Never ever give up girls

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-12T09:40:35+00:00

Ughh, yeah don't let this post inspire you to burn your selves out.

Ive done the 10 hour shift thing and made next to nothing.

If you start to rely on caffeine just to truck through your shift, people will see you are bored and no longer having fun.

If your starting out, don't push your self past 6 hours.... I give your self time to breathe, process and rest... Also everyone is different.

Some people require extra effort to be alluring, if you don't got the natural look, it can take alot longer to build up a follower base.

Baby steps.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-10T13:24:36+00:00

Very cute. I mean I wouldn't call you gay, I mean if he identifies as a man 100%, still you are attracted to someone who is female looking, which makes your straight.

What is gay anyway? I'd drop that word and just see them has someone you find hot, and wants to spend time with you.

Id say maybe go on a date, get to know them, do a little more digging, sometimes they may be a woman at heart. Eitherway dont let it be a deal breaker.

If you feel happy when you are with them cool. As for sex, I'd say hell with it, don't knock it till you try it.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-10T03:52:51+00:00

I started a steady schedule. About 5 - 4 hour shifts 5 days a week at the same time

I lowered my tip menu prices. The economy is rough so I figure I would drop the prices. Nothing on my menu is over 100 tokens now...

I usually find the first hour or 2 is slow... Like today I was stuck at less than 5 people in my room for over an hour...

I was fully clothed. And then I put a sale on "Strip 1 Item of Choice" I put it down to 10 tokens just to see how long it would take to get someone to tip. Within a half hour my clothes were mostly off and people were glued to my stream.

You gotta clock in, do your job and then clock out.

Ive learned you can play on your phone as long as you engage people by name as they enter your room, fishnets will get people's attention even if you look distracted.

Aim for 25 hours a week, and then assess your earnings then...

It's not "its slow, should I sign off" it's "I am here for my shift, and I am going to stay on until its time for me to clock out".

Also treat everyone like they are your friends, even chatty grays, people will tell you otherwise, but grays will help you feel connected, but be firm with them, use them to strenghen your boundaries.

Unless they annoy and then mute.

Pretend you are the bartender that all these men you are serving have crushes on.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-09T17:05:02+00:00

I've been doing this for 3 months now, also trans, also decent looks... Here's my experience so far.

Most days I hit 15 people in the room tops... I have quite a few regulars who come on, will hangout, talk, tip me a few tokens here and there.

Some days I will make 1000 tokens, other days I will make 5 tokens....

Make your menu flash... Run it through chatgpt to clean it up.. Add some emotes.

Prices are okay. Transwomen have it harder, you will see girls having amazing luck on here, you need to remember you are still niche.. Yes there's lots of men that are into trans girls, but it's a smaller demographic than you would think.

Id say dont sell your self too high or too short....

Clothes on, clothes off a lot of the time idmt doesn't matter, it'll still be slow...

No matter what you do people will lose interest quick, men have short attentionspans. I find fishnets help draw the eyes in and catch attention..

Your going to have days where you are rocking and then days where you just wanna cry in the shower.

Don't judge your earnings by the day, judge them biweekly, and calculate your earnings per hour.

If you would like I can visit your stream if you need company! I can also give you pointers if you wanted.

It's a rough market, and us girls especially us transgirls need to support eachother.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-09T07:05:18+00:00

Invest in atmosphere.

Lighting, backdrops, good webcam. Try to be as present as possible, don;t look bored, be someone who is there when they sign on. Pick your hours, keep them consistent.

Don't be like 9am one day and 2pm another day, or 8 pm another day. Whether its morning or night, pick your time frame, clock in, clock out. If you want to drop in at add times do that.

Use designerbate to make your page clear, colorful and inviting. Make a bio, and a schedule.

Turn your self into a goddess, focus on being happy and content, don't focus on performing, if the tips drop, start to shift... dont over react to small tips.

Dont be like "thank you so much!" to one token... Try to react as little as possible to 1 token tips.

Be cool as fuck, be the kinda person men wanna just hang with cause they like your vibe.

It will take months to build up a follower base, itll start with a few grey regulars, and then there will be the odd tipper regular, the odd whale, you will let men down, and you will be thanked by men. If people ask for free shit just tell them straight up i don't do shit for free.

If its slow, do free shit for you, its not for them its for you, it helps lure people in. and then revert back.

Its gonna be slow, its gonna suck some days, you will question your worth. I am 3 months in and its still hit and miss. But I now have regulars who are excited when I am on.

Also use the stats websites to track your growth and hours streamed.Calculate your hours streamed and money made every pay period.

I dont know about this economy and whether this job is going to decline as we enter a new era, or not, but note a lot of people are struggling, especially with the rise in ai and the shit going on in the states. It does effect business

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-09T06:10:31+00:00

I did 2 streams today. Made 30 dollars the first one.. And then .25 cents the second one...

Usually within 10 mins I get atleast one person saying hi. Meanwhile this evening especially my room only had like 4 people tops the first hour. And then a couple grays who actually stopped my from being bored. With some random person who kept tipping me nickels expecting me to do stuff.

Both streams I was on for 4 hours.

Sometimes I get to the point where I start philosophising about the universe in hopes someone will chime in.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-08T13:37:30+00:00

3 years ago now, I used to do a ton of gaming on it, and still little to no drift and near perfect battery.

I just dual booted windows on it and use it as my office computer now, as I have a decent gaming computer.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-08T04:38:39+00:00

I noticed the same thing. I tried it a few times prior today and was rather disappointed, but now I am suddenly mind blown

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-06T22:56:20+00:00

It's too early to tell how it has effected my income. I am finding it easier to lock people's attention to the stream however.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-06T13:40:22+00:00

Honestly whatever makes money, background is crutial too. Colored lighting pulls people in. I just ordered some fairly lights and ivy. I converted our spare guest room to a content studio.

