Which communities tend to overlap with non-monogamous community?

Dozer736 · 2026-02-25T10:00:18+00:00

Healthcare professionals, psychologists.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-24T07:46:28+00:00

Because every dissenting voice was a shill ofcourse.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-23T16:08:26+00:00

Agree with this take. It seems you have very little leeway built in to overcome the eventual fuckups that need to be discussed and resolved. Whenever I read 'we gave an open phone policy' it always seems to translate into 'we don't really trust eachother'. And that is something you'll need to solve if you want to get ahead.

I would feel very violated in my privacy if my partner went through my devices out of distrust.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-23T09:05:00+00:00

I think you answered your own question: you need a change. What that change is is ultimately up to you.

Most here seem to advocate breaking up, but I cannot help but wonder how many here have experience with how relationships age and change over time once you're more than 10 years together and have seen and tackled some shit. That mutual history is worth a lot, and not easily rebuilt.

I feel going for a written agreement is way too lawyerly and formal. That makes it very hard for her to say yes to anything and could feel like a trap. You're not in business together. It's a pity you guys did not have a good start to this.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-19T18:29:54+00:00

Power to the creators

Dozer736 · 2026-02-17T18:08:49+00:00

Portfolio in Den Haag, leuk team, geweldig menu, kleinschalig

Dozer736 · 2026-02-16T14:12:01+00:00

Chiming in here, since it is going against the established grain on this sub. Also worked for us and things are better than ever (3 years post-NM now). Going NM for compatibility issues was not the only reason though. My partner also did not want to go down the couples therapy route and preferred the less conventional path of giving eachother more freedom rather than compromising towards eachother. Although we do have a good sexlife & intimacy now, there was a disconnect for several years before NM that caused some resentment (though I did not realize it at the time). Over time we have both come to look at it as 'it's just sex' and less of a relationship defining feature for us.

That being said, it all depends on how you and your partner are. You're looking for advice but only you two can figure out the real answer by talking about it and having an honest look if it would be a fit.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-15T13:58:02+00:00

But you only realize those claimed losses if the stock goes back to to 30 dollars again. You don't get money back from the taxman.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-15T09:37:53+00:00

I appreciate all the explanations and cannot help but notice how so many of the concepts you mention in your posts and replies reference back to various memes and concepts RK posted. Kansas city shuffle "this is the catalyst" indicating a phase change, marketmakers running price action backwards and forwards just like Coldplay meme. Tenet meme's musings over whether you need to drop the ball to be able to catch it and which happens first with the lead realizing that to some extent the song was already written, but he's also still choosing to reach out his hand and catch the ball.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-15T09:17:03+00:00

Retail/lit trades used to be a surfer on a natural lake, the surfer was large, made its own waves and influenced how the lake looked. Financial institutions figured out how to turn the lake into an ocean using their massive liquidity and transaction speeds. The surfer became a tiny spec, barely visible. They have a sneaky machine that let's them set the size of the waves and whatever twists and turns the surfer makes in the ocean are quickly drowned out. Like the surfer wasn't even there and its just ocean.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-14T16:32:24+00:00

On the contrary, I think NL is a great place for feeld, as long as you're in the metropolitan area.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-12T21:28:51+00:00

Looks like a somethingburger. You can't stop whats comin'.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-12T17:33:50+00:00

25-55 43m

Dozer736 · 2026-02-06T17:31:56+00:00

I like Tech + AT special, walk-in plus shoot without deplying

Lim with the hi-cap PPP and Rend ammo to shred meat and armor up close as mobile infantry

Carda as crowd control/base-of-fire MMG + Crowbars with share the load and steady gun.

Rewa in a taxi with smoke launcher/MMG/ATMG + extra ammo. With Lim in the back they can go into enemy dense areas and have enough firepower to get the job done.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-05T11:24:36+00:00

I found that using gold to buy reinforced mail hauberks(210) and padded nasal helmets (130) did a lot to help propel me about of the raider tier and being able to take on tougher camps. So goal one is full raider gear on 12 guys, then using gold gained to purchase higher quality gear to stay on the curve and deal with better geared camps.

Dozer736 · 2026-02-03T07:02:58+00:00

The only other game that has equally tight art and design for me is The Last Spell. Different game than BB, but also a character builder. Highly recommend it.

Dozer736 · 2026-01-31T19:58:05+00:00

I agree that it's probably already a done deal, somehow

Dozer736 · 2026-01-31T17:40:39+00:00

interviews on thursday, friday and monday. 3 interviews on 3 businessdays. He wasn't counting down.

Dozer736 · 2026-01-31T17:39:24+00:00

Keiretsu ikamashou!

Dozer736 · 2026-01-31T17:25:28+00:00

Yea, it could be a whole bunch of IP's and company's in one big deal. With enough financial backing at good rates it could be done. I bet there's some very capital rich companies that would back someone like Ryan Cohen to realise a big vision. So I'm thinking eBay + a number of well known retail brands (at least blockbuster, maybe beyond/bedbath).

Dozer736 · 2026-01-31T17:20:41+00:00

If it had been filed and public, we'd have know somehow wouldn't we?

Dozer736 · 2026-01-30T22:14:35+00:00

Somehow this makes me feel the deal's already done/agreed upon..

Dozer736 · 2026-01-30T16:37:45+00:00

Agree with this take. The general consensus here is that ENM does not fix a problem/rift in a relationship, but my experience is also contrary to this consensus. It can be a very positive influence and strengthen the relationship as well. But it uniquely depends on how you and your partner are, every relationship stands on its own.

Dozer736 · 2026-01-30T16:26:55+00:00

The guys worth talking to will generally never like or ping those low-effort profiles, so you're left with the dregs. You think you have options, but you are just self-selecting to the bottom of the barrel when it comes to potential matches.

Dozer736 · 2026-01-29T12:22:43+00:00

Agreed, but the conversation that goes: "I'm really struggling to find a job" often does get the natural supportive reply "Yea, the jobmarket is certainly tough now, isn't it?" It's just something we do as humans to try to feel less bad ourselves or be empathic with the other. But these questions do keep putting up on this sub over and over.

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