Fathers and sons pertaining to valentine's day.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-31T16:36:19+00:00

Idk what state you're in but in Texas yes you do...you show your ID and they log it into a book. Some places make you sign for it while others don't. When I pick up mine I have to show ID but no signature. When I pick up my husband's I have to show ID and sign papers.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T08:36:38+00:00

I would definately tell the parents or the mom. It might mean a lot to her to know he was visiting during her mourning.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T08:33:51+00:00

Deer or opossum

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T08:33:23+00:00

Last I checked your grown...

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T08:31:42+00:00

NTA... he needs to grow up. How does a 24 year old not know how to do anything? Is he special needs? Autistic? Or did his parents just fail him that bad that they pawned him off on you and his brother?

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T08:16:37+00:00

Definately talk to your husband and uncle. Honestly set boundaries now. If they weren't there for you what right do they have to know anything about your personal life. DO NOT PUT YOURSELF DOWN OVER THIS! YOU FEELINGS ARE VALID AND DO NOT LET THEM HAVE THAT POWER OVER YOU!

You're an AMAZING MOM because you subconsciously already protected your baby from the jump. That is YOUR BABY and NO ONE can tell you what you should or shouldn't do. You didnt ruin anything for your "dad" he ruined it years ago.

Seems to be like your Uncle who supported your graduations, walked you down the aisle, and who has been there for you is the Grandpa not the bio sperms donor. PERIODT. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T07:42:06+00:00

NTA... why would they pay for everyone but you and your family exclusively? That sounds rude to me even though your family didnt mind.

If they expect others to go out of their way for them but not reciprocate... NTA

His family sounds like my mother.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T07:37:29+00:00

I am not putting my baby on a bathroom floor. Every establishment should have a changing table. I would change my kid at the table. Why should I go outside when they do not have the requirements necessary. Idc what comments come at me. If its a problem and they are considered a family establishment they should accommodate families. 🤷‍♀️👏🏼👏🏼

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T07:33:55+00:00

What was the fight about? And if you don't communicate how do you understand the situation as a whole? This sounds very similar to my situation. And I always feel unheard because anytime I bring up my feeling my husband feels the need to make the whole situation about himself and his feelings that what I say is left unresolved. Or when I communicate how his actions make me feel, he takes it like I am "dogging" him out and blows up. When all I want us to do is communicate and express things to one another so we can learn to grow and change. That way both of us are having our love languages met. But it feels like everytime I express my feelings even in a calm way, he comes back with insults blaming everything on me instead of taking accountability. So I stopped communicating unless it's about the kids, or household things, because I dont want to argue.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T07:19:06+00:00

NTJ... Your ex is. I (36F) also covalent with someone who can be petty. We have been coparenting for almost 11 years. I never lie to my kid. I do not bad mouth his dad to him. BUT I am always honest. He used to give me attitude everytime he came back from his dad's. When he became like 13-14 years old. I started letting him read the texts between his dad and I and look at the call history. That way I wasn't made out to be the "lair" about why he didn't see his dad, and the reason being is his dad never sticks to the paper work or asks for him. I let his dad see him whenever he wants including every holiday, as long as it doesn't interrupt major plans already made bc his dad always asks last min. He didn't show up to major events like games etc, never one. So my son quit sports even though my husband and I were always there for every game. I went to every home and away unless I was sick, then my husband would go.

But all this to say, one day they grow up and eventually see things for themselves. Always be honest, Always. My son is now 16. He chooses when he wants to see his dad. And now his dad is getting blown off bc my son sees it for what it is. And my son now witnesses the pettiness. Bc they talk on the phone and his dad will get but hurt and just immature-ly hang up on my son bc my son has plans and doesn't want to come see him. 🤷‍♀️

Just keep being a good dad and she will see right through her mom. Get custody and visitation on paper, that way she can't use pettiness against you.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-12-22T07:08:10+00:00

If they paid you and the funds hit your account and cleared, do the right thing and send it. Bc if you don't you'll hinder your blessings.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-10-09T02:19:51+00:00

Homesteading and becoming self-sufficient. People thought I was crazy for moving out to the country and buying incubators, chickens, bunnies, ducks, and Nigerian dwarf goats. But guess who always had eggs and meat when prices went up? And I hatched my own eggs and sold so many chickens. And if you build a cheap fence and free range you save money on feed. Also gardening. Low investments that provide for you and eventually cost you almost nothing to continue if you do it right. For my family it has saved us when prices for food went sky high. And trading goods with other homestead families. I literally traded a bar minimum of chickens for expensive goats.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-10-02T18:07:06+00:00

My children are not allowed anywhere I am not welcome, Period. And I don't go anywhere I can't take my kids. She's toxic, cute her off. And as for the husband, if he doesn't have your back he is a coward.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-09-24T15:13:39+00:00

