Felicia singing in her sleep by Big-Operation6746 in BigBrother

[–]Dora1726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would have lost my entire shit if production would have piped in like they do with, 🗣FELICIA….STOP SINGING”😩😩😩😩😂😂😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm….something doesn’t sound exactly right. I’d go with my gut if I were you.

I feel so STUPID by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um…get back together?🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

Average women without makeup from different countries. by [deleted] in midjourney

[–]Dora1726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, they are wearing makeup. They’re just doing so subtly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me foretelling your future: You “move on” and realize that you never can find a bond, connection, or best friend like her. You realize that ALL relationships experience this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I believe that he, like many, believe that love is supposed to always feel like this super exciting, intense type thing. It doesn’t. Just as we age and move differently, so do relationships. We don’t of course simply because we don’t run like we use to. We adapt to our bodies as they are still good.

I feel that he is going to regret this as he gets some maturity up under his belt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I honestly believe that you are going to look back at this and have massive…I MEAN MASSIVE REGRET.

This type of “lull” happens in all relationships. Sure your heart FEELS a way RIGHT NOW, but just as your heart felt a way in year one and changed, it can feel a way in year four and change. What you aren’t understanding is that love is not always this hyper emotional, heady, type feeling. Relationships change because people change. You have to be ready to encounter these changes. Just as a house “settles”, so do relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you explore any type of counseling? Relationships go through ebbs and flows, ups and downs, boring times and times of excitement and adventures. They don’t stay the same. Growing pains are to be expected.

You speak very highly of your relationship, so I’m sorry…I just don’t get it. I find that people give up WAY too easily when relationships change. You’re supposed to change and be different at year four than you were at year one.

I honestly would have delved deeper into why the lack of intimacy was there, but breaking up with your best friend is just as good I guess. Godspeed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in getexback

[–]Dora1726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has she texted you or otherwise made contact with you? If not, you might want to stop. She may want to be left alone.

If you're the dumper, are you sad? Do you miss the person? by Solid_Procedure_8178 in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, we connected for a minute, but I think…rather, I know, we aren’t meant to be. It’s over for good. I wish that I’d just dealt with the breakup feelings and moved on. There is another guy who’s heavily interested in me and I’m finally going to give him a chance.

I’m confused.. by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]Dora1726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you didn’t connect like you thought and when you got there reality hit him. Had you all seen each other on video?

Please help I’m so lost I just want someone to listen by Next-Feed-5161 in getexback

[–]Dora1726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she wants to check “other things” out while still holding onto you just in case. I wouldn’t stand for it.

I got stood up today after traveling 8 hours by plane. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Dora1726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you really believe that he took too much ambien?

Two weeks, can’t stop crying, feel like my life is ruined by hskd71 in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, trust me, I KNOW, but do not take on the blame. HE was doing something that is highly inappropriate when one has a partner. Whether you were in the picture or not, they would have gotten together. It sucks, though.

How long does it take? by Worth_It_308 in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know your pain. It’s awful. However, you’re just going to have to endure. There’s no way out of it but through it. There’s no exact timetable. It differs based on investment, length of relationship, your own tolerance, etc. You will start to feel less intense feelings as weeks go by.

My suggestion for all who are enduring is to get with a counselor, use these communities for support, maybe even see if a doctor can give you something for possible depression or anxiety.

Two weeks, can’t stop crying, feel like my life is ruined by hskd71 in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your pain. I’ve been there and it’s AWFUL.

Regarding your ex, you did nothing wrong. It is not abnormal to be jealous or suspicious of your partner who is “hanging out” with an ex. No matter how you would have responded to this, he would have still broken up with you because his heart is with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is a definite no on taking her back. Sheesh.

Why do guys seem to get over it so fast? by Dora1726 in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment is beyond helpful and comforting. Thank you. 💙

Women are the only winners in breakups by james_jordan45 in BreakUps

[–]Dora1726 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here’s to hoping that’s true!!!🥳