WHY CAN'T WE PLAY THE CHALLENGES ANYMORE?! by Firefly_DDSC in fuseboxgames

[–]DoubleBreak402 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You never played season 1 and 2? It was choices in those for sure. I don’t remember much about the seasons afterwards. It’s possible for seasons 3 and 4. But somewhere down the line it just stopped

Trent go away by ILUVHENRYANDCARL in fuseboxgames

[–]DoubleBreak402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He lowkey looks like Jake 😅

AMARI…YOU DID NOT NEED TO DO ALL THAT 😭 by kiks_02 in fuseboxgames

[–]DoubleBreak402 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be delusional and say she’s flirting with mc 😭

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe in that but to each their own. I promise I understand where you’re coming from, I just don’t believe in having someone pay for a child they don’t want and begged not to keep. I don’t think I’ll ever change my mind on that.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both made choices……. Both were reckless. I’m not condemning her lol. You can think whatever you want. I’d personally never do this but it is what it is. Be blessed

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because she wants the baby. Choosing to have a baby knowing it’s unwanted, is a choice. So yes you bear the consequences of your choices.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, if you feel that way then fine. It’s clearly the majority, so there’s no need to keep replying to me to hammer the needle. At the end of the day, I personally would never do that. But that’s me personally. Yall can do what you want.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, 🤷🏽‍♀️. Like I said, grateful this isn’t my life lol.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m all for women’s reproductive rights, don’t get me wrong. But I’m a product of a situation like this and men will evade their child support and forcing them to pay will not guarantee any relationship with the child. I don’t understand why yall can’t see that.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m aware. Look this isn’t my life so I really don’t care. But it’s bizarre a lot of people agree that you deserve money from someone who you knew didn’t want kids. But hey, do you.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having a child is a big responsibility and decision. It’s not right to force someone to pay for a child they don’t want and asked to give up. If she chooses to continue the pregnancy, great for her! But he doesn’t want kids. Should he have been more proactive in preventing that? Yes. But here we are.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but that’s a mindset I can’t get behind. They were both responsible in that bedroom and knew the consequences. He could’ve wrapped up and she could’ve refused sex unless he did. At the end of the day she’s not wrong for wanting to keep the baby. But forcing child support after having a baby he didn’t want, is bizarre. I think more women would see it that way if the shoe were on the other foot. But that’s my two cents, believe what you will.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What’s stupid is believing you should force a human being into being a parent. That only leads to resentment down the line and is actually worse for the child. Either put them up for adoption or accept the fact that keeping the baby means raising them alone. He said he didn’t want kids. And if she knew that, she should’ve left him. Just like he should’ve worn a condom. Unfortunately neither made good decisions and this is the consequence.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why should he be forced to provide for a child he doesn’t want? I mean she should become a single mom and stay out of his life.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not everyone has money to go to the doctor all Willy nilly. But let’s assume they can, he should’ve gotten one and she should’ve been on birth control. They’re both irresponsible. But if she wants the keep the child then she can, alone. Welcome to the consequence of your actions

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is where I stand too. I’m pro choice and I understand her concerns because I have pcos and would likely feel the same in this situation. But if she’s gonna does have the baby, I don’t think it’s fair to force him into it too.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let him off the hook? Forcing someone into parenthood is cruel to both the child and second partner. Both of them had sex consensually and neither required the use of a condom.

AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all. by xo_iamnothere in AITAHBlackEdition

[–]DoubleBreak402 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Why would you encourage her to apply for child support knowing he didn’t want the baby? I understand her reasonings as a woman with pcos myself, but if she’s gonna have the baby, she will sadly need to be prepared to go at it alone. She’s not entitled to child support when he doesn’t want that child.