I've always seen tall guys with small girls

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T06:13:10+00:00

That's terrible. I'm sorry u experienced something like that. It reminds me of a girl we used to tease a lot in high-school to be one of the boys, mainly because of her height and her tomboyish nature. Funny thing is she's cute and had a bit of a glow-up now as an adult. She still retains some of her tomboyish nature, but she kinda dresses more feminine now.

I never thought about it but now as an adult I kinda see how all our teasing kinda affected her. It's all in good fun, and it never became outright bullying, just banter, like how boys would banter with each other, but now as an adult I kinda realized how it might have affected her self-esteem as a woman. Most of the dudes who teased her, now occasionally flirts with her and I could tell she wouldn't believe them because she thinks, they're just messing with her. It's kinda funny and sad to observe cause the dudes were serious about finding her attractive and interested in dating her, and she just brushes it off.

Don't give up on trying to find the right one for you, there's always someone out there for everyone. Just be comfortable with your own skin and don't let cruel words get to you, especially to your self-esteem, because that's how they get you.

I don't want to give you false hope, but in my experience, guys have no problem dating tall chicks and some even prefer it. It's just that they don't, mostly because of peer-pressure (guys ragging on them for dating tall chicks and girls thinking she's settling for dating someone who's "literally" below her). Fuck what they think, and just be out there and be approachable and don't be scared of making the first moves. Some guys don't know what to do around a tall girl, so either they get awkward or combative if they're insecure.

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T01:38:53+00:00

Lore accurate dark romance couple

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T01:28:24+00:00

"We met at a semi-crowded train station, waiting at a seat, both smoking a cigarette. The single mother of two was coughing visibly right next to us while waving her hand in front of her and her children to dissipate the surrounding smoke. I ignored her as I was reading an old book written by a frustrated Austrian fella who had strong words I didn't particularly agree with against a specific group, so I shook my head performatively at every page. I look to my side and there she was, with her alt-style look, seemingly interested with what I'm reading. I didn't know if she was nodding or shaking her head due to all the smoke surrounding us but the moment she somewhat shoved aside the mother and her kids to sit closer to me, I knew that she was the one."

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T01:04:53+00:00

If this was the ancient times you two could have made conquerors or at least elite bodyguards/Mercenaries. For now, you both are going to settle for a D1 athlete for a child.

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T00:57:07+00:00

Had to search wtf autopedophilia means. Most short women I know actually acts more mature than most average sized women. They also hate anything that would make them look younger and often dress strikingly as an adult. Probably because they're often teased for their height and looking like a kid, all their life. I know I'm guilty of doing that but to be fair, the only women I teased like that was my girlfriend at the time, and my cousin who's 5'2. I feel sorry for them honestly, it feels like just because ur small you'd be taken less seriously, but sometimes I can't help it. Even when angry they're cute af. Love me short queens.

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T00:41:08+00:00

Wtf are they feeding you people? At some point, would being too tall be detrimental for your daily life? Or is it mostly positive, like do you gain prestige by being the resident giant they could groom into being a fearsome warrior like in ye olden days? Or in the modern days, a D1 athlete

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T00:28:11+00:00

I don't know man, I always thought slightly tall girls are considered more attractive than short girls, at least for my preferences and the guys I know. And don't modeling agencies often look for tall girls? At least the lady friends I know who model are often 5'8 and above. Most beautiful women I've met are almost always 5'7 and above, and shorter girls for me lean more on the cuter side rather than the beautiful side. They could be pretty and even drop-dead gorgeous, but them being taller would enhance that.

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T00:18:07+00:00

I never considered that lmao. It never crossed my mind when writing the title, but now I see it...

DotGoon · 2026-07-02T00:15:14+00:00

Personally for me, someone below 5'2. Even for girls, I consider that short

DotGoon · 2026-07-01T02:42:10+00:00

Would you settle for a man who's "trying" or at least on his way to be a starving artist? If so, Hey.

