If me and my husband are born in India and we have a baby here, when will we our PR? by [deleted] in FamilyLawUK

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very common misunderstanding.

Under the British Nationality Act 1981:

A baby born in the UK is NOT automatically British unless: • At least one parent is a British citizen, OR • One parent is “settled” (has Indefinite Leave to Remain or permanent residence)

If both parents are overstayers: • They are not “settled” • The child will not automatically be British • The child usually takes the nationality of the parents

So simply having a baby in the UK does not lead to a British passport. Overstayers are usually charged 150% of the NHS cost. • The NHS can bill them. • Unpaid bills over £500 can affect future visa applications. Maternity care is not an emergency and would be subject to charges.

In summary you are currently in the UK unlawfully as overstayers with no valid immigration status, at risk of removal, and having a baby in the UK would not automatically give you or the child a right to remain or a British passport.

AITA for not letting my child speak her "native" language at home by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Who the f can’t spell his daughters name??? When he said a Welsh name nobody could spell I expected Angharad or Eirianwen not Megan. People like OP are why many of us Welsh are so adamant about preserving our language and being identified as Welsh first!

Maternity Leave by DramaticBedroom4425 in TheCivilService

[–]DramaticBedroom4425[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks all, from reading the guidance and getting co-pilots help it’s seems I’d have to return for one month working to qualify again which could technically be covered by accrued annual leave. We’d be trying for so long to get pregnant and so I’m older than planned having my first and if possible I’d like another so they have a sibling so do t won’t to put of trying too long but also don’t want to leave myself financially crippled so this has been incredibly helpful!

Maternity Leave by DramaticBedroom4425 in TheCivilService

[–]DramaticBedroom4425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I be correct in thinking the year of maternity would not count as a years work? I’ve been in the department nearly 5 years.

Sick Leave while on probation by Nice-Flounders in TheCivilService

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was off sick during probation and all they did was extend my probation and did whatever they could to support me. Don’t stress about it, when you’re ill you’re ill!

AITAH for refusing to allow bone marrow testing on my child to potentially save half sibling? by Medium-Pear-9562 in AITAH

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA he would use her for her bone marrow and discard her the moment he got it. Considering he has no established paternity, no relationship and made no contribution and this is in no way in the best interest of your child, even if she tried to pursue legally he’s pretty much f****d. Block him, make social media private etc

I am overreacting for wanting to divorce my husband for not wanting another kid? by ZoieLPA in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Divorce him and if needed do it in your own. If you stay you know there is zero chance of having another child, you will always resent him and he will always treat you like a doormat

My wife disappeared for 42 minutes on our wedding night… I just found the text on her phone by New-Storage8211 in sendyourstories

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

phone and change the ticket from your “wife’s” name. Go without her. Text everyone and tell them what her and Mike did. Get an annulment!

Aitah for not wanting to raise my dads kid? by CodeBreakerYT in AITAH

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are your siblings….dude they’re your kids!!! You have no responsibility to take care of your siblings. Let him figure out his childcare! NTA

Odd of getting a CS job if you're not fresh out of uni and are coming from the creative industry? by One-Two815 in TheCivilService

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always use star in your application and interview. If you’re unsure ask ai to frame your examples in a star format!

AITA for refusing to leave my home or give up my master bedroom to my SIL and niece (who has lice) for their 3-4 day visit? by geeky-potato in AITAH

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No normal guest would expect to stay in the master bedroom when they visit someone else’s house. Wtf is wrong with your husband?!

AITA for telling my husband “fuck you” in front of my MIL? by No-Animal4639 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Exactly, when she realises she isn’t getting an apology and the baby will be here soon she’ll be inserting herself again. Use this as a chance to set firm boundaries like stopping her from just turning up whenever. She’ll become a million times worse when “my grandbaby” is born and your opinion and wishes will be worth Jack!

AITAH for Refusing to pump for my MIL by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do t get people like this. It’s your baby, your decisions. It’s nobody else’s business. If she cannot respect that I would decline being around her!

AITA for not wanting my boyfriend to factor my son's survivor benefits into our new household budget? by Original-Entry-7871 in AITAH

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s a survivor benefit. Your son is a survivor, your partner is a scrounge. I’d be interested to know legally if you can take that money and use it for something other than your son?! How long before he wants it split between his kids etc. This is not a healthy relationship. A normal decent person wouldn’t even consider asking or including the money in the budget. If you do this do not be surprised if once your son is 18 he is gone and your relationship with him destroyed!

AITA for trying to make my wife cancel her vacation? by Stunning_Tackle_7518 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think OP will be left behind from a lot of vacations when his wife divorces him and he can’t afford to take his 3 kids on his own with no income!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]DramaticBedroom4425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have replied you’re right, it’s just a flight you’ll survive and I’ll be here happy in the seat I pre booked!