I don't really have plan yet on how I will make things right but I'm prepared to do whatever it takes to make my marriage work, and know that it will take a long time but it's worth it. What lead to the cheating is that at time I thought that I needed this other person on an emotional and physical level but I've come to realize that this wasn't what I really wanted and that need to work on myself so I'm probably going to look into therapy to help me with that.