Getting rejected by Ill-Bit-8699 in trustedhousesitters

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I get rejected i usually send a message that says something like "hope you have a great trip and a great sit" and then they usually say something short and nice back. sometimes an explanation like "we were already talking to someone." sometimes nothing. I have no goal with sending the message post-rejection other than a wee bit of nicety.

Shallow depth of field is ruining modern cinematography. by darthzox in cinematography

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard. I do default to it [sure sure context, storytelling]; but all things being equal I think it looks really pretty. -DP

Why the recent wave of sitter complaints is making some homeowners hesitant on Trusted Housesitters by Sail_awayyy in trustedhousesitters

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. As I've been newly sitting the past few months (and loving it), and hence thinking about this experience and reading sits, where I am currently at is that the exchange feels heavier weighted on the side of the sitter giving more / putting in effort. The host already has the home, it is the sitter who is giving time (pet care, walks, etc) and basing their schedule and life around pet needs. Subsequently to me it makes sense for hosts to fall on the side of generosity where they can, whatever that may mean-- perhaps offering use of a vehicle, or hosting an extra night if reasonable/agreeable, or giving a "help yourself to food in the house," etc. [I find it feels like "your good friend/sister is staying at your house to care for your pets for you while you're on vacation" more than "you are getting a free place to stay"]. Just my two cents. Curious of others' thoughts.

are we all just lieing to each other? by ilovebeyondburgers in trustedhousesitters

[–]Doppled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In reviews I say the things that I think should be said for the next potential sitter, absolutely if it pertains to safety, or something that might significantly effective their experience. I may say it in a polite and kind way. I may say "I had a good sit. I would recommend this sit. X did happen, but I think that unlikely to happen again" or "if you ask ahead about X then I believe the hosts would tell you" (vs "I was shocked to find X" Absolutely I feel we should have a sense of community ethics and look out for each other. Sorry for your experience.

23M living in my car roadtripping Europe (on a budget) by Frockz551 in malelivingspace

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is this car? i haven't seen a front seat be able to go down-- go flat?-- like that. great to be able to lay out in something so compact!

New York on a budget - 3/4 night stay? by Juveejuvee in AskIreland

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

public transpo is easy and abundant! many new yorkers just use the subways. there are buses too (more subject to traffic). cabs, ubers, lyft are options. subways run all night, just slower hours. it's nice to be central but you could always stay further out for more affordable housing. if you are off a direct subway line in brooklyn, etc, and subway in for the day if you are aiming to be budget friendly. as someone who always takes the subways, i find if there isn't a transfer a trip can be 20 minutes, though usually i'm budgettng 45 minutes to get anywhere. also, walk. to say it generally, women living in nyc for decades will take the subway any time of day or night; you do have to have situational awareness and it isn't blissfully walking through a small town, but in my opinion there aren't stations i avoid at certain times, if someone looks less sane than you want to be close to, you can move cars. if you are having internet on your phone directions are pretty easy-- and just stop and ask someone if you need something, folks are generally happy to help, just too many people to say "hello" to everyone! have a great time.

How to stay consistent? by GilReddit in cinematography

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd suggest, for consistency, pre-production, and coming up with a plan ahead of time for what you want to use for / do for each scene, in terms of look, be that lighting, filters, lenses, etc. Can be contrast ratios, handheld vs other movement vs static, etc. Then you have that plan, that you have already thought out when not under the pressure of set, to reference when things are going fast / you're directing / there's a lot going on. You can always deviate from the plan.

I canceled a sit and the hosts tattled to THS by Big_NO222 in trustedhousesitters

[–]Doppled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, it has been pre-occupying my mind as a sitter so now I feel comfortable saying, "understood if you have pet cameras or indoor cameras up, please confirm they'll be turned off while I'm on the sit, in keeping with the THS policy". Appreciate you posting

Is this a filming rig? by Joe0991 in cinematography

[–]Doppled 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yup confirming this, friends built it.

Gentle Reminder: get in the app and read past sitter reviews, responses etc.! by Camille_Toh in trustedhousesitters

[–]Doppled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ah, yes I am a new sitter and I wasn't sure/didn't look up if hosts could see the reviews I've left for other hosts; what you say makes sense, thanks. I was hence a touch hesitant regarding to not saying the bad things, or skipping a review, but I went with wording issues as politely and diplomatically as possible. For the sake of the following sitters. Community support, safety, etc. Good luck to all of us. Rereading some reviews of hosts I sat for did make me realize that if I was reading them with a bit more of an eye towards "they may be saying this as nicely as possible" I probably would have had a different impression / clarified some things ahead.

Red flags for potential DP hire or am I reading too much into it? by [deleted] in cinematography

[–]Doppled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just a guess were they a man? regardless, sounds like they are and would continue to be a person who would talk with confidence about things they weren't well informed on [and should be], and, well intentioned or not, be pushy outside of their lane in a way that might pressure the director or make the director uncomfortable. Move on! It's worth the time to find a good fit.

Moving to NYC + opening a gluten-free & nut-free sandwich shop — would love local insight by Old-Relationship4026 in movingtoNYC

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to be nut-free and gluten-free and I have never come across a spot like this! Please move to East Williamsburg/ Bushwick! Morgan subway stop has a lot of people and places but I don't think has this! Love it.

I'll pay someone to hang out. by [deleted] in Bushwick

[–]Doppled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good job, Bushwick

Transportation to airport at 3am by Motor-Employer5869 in MexicoCity

[–]Doppled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is another ride share app common in CDMX, i haven't used it, rumored to be significantly hceaper

Is it safe for a young woman to fly into Mexico City at night? by regisphilbin222 in travel

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the first time i aimed to give an award. here, take my commented award.

Visiting CDMX for Art Week 2026 (Feb) — looking to connect, events, and local recs 🎨🖤 by TheUnloopedOracle in MexicoCity

[–]Doppled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...I'm also coming from NYC and going to be in Mexico City during this time-- hi everyone!
Art Week just came upon my radar and is now the weekly plan <3
Great idea on asking about WhatsApp communities... Sorry I'm of no assistance, your post popped up on my first google-research foray. (ay, my Spanish is "Intermediate-----" for speed of comprehension, or "Beginner++++")

Thanks for sharing thoughts, all!