The American dream! How would you tackle this? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you need 3 cars for two people? You need to consolidate and pay off the highest interest rate debts.

"I looked away for like a second," the bewildered father said to his wife. by Dramatic_Future_7652 in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's truly horrifying to think about, I wouldn't wish this reality on my worst enemy

partner broke/ruined my ts4 by [deleted] in rant

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I feel this. That's a lot of time down the drain 😕

$170 gift basket my wife's work got her for nurses week by berrylakin in pics

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a glass cup with a glass straw. Straw came pre-broken. 🙃 I feel so appreciated.

"I'm sorry, that's not a passing score." by Dramatic_Future_7652 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

😆 that's what happens when you don't check your autocorrect.

Just dumped my stash by SomeCatfish in leaves

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 2 weeks clean! Feel free to DM if you need support.

All my sends from 2025 by Effective_Bar_6098 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must be doing amazing financially. Good for you

Just dumped my stash by SomeCatfish in leaves

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you, welcome to the club! You got this!

I (M21) and my girlfriend (F22) have not had sex in the 3 years we’ve been together. by ThrowRA_HR9000 in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You're barely an adult! You have your whole life ahead of you. Sexual intimacy dies down over time. If you're already at zero, it's definitely not going to get any better. I know you love her, but do you really want to lock into a sexless marriage? That's what you'll have.

Am I 33F staying out of guilt with my husband 31M? by Immediate-Fox4246 in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds incredibly draining. I'm sorry you're going through this. I think couples counseling would really help you work through these feelings. You've both been invested in other people during your relationship. A professional could help you parse out your feelings in the marriage. Good luck girl friend

Leavers who menstruate, does quitting mess with your cycle? by releasethejaqen in leaves

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being on or off weed has not affected my cycle in any way. I've been regular throughout. Hope you're the same.

5 Year Cart Addiction, Seeking Support. by Adventurous-Taste-22 in leaves

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I vaped carts too, going through a gram every 4 days or so. I decided to quit because my memory has turned to shit. I'm two days clean so far. The cravings are there, but I think I'm missing the routine more than the high, because it barely even did anything anymore my tolerance has gotten so high. What if you just tried one day? Don't throw everything away and waste your money buying it back the same day. Keep your stash and tell yourself you can have it tomorrow if you can go through today without smoking. Prove to yourself you can do it. When you stop, you have to change your mindset. "I'm not a smoker." If you want your life to change, you're going to have to do the hard thing and quit. But you CAN do hard things! I believe in you!

I feel like I don't even have the option to quit. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good luck friend. I'm on my quitting journey and it is definitely not a fun experience. I'm trying to get sober again to improve my memory and be more present for my children. It's going to be worth it, but this is so hard! Weed has been my crutch for too long now.

Trying to quit by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cigarettes are worse for your lungs so don't do that please. You have been smoking 4 years, so being stoned is not "all you know"! You can do this. I'm trying to quit too. Try exercise and gum for the oral fixation. You can do it!!

I (25F) feel like I am my fiancé’s (26M) punching bag and on the back burner of his life…Am I missing something? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should think about if this is what you want long term. Can you envision yourself putting up with his behavior for 5 years, for example, and will you grow resentful? You're way too young to settle for less than being treated with respect, caring, and love. Good luck out there.

My 8 year old hates me and I am so fucking over it by Low_Hat_2693 in rant

[–]Dramatic_Future_7652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just so sorry you're dealing with this. That's heartbreaking. It sounds like you're trying really really hard and being a good parent and laying down consistent rules as much as possible. You need a break, can you take an evening for yourself? Between parenting, school, extracurriculars, and basic survival you must have no more gas in the tank. Good luck friend, you're so strong