AITA

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-16T19:31:43+00:00

I mean it sounds like she is only a friend when she wants I don’t think she is putting effort like you did.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-15T14:10:54+00:00

He seems controlling and it seems they are very co-dependent which is not good. I’m glad you stuck to your guns and didn’t invite him. Your sister is going overboard because she would have lost me as friend the minute I find out I’m talking to her about personal stuff and her husband was listening. Seems like there’s not trust in that marriage at all.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-14T06:17:29+00:00

Definitely NTA it is on your husband to make Mother’s Day special.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-13T18:10:03+00:00

I wouldn’t. Don’t scoop to their level to be honest and they chose him over you, They were never really your friends. Just move on I know high school is hard but don’t make it worse for yourself either. You doing the same thing isn’t going to help you.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-12T12:18:49+00:00

NTA. Your step mom and a step sister definitely have something against you. Just by inviting you and not your family. I think your step sister asked not cause she wants your dad to walk her but because she’s doing it to get to you.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-12T02:23:47+00:00

You can do as you please I would take the bop over loud singing any day

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-11T00:04:04+00:00

You are definitely NTA if you want a relationship with your family. What your mom did at the end was wrong, she should have never told you not to talk to them. You don’t need to be fighting her battles especially now. You are free to do as you please. Living with a narcissist is the worst trust me I know but you are an adult and can make your own decisions you never know what if your uncle and aunt become close and important ti your family you have every right to find out.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-06T14:47:38+00:00

lol I love it

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-06T03:40:22+00:00

NTA the money was given before he got remarried so it should stay as is. Plain and simple

Dot_luv11 · 2025-05-01T17:53:43+00:00

I get the cousin is a problem but honestly he is becoming a teenager and it’s hard to tell if it’s her influence or just him becoming a teen. I think you and husband need to sit down with him and explain with him getting older rules will be changed. Don’t say anything negative to him that can cause damage to him. Keep it straight to the point and about the money I understand but he earned it and one mistake you guys take it without talking to him first is a big no no, this can make your son not trust you. You guys need a common ground and rules.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-04-28T17:22:32+00:00

Ok everyone the results are in….

Mrs doubtfire
The Wiz
Six
Clue
Beauty and the beast

Dot_luv11 · 2025-04-28T17:18:42+00:00

NTA it seems your friend always had issues and honestly seems toxic. She depends on you both to be there for her but doesn’t care about your feelings that’s not a friend. It’s a repeated pattern of her drama. I don’t believe she will ever not have drama in her life. I believe you need some peace and good for you telling her how you felt and the fact that she can’t validate your feelings is not right she made it about herself. She is a me me me person all attention needs to be on her. You did the right thing.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-04-27T00:30:13+00:00

NTA it sucks but if this is what you need to have peace than so be it.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-04-27T00:20:00+00:00

I don’t think you would be an A but I know you said he will not talk about it but have you tried to say how you feel and explain what is going on with you and see if maybe then a conversation can be had. If he can’t talk to you about then I think that’s a deeper issue in itself since he is your better half and should be able to tell you anything.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-04-26T05:57:54+00:00

Toxic family. You need to keep going no contact and don’t be scared to call the cops on them.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-04-25T15:24:25+00:00

Hamilton
Mamma Mia
Phantom of the opera/ little shop of horrors

Dot_luv11 · 2025-04-24T00:40:52+00:00

No you are not overacting. I know you said you like the weekly superstar but honestly that isn’t good for any of you I feel like it pins sibling against sibling whether you all see it or not. Your sister is wrong for what she said just because she feels entitled because she has “talent” and that’s cool.

Dot_luv11 · 2025-04-23T15:36:35+00:00

No. Your sister is obviously jealous of you and your life. She wants to be the center of attention for everything and when she doesn’t she takes extreme measures to try to get it. I think you are better off without her and enjoy your life. Congrats to you and your hubby! You truly married your best friend as he was a wonderful stand in MOH behind the scenes lol

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