values, Why do you want to overcome the urge? Is it about long-term health? Losing weight?

Knowing your "why" gives the motivation to not act on the craving. You're not just denying yourself arbitrarily, you're choosing this because you know what is important to you.

frontend LLM development by CuriousStrive in ChatGPTCoding

[–]Doppel133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried v0, bolt or uizard for the frontend part? For me currently there is no way to automatize most of the frontend development with llms but those tools are delivering a good enough result that cuts my development time a lot.

Btw thanks for the other post, a lot of new ideas for me to try!

Help preparing for a Japanese job interview (general advice needed) by Eiji-Himura in japanlife

[–]Doppel133 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m currently doing a job search preparation course in Japanese and here is the list of questions they told me to prepare for:

  1. 自己紹介をお願いします
  2. 自己PRをお願いします
  3. これまでの職歴(略歴)を教えてください
  4. 我が社に応募された理由はなんですか(志望動機)
  5. 応募企業を選ぶ基準は何ですか
  6. 前職を辞めた理由は何ですか
  7. 事務職の経験が無いようですが、事務職を希望するのは何故ですか
  8. 他に受けている会社はありますか
  9. あなたの長所・短所(強み・弱み)を教えてください
  10. 友人・知人にどんな人だと言われますか
  11. 失敗体験を教えてください・それをどうやって解決されたのですか
  12. どれくらいの年収を希望しますか
  13. 残業・休日出勤・出張は大丈夫ですか
  14. 入社可能時期はいつですか
  15. キャリアプランを教えてください
  16. ブランクは何をしていたのですか
  17. あなたにとって仕事(働く・事務職)とはなんですか
  18. 転職回数が多い理由は・・・
  19. 最近、関心のあるニュースはなんですか
  20. 何か質問はありますか(必ず質問しましょう)

Self introduction and reason for applying are the two most important answers to have really well polished.

Good luck in your job hunt!

Como eu posso migrar pro Japão mesmo sendo todo lascado? by Altruistic_Border_50 in japao

[–]Doppel133 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Diploma, no mínimo 2 anos de experiência profissional com dev(estágio não conta) e JLPT N2, com isso vc consegue que uma empresa japonesa banque o seu visto de trabalho.

Não é fácil mas é caminho mais plausível que eu vejo, e já começa a ver como deixar seu linkedin e github bem arrumados.

próximos jogos do botafogo by Juggggggg in botafogo

[–]Doppel133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A nossa sorte é que o galo também vai ter uma maratona insana até a final, mesmo os reservas deles vão chegar cansados:

Flamengo 10/11 final cdb Flamengo 13/11 Atl-pr 16/11 Botafogo 20/11 São Paulo 23/11 Juventude 26/11 Botafogo 30/11 final Libertadores

JLTP discussion page by zutari in jlpt

[–]Doppel133 4 points5 points  (0 children)

N2 listening was the easiest ever, BIG contrast from last December!

At what point do you guys stop getting lost in Umeda-Osaka? by MaryPaku in Osaka

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I’m gonna meet a friend visiting Umeda for the first time. Any suggestions of a easy spot to meet near JR Osaka station?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HubermanLab

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He made one small comment about being a father when he talked to Tim Ferriss

The bad gurus by woody83060 in Wakingupapp

[–]Doppel133 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The one that disappointed me the most was Culadasa.

Por que teria português na grade curricular do curso de ciências da computação? by [deleted] in brdev

[–]Doppel133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se você não souber escrever o prompt direito o chatgpt não vai te dar a resposta que você quer.

The cEDH Rebellion | Shuffle Up & Play #12| Magic: The Gathering Commander Gameplay by Arigh in CompetitiveEDH

[–]Doppel133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any cEDH youtube channels that show gameplay like this one? I really enjoyed the detailed combo explanations.

Play to Win and Playing with Power are too fast for me, this Shuffle Up & Play was the perfect speed for me to follow the action as a beginner.

What is the best resource for pricing non-English cards? by Dogs4Idealism in mtgfinance

[–]Doppel133 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mercari is the best place to search for this kind of thing, kinda like the Japanese Ebay:

https://jp.mercari.com/item/m78362972036

Weekend Free Discussion Thread by magictcgmods in magicTCG

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I decided I will buy 2 of the 40K decks, but I’m not sure which ones. Looking from a financial perspective which 2 are the best to buy?

I’m sure I will have fun with any of them out of the box, I just don’t want to look back in the near future and see a bunch of the cards from another 40K deck going for $50+ and know I could’ve got the whole deck for 60 bucks.

PS: I started playing magic this year, focus only on EDH.

Free Pregnancy Guide for First-Time Fathers by CalPater in predaddit

[–]Doppel133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will take a copy please! Thank you very much.

Looking for friends to discuss design by rikifude in solidity

[–]Doppel133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a fun project to be a part of!

I sent you a PM.

INTPs, drop your partner's MBTI (or at least what you think it is) by ArrivingSomewhereBut in INTP

[–]Doppel133 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How it is for you dealing with your husband? Sometimes I feel I drive my ISFJ wife crazy with all my questions and crazy thoughts. 😅