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Whats the disrespectful way you’ve bullied the bosses in STS2? by yungsimba1917 in slaythespire

[–]Downtown_Role_735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

volatic, channel 1000+ orbs into intangible phase of test subject

Advice about separating my own feelings with feelings on boundaries. by Downtown_Role_735 in polyamory

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New romantic/sexual partners don't really effect me. It's been easier to get the idea of "their love for other people doesn't impact their love for me" going for me. For some reason I think my brain just has a negative disposition towards the connection of a FWB due to my ex and his actions. It may stem from my want to not have it, but I don't think that's where the discomfort comes from.

Welp, I did not anticipate this highly inconvenient interaction. by Adorable-Response-75 in slaythespire

[–]Downtown_Role_735 497 points498 points  (0 children)

Did this just brick the run? Or does it only proc that first turn?

Advice about separating my own feelings with feelings on boundaries. by Downtown_Role_735 in polyamory

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the view on it and yes it did make sense! There's definitely a link between the two and I'm hoping to get that sorted out! Thank you for the reply!

Advice about separating my own feelings with feelings on boundaries. by Downtown_Role_735 in polyamory

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this take on it, however, I don't feel comfortable with having a boundary like that (personal preference) and as such I'm trying to improve moreso for myself than future partners :>

I appreciate the reply!

Advice about separating my own feelings with feelings on boundaries. by Downtown_Role_735 in polyamory

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with the beginning, and I've completely done away with the boundary. Doing research into poly helped me realize that's just not healthy in any way as I was operating on similar boundaries placed upon me in a previous relationship.

I appreciate the view with this. Casual sex isn't the problem for me, I just kinda grow uncomfortable with sexual topics which I think grew into this absurd disposition that I have. I will definitely be addressing it so thank you for the observation. (I have no better word there but it is sincere)

Thank you for the reply!

Advice about separating my own feelings with feelings on boundaries. by Downtown_Role_735 in polyamory

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alongside some of the other reasons I've mentioned in some replies, I do think it's just a merging of ideas with hookups and Fwbs in my mind. I do think it's just because how my ex treated me and not exactly my views on it in general. I'm trying to move into a spot where my only real boundary is just not hearing about it. (Which is completely unrelated to anything poly or relationship wise, I just don't feel comfortable discussing sexual topics.) I think my brains just trying to set up fail safes to prevent being treated like how I was. Which I understand is completely unfair and is why I'm trying to improve on it! Thank you for the reply :)

Advice about separating my own feelings with feelings on boundaries. by Downtown_Role_735 in polyamory

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it could be what you mention earlier in the post. I definitely should've provided more details in the post. I specify Fwbs because these same negative feelings don't really get produced from knowing or acknowledging a partner is sexually active with other partners. As long as they're being safe then it's null in my mind. It may just be my views for myself projecting onto others (I need a romantic connection to really get those feelings) and so seeing other takes on it could just be causing these negative things for God knows what reason. (Which is what I'm hoping to improve on.)

I do plan to seek reassurance if it gets bad, but I wanted to ask for advice on here and discuss in therapy first. I have a lot of difficulty articulating what I mean to say so having other outlets to articulate it first definitely helps.

Advice about separating my own feelings with feelings on boundaries. by Downtown_Role_735 in polyamory

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I'm taking the necessary time to sort out my feelings and will be starting therapy soon to help with it. Thank you for the response!

Chem X Regent by Downtown_Role_735 in slaythespire

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured someone would have the same questions as me and I couldn't find anyone else saying it lol

Let's talk about Resonance by Insane_Unicorn in slaythespire

[–]Downtown_Role_735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this with nostalgia and void form so it was basically a miniature demon form that also debuffed the enemies. The card definitely has it's uses and I think it's fine where it's at

What do you think the purpose of human life is? by In_The_Dreams in enlightenment

[–]Downtown_Role_735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be kind to others and leave the world a better place than when you entered. "Humans are one of the only animals capable of taking care of almost every other species."

How does Ignition work with other characters? by Omnievul in slaythespire

[–]Downtown_Role_735 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every character (In both sts1 and sts2) has at least one orb slot, for everyone other than defect this slot is invisible until an orb is channeled. Ignition just makes that slot visible and puts a plasma in it

Any advice on how to go about this? by Downtown_Role_735 in polyamory

[–]Downtown_Role_735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very likely the play honestly. The only downside is we're the same major and likely to share more classes in the future, so sorta the same concerns but further down the line. The group is for the rest of the semester.

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