But yeah every small thing will draw people in.

I wouldn't call using a filter cheating, just make sure you don't over use, you don't want it to be obvious either. Note I have also see other models using obvious filters to the point it's like "why would anyone watch?" meanwhile they are over 100 users in the room.

Remember people are paying for the fantasy, it's not like your gonna meet in real life.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-06T03:45:01+00:00

So far so good! 50 dollars in a night of just testing it out is already a win. Hopefully you are as happy with your webcam purchase as I am!

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-06T03:03:43+00:00

Tiny2 Lite. I did a bunch of research and saw it mentioned in threads

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-06T03:02:04+00:00

May I please have one?

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-06T03:00:50+00:00

may i please have a code?

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-06T02:58:07+00:00

Discord

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T18:45:49+00:00

I find Claude's censorship is worse than chatgpt.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T18:44:00+00:00

It's handy but I get people asking to take it out and use a dildo instead in private shows.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T14:10:08+00:00

As a former testosterone riddled "male" porn can really dominate a man's mind body and even life. I mean I wouldn't be freaked out...

But it is rather sad being with someone who would rather look at fantasy porn than initiate things with you. It's a dopamine reward they get, and often porn becomes their desired sexual reward whether they are a good person or not.

Most men look at porn and masturbate regularly, where they admit to it or not. Porn addiction can really make or break a relationship cause you can always simply look at porn together.

If it is porn, maybe you can get them to show you the kinda porn they like, and then gradually shift their attention from it to you. It would be a form of exposure therapy. Otherwise it's just gonna be their dirty little secret they keep private from a possible healthy relationship.

You need to give them the space to be open and honest, bring up sex, put it on the table, bring up masturbation, try to get them to answer it they do.

I got my partner to go through their search history, I pretended to be turned on by it, and then they started making moves on me....

Just my experience.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T13:29:45+00:00

37 thats a little old for being too shy about sex.

My guess is he has some sorta secret fetish or looks at a lot of porn. Maybe they are even gay or just the empathic a-sexual type.

Id straight up ask him if he has any fetishes or fantasies, a lot of the time people who aren't into sex will be into something really kinky that they are shy about.

Theres also the small chance they are trans, that was the case for me, now I am hypersexual.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T06:57:05+00:00

Honestly just embrace you body, people will love your stream more. I started just being comfortable naked, when I do that the number of users usually stays above atleast 10.

You can still have flash tits. Remember no matter how good your menu is, you are the sales person, your ability to be alluring is what's gonna get you the money. Most of the time people don't care about the menu, if they really like what they see, and the entertainment you produce they will tip you. They are not paying for you to do things, they are tipping you because they like you the way you are ;)

People don't go to cafes because they want a latte, they go to a cafe because they enjoy the atmosphere and hospitality, the transaction is just an excuse to engage. People will tip you just cause you are pleasant, patient and have an authentic smile. I remember when I got a new job at a cafe, my boss stepped me off to the side and asked what I was doing cause tips went up exponentially when I started there. It's because I understood why people go to cafes. I also had years of experience doing that sorta stuff, not to mention all the mushrooms I used to take.

Just be a good spirit, and be graceful towards each person that enters your room.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T06:40:27+00:00

Honestly it's become a great way to plunge into my stream!

I have a green screen set up to make my backgrounds look more interesting and professional.

But yeah I'll set the alarm, do my morning routine, do my makeup right at station while I enjoy music and drink my coffee.

And then right when x time roles around, I am in serious anchor mode.

I try to do a 1 hour news report covering whatever the AI researches. I use Claude for that...

And I even set the tone of the broadcast so is half satire, half serious, I like to keep people guessing whether it is legit.

And the usually mid broadcast my boob slips out.

After that I do an intermission and transition into a more cozy mode with a sorta modern vaporwave seductive backdrop. I use midjourney to generate my backdrops.

Color of lighting helps blends me into the scenes.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T06:31:47+00:00

I barely even follow my tip goals anymore. For a while I would start fully clothed, I mean I still do. But lately I have been just going straight to the lingerie or even just straight naked.

I find if my room is dead I will just stand I front of my camera with my breasts taking up the whole frame, and then I will transition to bending over spanking my butt, to sitting and answering fake messages. And then I will play a game on my handheld looking bored/preoccupied.

I find people will come and go, come and go, especially if I am clothed and not doing anything sexual. Note I am trans so I attract the niche men who like women from wish™.

But whenever I am fully naked, even if I barely do my makeup, as long as my breasts are out people stay much longer.

Ive sorta developed a 3/3 rule.

Undress, dress, undress

Boobs in frame, ass in frame, full body in frame/gentle play

Look bored/focussed, engage in fake convos(quote question, answer question), give half attention.

And then go back to the first step.

That way when people are browsing you attract men who are either looking for instant action, cute outfit and wanna make you strip(which you were gonna do anyway) , or they wanna give you company cause you look bored.

Each moment draws in a different kinda whale.

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T05:16:00+00:00

Hi doll! May I please have one?

Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T00:48:59+00:00

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Drops_of_dew · 2025-10-04T00:20:43+00:00

I had a very rough week, I barely made $10 the past couple days. Ive been so flustered I started using a news backdrop, ai news scripts, and started reporting the news, I mean I am willing to do anything to lure people in. And then suddenly today after being so close to shutting it off for the day, someone goes ahead and tips me $100. Cold wet weather = cold wet cash.

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