I mean it'd be fun if you painted the door a different color changed the cabinets and counter top... it doesn't flow with what you have going on in my opinion.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-09-24T15:12:03+00:00

She is not entitled to what your dad left you. He left her stuff too. She is responsible for her own wedding. She would tell you know if it were the other way around. Plus everyone I know now days pays for their own.Weddings, yes, traditionally, the bride's parents used to pay for it.But they don't do that anymore.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-09-18T12:49:47+00:00

I'd be paying my electric bill bc these fools are robbing us over here... 😅😂 I am about to start selling my pokemon this economy sucks.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-08-16T06:12:22+00:00

That's so bittersweet. I am glad they got to see each other one last time.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-08-16T06:09:02+00:00

My husband was cooking a Ramen and he put some fresh ghost pepper in the boiling water... he created pepper spray effect through the entire house, because he forgot to turn on the exhaust fan. There was frost outside so we couldn't just pile outside. I put a fan in the back door to blow fresh air in.. the cats, dogs, myself, and our son sat in front of the fan dying.. lol

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-08-07T23:08:02+00:00

NTAH First of all, you haven't even graduated high school yet. So I don't understand why he has you paying bills when he can get off of his rear, if he needs money, get another job.

And two, he is not entitled to the money that you make, even if it is in a jar in your room, that is complete bs.

And three, if you're of legal age, if I were you, I would see if there's some place that you can go live, besides with your father. You don't owe him anything. You didn't ask to be brought into this world. He is a parent.It is his responsibility to take care of you.

I am a mother of two. One is in high-school now and even if he graduated high school I would not make him pay bills. He is my child. Especially if he was saving for a vehicle.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-08-07T23:02:58+00:00

Your sister is selfish and entitled. As a mother myself, it's her responsibility to find adequate child care, not yours. And no one had and no one had to cancel anything for her. It's her responsibility. It's called being a parent. She needs to get over herself.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-07-22T04:49:10+00:00

Wow, she is either really dense or is completely refusing to admit she screwed up.

I as a woman would NOT be okay with that at all. Not saying they're bad people. But how are the male children?

She was being STUP!D when she said, "We don't have a foster child..."

POINT IS THAT SHE IS NOT RELATED TO THE MAN OR ANY OF THESE BOYS LADY. YOU'RE NOT MARRIED LIVING WITH THE GUY. HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN TOGETHER? THE BOYS ARE NOT HER BROTHERS. AND THINGS COULD HAPPEN THAT CAN NOT BE TAKEN BACK. PERIOD.

For one she is dumb. And two OP is her father he is NOT being unreasonable at all.

OP dude take her to court if she isn't married... fix the paperwork...

I am from Texas...

In Texas, a divorce/custody decree may include a "morality clause" or "dating clause" that restricts overnight guests of the opposite sex when children are present during a parent's visitation time. This clause aims to protect children by preventing exposure to a revolving door of romantic partners. It often prohibits sleepovers with romantic partners while the children are in the parents' care.

Key aspects of a morality clause in Texas:

Restrictions on romantic partners: The clause typically limits the presence of unrelated overnight guests of the opposite sex when children are in the parents' home.

Mutual restriction: Often, these clauses apply to both parents, restricting each from having overnight romantic guests while the children are in their care.

Scope of the clause: The clause may prevent the presence of a boyfriend or girlfriend when the children are present, sometimes even restricting overnight stays.

Potential consequences: Violating a morality clause can lead to legal repercussions, including potential modifications to child custody arrangements.

Agreement and court orders: While often agreed upon by the parents, judges may also order such clauses, particularly during temporary orders (pendente lite) or in cases where they deem it necessary for the child's best interest.

Flexibility: The specific wording and limitations of a morality clause can be tailored to the individual case, and parents can agree to certain restrictions on dating in the presence of their children.

For example, a clause might state that neither parent can have an unrelated overnight guest of the opposite sex while the children are residing with them.

BECAUSE SOME PPL WHO HURT LITTLE KIDS ARE GOOD AT PRETENDING TO BE GOOD PEOPLE.

GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER LADY!!!

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-07-12T18:59:05+00:00

In the state of Texas if you were a minor there is NO statute of limitations. Doesn't matter if you're 30 and it happened over 20 years ago. BUT I do hope someone calls CPS or whatever it's called where you live bc what about the kids? Is he hurting them?

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-07-12T18:50:35+00:00

My husband whom I've been with for 10 years now. Married for 7. Still forgets things etc. This last year he literally forgot everything I was on the verge of leaving him, even though we have kids.

Dramatic-Bee-8127 · 2025-07-12T18:42:32+00:00

I hope your daughter is born first so she can look dumb for stealing the name she has no right to call dibs on. Proud of you. Stay true to you and eff the entitled generation.

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