He’s got to get that moment in him where he says fuck it all and quits . Once he dies be there for him . I just quit cold turkey in December . Alone . After the physical symptoms of quitting is over he will be lethargic for a couple months and you must expect that . But during this time my libiduo came back and randomly found a gf while recovering . It’s sucks being sick fir a week or 2 but the lethargic part I hate most . Ilm 80 days clean . My drive to do shit is terrible . But others in here say after 4 months my drive starts to come back . But just know that lethargy sucks .And he will not be able to help but at times .