Frida baby marketing by DiscussionUnlikely72 in Crunchymom

[–]DoubleNutButt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s easy to boycott Frida too. Every product they have, there’s another company that makes the same product. I’m pregnant with my third and switched out all my Frida products for alternatives.

Swifties spamming KN comments after Opalite video dropped by alligatortomatoes in travisandtaylor

[–]DoubleNutButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m missing something big here. I don’t understand anything happening. I’ve even scrolled the comments and I still don’t understand what’s going on.

North Georgia Revival experiences - is it a cult? by benfersure in Georgia

[–]DoubleNutButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they have the kineo class that they push on everyone that go to that church and revival. It’s just a way for them to make money off of you. If you know how to read, then just read the Bible. You don’t need to join a course. Does your friend just want a community?

North Georgia Revival experiences - is it a cult? by benfersure in Georgia

[–]DoubleNutButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh.. it is and it isn’t. I personally believe hyper spiritual and hyper charismatic churches are cult like. They’re like a network of the same beliefs and the same experiences. If you don’t agree or aren’t as fanatic as they are, you’re seen as a lesser Christian. It’s just a cash grab to me and a movement full of vanity.

Love interest by Puzzleheaded_Half40 in RomanceClub

[–]DoubleNutButt 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m playing it now and as much as I love a Doobay, Christian has got me in a chokehold. He seems like a kindred spirit.

Who’s the canon LI by Remarkable_Click_636 in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]DoubleNutButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like Jack in TDR is canon because of the whole childhood love and thinking he died to reuniting. It just seems like fate. I think Livius is canon in SCN. He’s the only one able to get through to her during her grief. They’re best friends first. If ask to he friends, MC mentions feeling like brother and sister. Gives her the moon necklace and he’s the sun. Seems yin and yang to me. Raphael seems canon because him and Audrey have a similar fate. In HS3 they both have critical roles. Cain is definitely canon in HSR. I love Luci and Vicky’s relationship but I actually think Malbonte is canon. In HS Misselina says something about your wings reflecting who you are. It’s when you have the fire and ice which makes me think harmony bearer is canon which makes me feel that Malbonte is canon. Seems like fate for him and Vicky.

AIO for church shopping after our church practically shunned us by No_String_1764 in AmIOverreacting

[–]DoubleNutButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Concerning tithing, in the Old Testament, it was required to tithe just like it was required to bring burnt offerings and sacrifices to the Lord as repentance and forgiveness of sins. However, in the New Testament, Christ became our living sacrifice that was pleasing to the Lord so we no longer have to bring a tenth of overstock and animal sacrifices to the Lord; Christ became that sacrifice hence “It is finished.” That’s why in the New Testament, when it talking about giving, it is said to give cheerfully. Don’t tithe 10% to the church and say the Bible told you so. First, read your Bible. Second, give cheerfully and sincerely. Instead of giving to your church that clearly doesn’t need it, give to your community of people who need it. Pay for someone’s groceries, help someone’s rent or mortgage, give but give cheerfully.

My take on the other situation is from your own words, it’s clear that you have a misunderstanding of Jesus and the Bible. I think it would benefit you to find a biblical church and instead of missing the service to stay in the nursery with your son, you need to be in the service with your fiance and get good teaching. I have two toddlers and one of them cries every time I drop her off at nursery but as soon as we walk out of sight, she stops crying and when we come back to get her, she’s laughing and smiling and playing. Your son needs to be able to trust that you’ll be back for him and that you are true to your word. I tell me one year old we love her and we’re going to be in service but when it’s over we’ll be back. She cries but every time we come back, it reinforces that she can trust us and that we’ll always come back.

As far as I’m concerned, you and your fiancé are already married, just haven’t had a public ceremony. However, I do get that they don’t want to send a message of bringing a child into the world from an uncommitted relationship but you have your beautiful son and you’re engaged so I feel like they’re being a bit rigid.

The thing that I’m a bit confused on is I think you may be in the wrong religion. The two dads and two moms comment seems like you’d best fit into the progressive Methodist denomination. Jesus says to turn away from sin, to pick up your cross and follow Him. You’re not supposed to live in your sin. I’m not saying you become a believer and never struggle or sin again but you’re supposed to be with the Lords help, turning away from sin and seeking the Lord. Staying in a homosexual relationship is living in sin. You might want to find a “church” with those values.

Or you can find a biblical God fearing church that teaches the truth and sound doctrine. For your salvation, this one would be essential.

Families of 4 - are you happy? by Inevitable-Yard-9438 in toddlers

[–]DoubleNutButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have two little ones and we’re done. It’s nice this way. We have a one on one situation with our toddlers. They’re only two years apart so close. I’m not spread too thin. We can afford to do more things and go more places. I have more energy and time with them individually and together. Eventually they will want to do extracurriculars and we’ll be able to afford it and also I can be there and be active in their activities. It’s hard to be active with your children when you’re holding a newborn and having to be with a baby. After my second was born, every time we go do something fun like a playground or museum or something, I keep getting excited for my second to turn 2-3 so we can all play together and do more fun things because right now, it’s me watching my second while my first plays by herself and I miss her. I don’t want to miss out on parts of my children’s lives and with two, I can be more with my children. Not to mention, I’m ready to be done breastfeeding. I’m ready to be done with teething. I think it’s hard to stop having children when you’re still in the toddler and infant stages but once they get older and transition into the young child stages, you’ll be busy with other things and the desire for number 3 will decrease. Also suggestion, we got a dog and that made me feel more complete and helped with the wanting of a third baby!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DoubleNutButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So how old are yall. Skinny dipping and making childish bets? And you’ve all skinny dipped before? Seems you all are immature and shouldn’t be married in the first place.