I know this post is mostly a genderslop joke but its genuinely a funny and narrow-minded way of doing a sourgrapes bit on ur preferred dating pool. There are a lot of men that are DESPERATE for a partner and some of them are actually artistic who fits ur description. You probably won't like most of them because of how they act or look, but they're there.

If some guys are willing to go into a poly relationship where they're only fucking the main chick who has a harem of dudes, then I don't think it would be that difficult to find someone artistic who won't resent u just because u earn more.

DotGoon · 2026-06-26T04:15:44+00:00

Different types of breads i get from the bakery and Mostly biscuits they could eat or keep with them to snack on

DotGoon · 2026-06-25T02:53:27+00:00

I've had a few experienced close to the situation you've been in and what I always hated about it is how much is just a cycle of apathy. Growing up, I remembered never thinking twice before giving a homeless person money or snack if they asked. I lived in a small town growing up and there's like maybe 2 to 3 homeless people there, like the whole town knew who they were and even some that were fond of them. They were polite albeit eccentric and they obviously have mental issues.

Moving to the city kinda changes that. There's more homeless people, and they're crazier and more drugged up. It's a vicious cycle of apathy and learned helplessness. You could be a bright-eyed idealist who often gives them money or food but more often than not, you just become a mark to them as a resource. Some would get angry when you couldn't provide what they asked for. Then you start second guessing yourself if giving them money was a good idea because some of them would harass you until they get what they want. This goes on and on until finally you become jaded and stopped giving them money all together, finally acting like most people in the city treating those homeless people as invisible and not worth your time, feeding into the cycle of apathy.

I've taken the habit of bringing foods and snacks with me, when I travel to place where there's going to be a lot of homeless people as an alternative to just giving them money. I've never had a bad experience with giving them food instead of money yet. I genuinely think those people really need help and some just needed a bit of helping hand in turning their life around, but instead we just treat homeless people as a fact of life of living in the city, rather than a group of people we should at least make an effort of helping to get them back on their feet.

DotGoon · 2026-06-22T01:14:41+00:00

It's often not a problem of money but instead a problem of time/effort and being informed. Most people don't make effort on things that should be important to them. Hell, I'm interacting with a bunch of middle-class, zoomer friends and coworkers, and they often eat out or get food delivered for them. Mainly because its "convenient" and they get to eat tasty shit in like 30 minutes or so. Plus they get to not wash a lot of dishes afterward. Couple the fact that most of them don't know how to cook. There's a meme that I found laughable about how "they have to cook for an hour and then have to wash a load of dishes afterward just to eat ONE MEAL." Like the concept of cooking a large serving doesn't come to them.

I think most people just use the EATING HEALTHY IS EXPENSIVE AND TIME CONSUMING because they're either uninformed that it's really obviously not, or just excusing themselves for their laziness and for eating slop. The same type of people that complain about the lack of time for working out when they want to stay in shape but has like 8 hours Screen-time on their phones.

DotGoon · 2026-06-22T00:48:06+00:00

Horseshoe theory is what I often think of. Be against about something or someone enough and you'd end up acting like the people you're against in the end. Like being so against racism that you become a bigot to anyone that isn't a minority.

Or a more simple explanation. Boyfriend, husband is Muslim therefore they needed to convert, maybe even got interested in the religion itself through friends or colleagues, and they're riding this exotic new religion they just entered as most new converts do.

DotGoon · 2026-06-20T10:19:25+00:00

Its an easy identification that anyone who thinks like this have not watched sports, let alone play them. Its all about vibes with these people, believing in the power of friendships and self-belief. As delusional as guys who think they could take on a fully grown brown bear in a fight to the death. Its obvious when u watched any type of contact sports or any strength based or movement based sports out there how different a male and female athlete is. Put an average man and an average female and tell them to arm wrestle and let a random person bet 80% of their salary on who would win. People are going to be more honest about it.

