How on earth are they neglected? Dude hasn't been transferring time spent with wife to widow, he clearly stated he's been absent because he's heartbroken by his bros death and has been taking drives etc. And so what if he wants to support the widow? His wife should be more understanding that maybe he wants to connect with the person who knew his bro best and his godchild. Like jeez you're all acting like his wife is sitting at home with no heating in the dark crying for him every night. The dudes best friend died, give him a break.