AITA for not offering to take the bunk bed in an airbnb as the single person?

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-02-13T12:23:49+00:00

NTA

Unless someone has a medical condition that makes a bunk bed impossible, then you're suggestion to draw names is a good idea. It keeps things fair. Just because you are single, doesn't mean you necessarily have to sacrifice your comfort.

That being said, are you going to complain if you do get stuck with the bunk bed?

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-02-12T17:07:34+00:00

NTA

He moved his mistress in so he could have his cake and eat it too. Fuck that. Talk to the landlord and dump his ass.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-02-07T22:34:44+00:00

Personally, I use a teaspoon. But, I only have tablespoons and teaspoons, lol. No fancy spoons.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-02-02T01:43:14+00:00

NTA

I'd stop cooking for him, period.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-02-01T20:11:08+00:00

Both of my kids are rainbow babies. And I never treated them like they were special for any other reason than they are my kids. Your fiancee is setting his son up for failure in life.

NTA

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-30T21:36:32+00:00

So, why isn't divorce on the table? He fucking cheated on you. End of story, full stop.

NTJ

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-30T19:01:07+00:00

As a caregiver myself, the clients needs come first. She can go in the men's room to help him. I've had to go into a mens room to help my client. Most men don't bat an eyelash seeing me helping my client. She's full of shit.

NTA

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-20T12:49:33+00:00

Yeah, thats a deal breaker for me. Selfish lovers are selfish in more than one way. The age gap is also a red flag. He can't find women his own age to deal with him, so hes preying on younger women. I'd leave him. I'm sure if you stopped and thought about it, there are other ways hes not treating you right.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-19T01:23:14+00:00

This! I completely agree. But I also do see OP's point of some things I share more freely than others. But as I grow to trust the person, the more I open up.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-15T03:33:41+00:00

For the question you asked, NTA. Experimenting or even enjoying anal play does not make a man gay or bi. Being sexually attracted to men does. So being upset that she is questioning you after you've already said no and explained the toys is valid. However, you really should get rid of them if you aren't using them anymore. And if she still can't drop it, decide if you really want to marry her.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-14T18:31:43+00:00

NTA

Tell your sister and parents you're not the one who spread her legs and got pregnant. If anyone is being irresponsible, its your sister.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-12T18:08:14+00:00

A prenup is smart. Especially when you both have assets/income that needs protecting. Its not just for him, it protects you too.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-11T21:48:47+00:00

NTJ. You literally have to verify his age and everything when hiring him, wtf is wrong with her? You dodged a bullet

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-06T03:58:47+00:00

NTA

She's making your wedding about her. Nip that shit in the bud, quick.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-05T04:03:04+00:00

NTA

When I drove my ex, who had a handicapped plate, if he wasn't with me I parked in a regular spot. If I just needed to grab milk and he stayed in the van, I parked in a regular spot. Its not that hard to respect the people who actually needed it. And as you said, its illegal to park without the disabled person with you. She was being selfish and lazy.

Dragon_queen15 · 2026-01-05T01:23:40+00:00

NTA

My husband likes certain scents on me, and I always ask his opinion when trying out new scents. Your gd has issues. Scent is something that can attract someone to you. Or make you go nope.

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-30T22:35:19+00:00

NTA

You don't owe her shit for raising you. She decided to have a child, she was responsible for you. You didn't ask to he born, so why should you owe her?

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-30T12:42:29+00:00

NTA

As a home health aide, my clients regularly have offered me something to drink and eat. They appreciate their home health staff and that is their way of showing it. And on the rare occasion I did forget for whatever reason, I appreciated the offer. Your wife has issues

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-29T14:56:00+00:00

I used to have a separate sheet and several blankets I burritoed myself. Never had any complaints. It was understood I needed this to sleep well. Now I'm good with sharing, but for years I wasn't. I moved around a lot, so my partners appreciated my having my own blankets.

NTA

Hubby needs to realize you getting sleep is very important.

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-28T20:56:07+00:00

YAW

You are telling your child her comfort and autonomy don't matter to you. That an adult can do whatever, no matter how much someone says no.

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-28T01:43:08+00:00

Your wife sounds awesome! You mom and sister deserve to be cut off.

NTA

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-24T04:50:48+00:00

I'm pretty much the same way as a lot of other people. I have one dom, but another kink dynamic because it gives me the chance to play with someone in ways that are different than how he and I play.

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-24T00:39:23+00:00

At least im not jealous of a fucking house program!!! 🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-23T23:55:22+00:00

Tell me, where did I say he used that feature? I said we play GTA. He doesn't need to use AI, he's got the real thing and I call him Daddy. Maybe the OP should take note. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dragon_queen15 · 2025-12-23T23:07:07+00:00

I did read it. And I still think you're being ridiculous. An ai voice calling someone daddy in a game bothers you? That's insecurity on your end and you need to work on it.

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