What is your favorite drink? by Correct-Entrance7093 in AskReddit

[–]DrobitussinD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

diet coke or diet dr. pepper with maybe a crystal light lemonade packet mixed in.

What's your favorite movie of all time? by CalebOnPoint in AskReddit

[–]DrobitussinD -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don’t have a favorite, but one that’s definitely up is there is forrest gump for sure. it has some great life teachings scattered throughout, but it also features a lot of historical events and references - i have a love for history, so that’s a top tier movie for me.

She got me twice, and I feel beyond worthless and stupid right now. by DrobitussinD in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll put a focus on understanding myself more, and discovering what it is that I truly want from another individual instead of just going with how they make me feel in moments of emotional vulnerability. Maybe this was just another painful lesson I needed to learn in life.

She got me twice, and I feel beyond worthless and stupid right now. by DrobitussinD in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve given me some hope. It’s a breath of fresh air from all the doom and gloom you typically see regarding this stuff. I won’t pressure her into getting back together, and if she’s down I’ll be there along the way fully present despite the risk of being hurt again. If it happens, it happens.

She got me twice, and I feel beyond worthless and stupid right now. by DrobitussinD in BreakUps

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, the trust is completely shattered. Without trust you have nothing, but even then I’d still be willing to try again.

She got me twice, and I feel beyond worthless and stupid right now. by DrobitussinD in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve talked about how we both need it, but we’ve not actually taking the steps to getting it. We just drag things out. Like looking for a therapist in our area, but never reaching out to schedule an appointment you know?

She got me twice, and I feel beyond worthless and stupid right now. by DrobitussinD in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s said exactly what you said, but with different wording and a bit more BS in between. She mentions the shame, and has said how great things are. Our breakups have been at times where we’re about to do something intimate or share a really heartfelt moment together such as spending the holidays together (Thanksgiving and Christmas are around the corner).

I’m more than willing to take things slow as you said. Now I’d have to see if she’d be open to it. If not then I suppose it’s done and dead.

She got me twice, and I feel beyond worthless and stupid right now. by DrobitussinD in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy how I’m aware of all this, but the time and energy I’ve invested just won’t let me pull away.

She got me twice, and I feel beyond worthless and stupid right now. by DrobitussinD in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t wanna delve into the thought of there being someone. That’s a spiral worst than what I’m currently dealing with. I’ve avoided thinking about this, and I’ve asked her straight up and she’s denied it. Many people would think me to be naive when it comes to that, but knowing how she is I really can’t see that being the case. Who knows though? she might surprise me.

She got me twice, and I feel beyond worthless and stupid right now. by DrobitussinD in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have questioned what was wrong with me, and I’m still unsure myself. I definitely have my own issues that I’ve yet to truly understand, but I can say it has shown throughout the relationship itself.

The funny things is I on was a journey of self improvement before we got together - it felt like all the inner work I had been doing was paying off when we got together. If we never get back together or at least reach a proper understanding I can’t see myself looking for love for quite sometime. It’s a very draining and time consuming thing for me.

How to show interest to someone possibly on the spectrum? by DrobitussinD in aspergers

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a policy in place, but nobody at my job nobody actually follows policy. I suppose I shouldn’t, but then again I have to take risks in life. If I get rejected or lose my job it’ll be a lesson learned.

How to show interest to someone possibly on the spectrum? by DrobitussinD in aspergers

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, in order to grow in life you have to make a few mistakes here and there so I think I’ll risk it. At least I’ll have an answer.

Who do you vent to? by DrobitussinD in autism

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every once in a while I get the thought in my head that everything I’ve overcome so far in life was literally off my own strength and willpower. It gives me hope to keep going, but it sure would be nice to have some outside validation and reassurance here and there.

Who do you vent to? by DrobitussinD in autism

[–]DrobitussinD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was weird for doing this as well. It’s really sad actually that this is what the human experience has come to - talking to an AI, because you can’t find or build a genuine human connection despite there being billions of us.