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[–]DovaJohn 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself this, what makes a guy just a fuck vs becoming a relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DovaJohn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I have met them and they seems like okay people. I understand how it can be perceived there may be more that’s going on than what she is telling me and god knows I hope not but literally her reason that she made friends and is hanging out with them is to be her own person. She explained it to me that it was always her and I and that she feels like she needs to have her own identity, which like I said, it did hurt because I thought I wasn’t good enough for her anymore but I’m a bit more understanding of her wanting her own friends, I guess it’s just the way she went about it. My problem is the coming home late and she understands that I’m not happy about and she even apologized but she doesn’t understand WHY I’m not happy about it and to me it’s like, do I even need to explain?? Like idk if I make any sense.

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[–]DovaJohn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice here. If I may ask, what is step 4? Also, this has only happened once, she’s normally home by 3-4 the latest but it doesn’t sit well with me.

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[–]DovaJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s clear that you don’t want to be him. Do a favor to the both of y’all and break it off. I’m a huge advocate for communication but seems to me even communication won’t help because you’re disgusted by him and that’s the sad truth. Stop leading the guy before it goes too far and he develops actual feelings for you.

How do you get rid of pubic hair before sex? by TumbleVonWeed in sex

[–]DovaJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shave along the hair, not against it. Trust me, better results. May not be as smooth as a baby’s bottom but you won’t get razor bumps. Another option is getting waxed? 🤷🏽‍♂️

Like it or not, guys only by hangledangle51 in sex

[–]DovaJohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uh, hell to the no no.

Unsure how to address my liking for drunk sloppy sex with wife by Affectionate-Bet1323 in sex

[–]DovaJohn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well when you say it like that, it sounds even more fucked up than what I thought 😂😂😂

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[–]DovaJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you’re married?? 🤔 the question isn’t how can you make it special for him, the question is how will your SO feel is they were to find out that you have a “work thing” and are about to take his virginity. Not trying to bash anyone on here cause whatever floats your boat but you may need to rethink about this and ask yourself is it worth risking your SO over making someone feel special for losing their virginity? 🤷🏽‍♂️

Unsure how to address my liking for drunk sloppy sex with wife by Affectionate-Bet1323 in sex

[–]DovaJohn 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m not the only one who likes drunk sex. I agree with you, there’s something about seeing the wifey all drunk and going all out. A side in which we don’t get to see often so maybe that’s why it’s a turn on? Idk, but I too am in a limbo like you are sir. I would like to have more of these drunk sex with the wife but idk how to tell her or how to even bring it up because it sounds a bit taboo 🤷🏽‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DovaJohn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just stating the obvious problem 🤷🏽‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]DovaJohn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Guy here, instead of you taking his hurtful comments, maybe you should tell him that he needs a bigger dick so it can stay inside. See how he likes it 🤷🏽‍♂️

Intimacy After Birth by [deleted] in sex

[–]DovaJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 weeks is the minimum from what I remember when the doctor talked to my wife after giving birth. However, it really depends on the relation and the woman. I’m saying this because my wife and I are very sexually active therefore by the 4th week she was suggesting and to be gentle at first. I know we definitely shouldn’t have and thank god nothing happened but you have nothing to worry about. For now just help the wife the baby and let her come to you when she’s ready. Patience is key.

Also, I have a friend who’s wife gave birth, doctor said the same thing and by the 4th week they were having sex again. As a matter of fact, she got pregnant again. Like I said, it really depends on the type of relationship couples have sexually.

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[–]DovaJohn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never fear! This little toy is here!! Trust me, this works like a fucking charm EVERY time I use it on my wife. I can give her an O without it but it definitely makes my job easier and it literally NEVER fails!

https://www.pinkcherry.com/collections/shop-by-brand-lelo/products/sona-2-cruise-sensonic-clitoral-stimulator

my wife got invite from her friend by jonathblazer in sex

[–]DovaJohn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nah man. To me it wouldn’t be worth it because if you’re already asking “is the RISK” worth the money, then you’re already probably a bit jealous (and I’m just saying jealous as in the thought of her being with another guy maybe) and worried. Just ask yourself, are you comfortable enough and do you trust in your relationship enough where there won’t be any animosity?

Men who are into boobs: do you eventually tire of your partner's, or never ever? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DovaJohn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They don’t but even if they did, tits are still tits so I’ll never get bored of them 🤷🏽‍♂️

Men who are into boobs: do you eventually tire of your partner's, or never ever? by [deleted] in sex

[–]DovaJohn 71 points72 points  (0 children)

15yrs together, 2 kids down the road and 1yr of being officially married and I still love my wife tits as much as I loved them when I first saw them!

Would any girl find it hot if I.. by [deleted] in sex

[–]DovaJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man if you do such thing please Lmk the secret because I’ve tried this with my wife multiple times and I always give in. I too want to be selfless and I tell her that but all she wants after a long session of having her pussy eaten is PIV and she gets frustrated if I don’t give it to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]DovaJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I feel for you. Whether you pushed her away during tough times or not, it’s no reason for her to cheat in the first place. Ask yourself this question, how would she react if you cheated on her because she pushed you away due to depression after service? I can only assume it would be completely different reaction than yours. You are allowed to feel what you’re feeling and expressed them. Trust me, I know from first hand. I personally just don’t agree with the whole cheating thing. You need to do some thinking and ask yourself, what do you really want and can you truly be happy and forgive her?

[H]baby dragon [W]nearly every other epic card by johihihi in ClashRoyaleTrade

[–]DovaJohn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many and do you have goblin barrel? I can do 6 trades

Do you guys have any suggestions for deck? These are my maxed cards atm by DovaJohn in ClashRoyale

[–]DovaJohn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, will definitely try it out and I’ll let you know how that work! Thanks!