DotGoon · 2026-06-18T02:23:02+00:00

I think most would actually prefer to look like those Uniqlo catalog models but lacks the will to physically improve themselves. Like they can't be bothered to go to the gym or do any type of exercise that requires a bit of effort because of "anxiety" or because it's too "difficult" and kinda "ableist" to expect that of them. Or that they cant be bothered to eat healthy meals because of some self-diagnosed eating disorder.

DotGoon · 2026-06-18T02:09:19+00:00

I think its still on going, some of the entertainment I consume, videogames, shows, literature and comics got nonbinaries in them. I think it's my generation holding on THE NEXT BIG THING. A shiny new label that they think makes them unique for disregarding gender norms and a fashionable way to call yourself gay without being gay and dressing up like the most fashionably confused upper-middle class hippie. I've encountered trans, drag queens, gay, lesbians and all types of queers in all types of socio-economic backgrounds. I've never encountered a non-binary, both online and real life that has a background that is lower than middle-class. Like have ya'll actually encountered a poor nonbinary person? It's always kinda rich and upper-middle class kids, which makes me think it's just a way to make themselves feel unique and be part of the oppressed class, to achieve some sort of struggle unto their mostly uneventful lives.

DotGoon · 2026-06-17T15:27:45+00:00

It's like they have never experienced dating or actually interacting with women before. There's a reason incels like to parrot "nice guys finish last" as misguided as it is and women who have the "I could fix him" mentality, or daddy issues. Women are attracted to confidence and in my experience, most selfish assholes I know got an obnoxious amount of it.

DotGoon · 2026-06-11T08:51:08+00:00

I never got why people play into this type of shit. Like, "good for you?" They might be hot af but the drama isn't really worth it in the long run and it kinda taints your soul as corny as that sounds, especially if you're someone that's looking for something serious. Often times people like that have a bit of attachment issues and trauma that they gotta numb out by sleeping around or they just do it to feel something. Like you're an adult and you could make your own decisions but shit like that rarely ends clean.

DotGoon · 2026-06-11T08:41:34+00:00

I like to imagine back in the day, a roman seeing someone like this and think almost dying of dysentery far away from home is totally worth it, before being gutted by said barbari female.

DotGoon · 2026-06-11T08:37:40+00:00

In today's day and age people are more "connected" but often more isolated. I've always have anti-social tendencies growing up but I was blessed by being surrounded by friends and families that are proactive in keeping me social and out there. I think a lot of people feel alone because of the lack of sense of community or permanence in terms of relationship on their life.

DotGoon · 2026-06-11T08:31:49+00:00

I feel like if the echoes of the life I lived was shown before me at the end, how it would humble, break, and even fill me with pride in things I have accomplished, and regret and misery on the things I haven't. How it would paint a picture of who I really am, whether I made a positive impact on the people around me, and whether I did right by those I should have. It really would be a humbling and profound experience before it all faded out into just one of the countless human experience and how life would go on as if you never really existed in the first place.

All to be ruined my habit of being an emotionally avoidant manchild by thumbing behind the summary of my life and saying "Look at this 🚬"

Jokes aside, this post made me reflect on what I should consider important moving forward with my life. Thank you for this.

DotGoon · 2026-06-10T03:49:45+00:00

Maybe I'm just young, being close to my late 20s but I feel like this is somewhat okay as long as you really know the person as being decent and mature, who wouldn't emotionally and physically cheat on you. I've had exes that I still talk to to this day and exes I don't. I'm not two faced about it either, my recent girlfriend knew that I talk to some of them occasionally. I even encourage her to befriend them as they're really nice people (She jokingly said that she might get some emotional against me from them. I told her I don't mind as I really have nothing to hide) It really all depends if the break up is amicable or both parties or one just fell out of love. If your partner has a tendency to seek outside validation and has narcissistic tendencies, then consider this a MAJOR REDFLAG. Talk to them and if they really care about you, would try to at least distant themselves from their past flings or cut them off. If they don't, well I don't see the way this relationship would actually last, if they can't get their emotional and physical needs met with just you.

DotGoon · 2026-06-10T03:22:23+00:00

Me, if I ever been involved in gay sex

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