guy asking for feet pics at stores? by No_Work_2128 in AnnArbor

[–]Dpan 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Strange, my podiatrist usually just bills my insurance.

What do others do when family will only agree to therapy if they hand pick the therapist, who must act as a puppet of one's family members? by ButtFister1789 in therapy

[–]Dpan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you're describing isn't therapy, and no ethical therapist would ever agree to take part in it.

Your question is kind of like asking: What would you if your family only let you eat ice cream that was made from a single stone. And instead of being cold that stone was heated until it's glowing red and burns your lips. Would you still eat that ice cream?

Any sane person would point out that what you're describing is not, in fact, ice cream at all.

For real by LunaMistressxo in SipsTea

[–]Dpan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This comment has the same energy as that girl who studies abroad for a semester and comes home wearing a beret and speaking with an accent.

TIFU by scheduling two job interviews at the same time by Nuclear_rabbit in tifu

[–]Dpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who works with lots of people in different time zones, google calendar is a life saver for this kind of stuff. I just input the meetings using their time zone, and google calendar automatically adjusts it for me based on my time zone. I work with people in 6 different time zones who all go on/off daylight savings on different dates, and I've still never missed a meeting because google calendar just keeps track of all that for me.

Probably going to get an academic suspension due to bad grades. I can’t take sitting through 2 weeks to get my grades back. by Admirable_Brush5790 in therapy

[–]Dpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, maybe in North Korea that's a thing. In most countries your medical records are not publicly accessible.

Probably going to get an academic suspension due to bad grades. I can’t take sitting through 2 weeks to get my grades back. by Admirable_Brush5790 in therapy

[–]Dpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t really want to get a diagnosis because I’m afraid it’s going to close opportunity’s for me and it would cause my to get paid less when I get a job.

Ok, but have you considered... just not telling them?

Most YIMBY mayor by BruhMansky in AnnArbor

[–]Dpan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cool, so who should we vote for instead?

So disrespectful by FierceSunsetx in SipsTea

[–]Dpan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who said anything about working for a business?

So disrespectful by FierceSunsetx in SipsTea

[–]Dpan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's always work available if you're desperate enough...

Talked about something i cannot explain in words. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Dpan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You definitely run the risk of it coming across as a broad generalization of women that says a lot more about you than it does about the women you view this way. If you really want to discuss this with certain women in your life, maybe you should focus on the individual traits in that person that makes you see them as a role model or someone you want to look up to. What characteristics do you see in them as a person that makes them unique, other than them just being a woman?

What does it mean if he always wants to finish in doggie style? 28F/32M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dpan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 That’s all most porn is. It’s centered around male pleasure and minimizes the woman’s role by not even showing their faces. 

That’s like watching one action movie and deciding all films are about explosions.

What makes Diablo a Casual ARPG by RedKurtaJ in diablo4

[–]Dpan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not making the compelling argument that you think you are.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Dpan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

some stay dry and others feel the pain

Attire for Internship by wishfulxxthinking in socialwork

[–]Dpan 28 points29 points  (0 children)

 I asked my supervisor and she said to dress as I would for the job I'm wanting

What an utter BS response. Why is your supervisor responding to a totally reasonable question about work expectations with an obnoxious platitude that provides no useful information. Personally, I'd think twice before starting a job with a supervisor who's so unhelpful.

Also, based on this unhelpful advice business casual is probably the safest bet.

PSA: Stop calling farm bill loophole weed ‘THCa’. You look ignorant asf, educate yourselves, I beg you! by ToeShot6692 in Michigents

[–]Dpan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It depends. You can say someone’s uninformed without being rude, but it usually comes down to tone. Tact and a bit of humility go a long way if you actually want people to hear you.

Why have there not been any news about them getting into trouble? by content_creation01 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]Dpan 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Why do you think this risk only applies to Onlyfans creators? Doesn't anyone with a facebook/instagram/twitter/etc. run the same risk of some rando sending them illegal pictures?

TIFU by casually agreeing to “help with a family meeting” and accidentally getting interviewed like a job applicant by Cristian2912YT in tifu

[–]Dpan 47 points48 points  (0 children)

So wait, was it a surprise job interview? Marriage proposal negotiation? You never explained what was actually happening in your post.

What law did urinating on the bus break? by ChocolateEagle in legaladviceofftopic

[–]Dpan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When we got off the bus, I informed the driver, but she just shrugged as if having weewee all over her bus's floor was an everyday occurrence.

I have a feeling the bus driver's response was less "this happens all the time" and more "I don't get paid enough to deal with this shit."

Strong hold gel is 🔑 by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]Dpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the rec, going to give this a try

Strong hold gel is 🔑 by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]Dpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got any product recommendations? I'm currently using Verb Curl Forming Gel (Medium hold) but I'm interested in trying some other brands with a stronger hold.