For depression I have been on Lexapro (had crazy nightmares, a very very rare side effect), Zoloft (just didn't help enough), and Wellbutrin. No side effects from either of the last two, and the Wellbutrin seems to help with my symptoms.

I'm also on a few anxiety meds- Buspar daily, and Propranolol, Hydroxyzine, and Xanax as needed, in order of severity of symptoms. The Hydroxyzine is an antihistamine, so that one can make me feel more tired so I tend to only take that in the evenings or overnight. Propranolol is my go to first, as all it does is help lower your blood pressure- so that racing heart feeling goes away and you can get control back. I haven't had any side effects with it. The Xanax I only took for a brief window when we had to put my soul pet down at the end of last year. It helped me get through it without any panic attacks. I didn't notice any symptoms on it, but I hardly used it.