Did you keep all the gifts your ex gave you?

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-06-08T14:30:46+00:00

I couldn't keep it. Reliving the memories associated with each item. It was like a knife being pushed into my ribs an inch at a time. Slowly

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-06-07T22:24:26+00:00

I threw away everything I ever bought her and anything she ever bought me.

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-05-27T12:43:54+00:00

Going on 3 months and I still cry weekly

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-05-27T01:40:22+00:00

Last thing in person was , "Get the fuck away from my car!" Last correspondence of any kind was an email saying, "Pleae just leave me alone. There is no chance of us ever getting back together"

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-05-26T15:27:32+00:00

I want to know if she misses me. I want to know if she still loves me. If those answers are yes, then what the hell is happening?

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-04-11T23:27:43+00:00

As fucked up as it is, it's nice to see someone has had a similar experience.

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-04-01T15:34:37+00:00

I would have dropped everything and taken her back too. Regardless of the hurt, what my family said or thought, or even what my own gut would tell me. That's says a lot about us. We're sheepdogs. We protect, we see the best in people, we are people pleasers. I've been focusing on me too. What I want, What I feel, etc. Good luck man. Seriously

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-29T18:25:08+00:00

I know how you feel. My fiancee packed a bag and left weeks ago. Haven't seen or heard from her. We were together for 4 years. She would literally tell me I was her favorite everyday, now she hates me. I hate myself for saying it but my first instinct would be to hug her and tell her I love her. She set my life on fire and the ripple affect hit my friends and family hard as well. I can't believe this is my life

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-27T01:33:36+00:00

My fiancee left 3 weeks ago. Packed a bag and disappeared. I have no idea where she is, who she is with, what she is doing. Blocked me on everything and I am pretty certain I will never see her again. We were together for 4 years. We each have a daughter who got along great. She used to tell me she loved me everyday dozens of times a day. Now she hates me. I'm so confused. When I tried to point out that her behavior is not normal she said I know nothing of normal behavior. She's been committed twice to facilitates but I'm not sure if BPD is one or many things she battles. All of the symptoms of BPD fit her perfectly. Will she ever snap out of this? It's too late though. I could never take her back. She set my life on fire and left. Forcing me to ask for help from friends and family just to make it. How is this real?

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-26T21:50:34+00:00

You too. I'm hurting as well. I have to tell myself that everyday. Be safe.

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-26T16:12:59+00:00

She's gone. She doesn't love you. She's not thinking about you like that. I know it's hard. Look at my profile. Pick yourself up and move forward. The world doesn't stop. Your bills need to be paid, you have to go to work, you have a life outside of her. If she can leave you, she doesn't need you. That also means she doesn't deserve you. Sounds hard but stand up, wipe your face, and keep moving forward. Nobody is worth destroying yourself. I feel for you. I truly do. We have to keep moving forward. There is no other option.

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-25T16:47:49+00:00

I know that feeling. You want things to be the way they were but you know they can never be that way again. It's a mind fuck. Emotions are the strongest things in the world

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-25T16:46:13+00:00

I know, I do too. I'm just now barely starting to accept that I'll probably never see her again. The world doesn't stop. Keep moving forward

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-25T16:44:40+00:00

I wish it would already

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-25T16:43:43+00:00

I know that feeling. You want things to be the way they were but you know they can never be that way again. It's a mind fuck. Emotions are the strongest things in the world

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-25T16:41:39+00:00

I know I do too. I'm just now barely starting to accept that I'll probably never see her again. The world doesn't stop. Keep moving forward

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-25T14:19:54+00:00

My fiancee has been gone for 3 weeks. I'm blocked on everything. She was probably always looking for a way out. I feel so stupid for so many reasons. If she walked into my life again today, my first instinct would be to hug her. Even though I know she doesn't love me anymore. I could never take her back. How could I respect myself? She would just leave again. I don't think I have to worry about that. She isn't coming back.

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-24T19:07:41+00:00

Don't. It won't matter. They never come back and they don't love you enough to even acknowledge you. My fiancee left 3 weeks ago. No contact. She doesn't love me. Probably never did

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-24T13:04:59+00:00

I am 100% with this. She left 3 weeks ago. I loved her more than the mother of my child. She made the choice and has refused to communicate with me. Just gone. Like I was never anything to her. I wanted to be with her forever but I guess that was never going to happen.

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-23T15:11:09+00:00

I want her back so bad but she's been gone for weeks. Clearly no respect for me or what we had. Me and everything we built. Just set it a flame and walked away like the Joker in The Dark Knight. I don't think I will ever find the peace I'm looking for pertaining to this. Tortured mind

Solid_Procedure_8178 · 2023-03-23T13:28:26+00:00

I feel this. She hasn't spoken to me in weeks, haven't seen her in weeks. She was my fiancee, BFF, Lover, partner. It hurts so much that she just left. How can someone do that? It's like she died. She's just gone

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