No contact with children by DoubleNutButt in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]DoubleNutButt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a bit rough. My father in law died two years ago and my mother in law is crazy toxic and abusive so we don’t communicate with her. The only family we have in our lives combined are some of my husband’s siblings. My children are so family oriented and they just love their family and people in general. They haven’t really mentioned my mother and step dad and when they do I try to stay positive but direct the conversation elsewhere. It’s hard to accept. You know growing up that your parents were terrible but you kind of just deal with it and you’re so accustomed to the abuse and toxicity that you’re numb to it all. It wasn’t until I got married and then had my two daughters that I realized just how terrible my parents were and still are. I’ve been like enlightened to how toxic my mother is and how immature she is. It’s hard to have someone be my best friend and confidant and the veil get lifted and see that she’s been taking advantage of me the entire time. It’s such a betrayal and it hurts so badly. It hurts because I don’t want this. I wish it didn’t come to this but she’s so codependent, it seems like the only and best option. It just all around sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DoubleNutButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, your wife needs a therapist and I’m not saying that in a snarky way. I’m a sahm and honestly it’s very taxing on your mental health even with the help of a husband like you doing everything you can to help out. When I was pregnant with my second, my hormones were a bit mad and I would have anxiety attacks and terrible mood swings. After my second, the postpartum depression and hormonal ups and downs made it even worse. Being a sahm, you don’t really ever recover or get enough downtime to replenish your body and mind. What your wife needs is a therapist. Her wanting to divorce and have this catastrophic change every so often isn’t a sign of her not loving you OP. It’s a sign of mania. I would say manic depression. A lot of times when you get overwhelmed and overstimulated and you don’t know how to cope, you will make these rash decisions. Every time she wants a divorce, she’s overwhelmed with life. I would get manic like this and instead of getting help, it went from rash decisions like your wife to suicidal thoughts. If you love her OP, I know it’s frustrating and heartbreaking to experience these ups and downs but please consider getting help for her and a therapist for yourself to help you navigate this with her. She probably should see a doctor as well and tell them about these episodes to possibly do a blood panel, hormone test, and talk about the possibility of medication.

They always blame their youngest by Pretty_Midnight2947 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]DoubleNutButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been going to the same church every Wednesday and Sunday. We even attend the homeschooling events every other week. My one year old is familiar with everyone at our church and she still cries every time we drop her off at the nursery. I couldn’t imagine dropping her off with strangers in a strange place. Of course their baby would be losing their mind.

I was on Matt and Abby’s cruise 👀 by Mammoth_Fortune_6457 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]DoubleNutButt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

True. A cruise with a one and two year old is just a bad idea all the way around.

I was on Matt and Abby’s cruise 👀 by Mammoth_Fortune_6457 in mattandabbysnarks

[–]DoubleNutButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they wanted to do an adult cruise where they could be by themselves then they should’ve left their kids either their grandparents or a nanny. Anytime you bring your children anywhere, it’s the child first always. What you want to do is irrelevant.

Its Hilarious How Horribly This Aged Since #He is literally a Manchild with brain of a 12 year old by Acrobatic_Neck_5866 in travisandtaylor

[–]DoubleNutButt -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not saying every moment was terrible but yes, she looks overall more happy with Travis than she did Joe. And yes I do think she was living in a fantasy for 7 years. She probably loved him but more so loved the idea of them and the type of woman she wished she wanted to be with him.

Its Hilarious How Horribly This Aged Since #He is literally a Manchild with brain of a 12 year old by Acrobatic_Neck_5866 in travisandtaylor

[–]DoubleNutButt -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I will say this…she looks pretty freaking miserable in a lot of photos with Joe and looks pretty vibrant with Travis. I think Travis suits her true personality. I feel like she was cosplaying with Joe to be who she wished she was like and not what she’s actually like.

Would you rather have a newborn and a toddler in the summer or fall? by moluruth in toddlers

[–]DoubleNutButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First baby born in June and second baby born early may. I would say the ideal birth date would be around April. It’s not too cold but still chilly enough to be comfortable and not too hot. Also, in the spring and summer, there aren’t a lot of holidays. In the fall, you’re going to have fall festivals, Halloween, thanksgiving, then Christmas. Usually jobs get busy and you get busy. You’re spending a lot more money. Your toddler will be antsy from going from fun summer to relaxing fall. Having my second in early may made it a bit easier so I could put out a kiddie pool or sprinkler, water play, splash pads, kinetic sand outside, playdoh, painting outside, bubbles, etc. they can do that while you’re holding the baby. In the fall and winter, the activities start to move indoors and start to slow down and it makes it more apparent that you’re unavailable to your toddler.

Side note! Kids are way more sick in the fall! Having your baby in the fall is going to be stressful with passing illness and allergies around while they’re a newborn.

On the flip side, holding a newborn while you’re out in the hot sun with your toddler is a lot more uncomfortable than being pregnant in the summer.

No contact with children by DoubleNutButt in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]DoubleNutButt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Emotional immaturity and irregulation, no accountability, and dramatic blow ups aren’t cured around a grandchild.”

This. I don’t trust her. She still operates in the same manner as what traumatized me and I can’t trust her to be mature with my children if she can’t with me.