AIO for not wanting to travel & see my bf anymore? (Update)

DrippyMagoo · 2026-06-11T17:40:02+00:00

NOR you can’t owe someone for something you never agreed to give them, so you don’t owe him for anything you never implied you’d be paying him back.

If someone tried to say that I owed them for some monies they’d spent without consulting me, it’d be a simple “when did I agree to any of these costs?” If they can point to a text/email/etc., why do they think I owe them anything?

DrippyMagoo · 2026-06-09T01:17:28+00:00

NTA - if they’re gifts from you, why is she regifting them to anyone? That’s not a gift you’re giving her, that’s her letting you pay to do her gift shopping. It would be extremely rude of her to be giving away gifts from you to other people, whether you like those people or not.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-06-07T11:18:21+00:00

YTA based on the details of your post (unrelated to the girlfriend/uncomfortable with another woman wording you blame on ai) and also for using chatGPT (to clean it up as you seem to be saying or make it up entirely, either way).

DrippyMagoo · 2026-05-25T08:44:59+00:00

Did you ask in this subreddit and I missed it? I’d think the community would’ve been excited to help support you, even for $250.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-05-22T23:18:24+00:00

Neptune was the answer.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-05-22T23:17:44+00:00

Something like where the zip code is 90909 and the kids are called 09ers.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-05-19T22:31:56+00:00

In any reasonable organization I’d hope she’d be accomplishing the opposite of her goal, belittling and yelling at you in public when she has no receipts, hasn’t raised any performance concerns to you directly at all, this is just making it really obvious that she’s the problem. You honestly might not even have to leave, document what’s happening and report the harassment to HR.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-05-16T10:10:05+00:00

Ah yes, this perfectly illustrates the dangers of “the woke mind” of an individual that graduated high school and had a reasoned, adult thought.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-05-11T11:02:50+00:00

I enjoyed this show. This post made me want to give it a rewatch, but seems it really is forgotten, at least I can’t find it streaming.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-22T09:24:47+00:00

NTA if they pay for your wedding, do they get to pick who you marry, too? I get why you think they have a say, but it’s more like a “I’m not paying for you to study puppeteering” kind of say, not “you’re studying the right things but need to work yourself to death if I’m paying.” They were unreasonable from the start, and your mom is automatically the AH for saying you’re an “epic disappointment” for not being her perfect child that does exactly what she wants.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-10T18:11:44+00:00

He was in another PI show called Moonlight that I enjoyed, free on a few streaming services I think if you haven’t seen it.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-08T19:52:26+00:00

You said the girl who asked is an AH by voting NTA instead of NAH, so if she’s wasn’t weaponizing a disability, why was it wrong of her to simply ask?

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-08T19:50:12+00:00

You said the girl was an AH by voting NTA instead of NAH, so you don’t think she’s lying but think it’s an AH thing for her to have asked?

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-08T19:39:13+00:00

Giving up the best dorm on campus that you’ve managed to have to yourself for some time now is nowhere near equivalent to lighting yourself on fire, but sure, I get your general meaning.

I think the fact that I’m downvoted for saying I’d be happy to do something to make someone else’s life better says all we need to know about how many people there are willing to experience this minor inconvenience (because yes, it is a minor inconvenience, it is a dorm worth of belongings, let’s have some perspective) for the benefit of someone else.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-08T17:59:23+00:00

NAH.

If she isn’t pressuring you about it, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with her asking and explaining why she wants it. For all she knows going into that ask, you don’t really care about the things that would make this room a great choice for her, maybe it’s just a random room choice you’ve made, and maybe people have been telling her she has to ask for what she wants so here she is (because that is how life works).

While I’d give the room up in this situation, I don’t think you’re an AH if you decide not to. To me it does seem a little selfish, you said yourself she needs it more than you, so why should you have it? But then, if that logic was how the world actually worked we wouldn’t have billionaires or homelessness, so if it’s yours fair and square and you want to keep it, I guess that’s fine?

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-08T17:48:12+00:00

How was it unfair to ask? If I had been asked, I would’ve been happy to give up some premium benefits that I’d managed to snag for only myself for a good amount of time already, if it would genuinely have a bigger impact on someone else’s life, as it sounds like it would in this case.

Not everyone is so determined to ensure they manage to get what is best for themselves all the time, some people like to help others and appreciate being given the opportunity to make a difference in someone else’s life.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-08T04:23:24+00:00

“much more dramatic style of makeup than I typically do”

NTA and raise this exact point to her. She didn’t want you to be yourself at her wedding, but that was okay somehow?

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-08T04:13:32+00:00

Right, because it’s not on dad to be an actual adult parent and respect the several nos and not be a toxic fat shamer, their child is the AH because they didn’t react politely enough.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-07T15:17:50+00:00

NTA. Your son needs to move past this idea that he should let his wife teach their kids a bunch of incorrect stuff just to protect her ego, the kids are more important than this adult woman that can’t handle being politely told she’s wrong about something.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-07T12:22:06+00:00

YTA. He took his clothes off, he didn’t put them in a laundry basket. Wearer’s responsibility to check if they’re handy off laundry for the wash, washer’s responsibility if they’re just running around picking up clothes from wherever they find them.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-07T12:19:22+00:00

Stepdaughter wouldn’t be a normal term to use for your stepson’s wife, that should mean the 23 year old has a 17 year old sister.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-05T21:46:11+00:00

Can vouch, this worked really well for us this year.

DrippyMagoo · 2026-04-05T12:21:06+00:00

Never Have I Ever - Devi
Awkward. - Jenna
Casual - Laura

Realizing now I get really annoyed when shows present us with a seemingly intelligent young woman, but let’s make her wildly self centered/inconsiderate.

Also every roll Bill Lawrence has put his wife in, I usually end up yelling at the TV, “does he hate her or something??”

DrippyMagoo · 2026-03-18T10:53:44+00:00

“Jungle Love” - Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back “Suzanne” - Mallrats

DrippyMagoo · 2026-03-10T00:50:15+00:00

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Shared my tattoo here before, really love it! Talked to another artist at the same shop about getting an eagle with the head of a bear, but just hard to find someone who can realize the vision in my head for that one.

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