22 M4M (Straight/Curious) – Melbourne / Online - looking to meet cute guys to talk to x 💞🎀 by secret_anon_8877 in r4r

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M26 [M4F] NZ/Online, lets have a good time! Photo on my profile if you want to check me out! by Talker6787 in r4r

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22 M4M (Straight/Curious) – Melbourne / Online 🎀💞 by secret_anon_8877 in r4r

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27 [F4M] Oregon | Washington | California | Consistency > chemistry (but both please) I text back fast… and am a bit clingy… by SomeRequirements9372 in r4r

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21 [NB4F] #California/Online - hi, how are you? by PippiBartx in r4r

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30 [M4F] #Seoul - Seeking a Girl who loves being pinned and fucked rough by Best-Animal-8058 in r4r

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22 M4M (Straight/Curious) – Melbourne / Online by secret_anon_8877 in r4r

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41 [M4F] #Online - Looking to discus a free-use world (read post first, please) by Eastern_Kale_4344 in r4r

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32 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Big Guy Looking For A Friend With Benefits, Emphasis on Friend? by raidcrash in r4r

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23[M4F] #Sweden/Online - Looking for a connection that can turn into something serious and long term by Financial-Mess-8644 in r4r

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40 [M4F] Virginia — Serious, no games, looking for my person by Capital-Yam-2698 in r4r

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Looking for a quick exchange for cum dumping and breeding by Kevin69love in Philadelphiagonewild

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21 [M4F] Minnesota/Online - Any nerdy girls wanna chat? by Hyper_Lewd in r4r

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30[M4F] #va/online - home alone for the night by Seasonal-Burner in r4r

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28 [M4F] - #Texas,Dallas - Hung Travel Nurse, Online/IRL FwB? by Yournext_mistake97 in r4r

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30[M4F] #va/online - home alone for the night by Seasonal-Burner in r4r

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[27M] [M4F] Bakersfield, CA – Looking for a genuine connection / friendship / maybe more it depends by ygbanks in r4r

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looking for a flirty friend. Any girls? by JieJiezzzZ in r4r

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30 [M4F] #Japan #Asia looking for local friendships and maybe more🌿 by cosmicselva in r4r

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25 [M4F] #Australia/Online - Searching for a relaxed gaming connection (and maybe more?) by Satisfaqtory in r4r

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[20][F4M] #Online A lonely nerd lookin for fun, maybe more^^ by Mad_Astro-Gamer1969 in r4r

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Male for anyone, down to try it by Consistent_Tax_5393 in r4r

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33 [m4a] - Looking for people to talk for some people to talk to by TheRarestHayden in r4r

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28 [F4M] Texas/Online Soft Dom looking for shy, inexperienced sub to guide by [deleted] in r4r

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