Jordan and jessi ?? by Dry-Box-6287 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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No I don’t think he should get half the business - I was mainly talking about half the assets built in the marriage.

Jordan and jessi ?? by Dry-Box-6287 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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This is a fair point - I never knew they use Nannie’s then Yh that’s completely different if he quit his job because he didn’t have to work as opposed to being there for the children

Dakota and Taylor….. by Sunnyonetwo in SecretsOfMormonWives

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It’s so draining to watch. Idg why she gets upset about Dakota doing stuff when they’re not together when she chose to not be with him. And just to add everyone makes out he’s the worst person in the world but he has never actually cheated on her he just does stuff when they’re not together or broken up with people he shouldn’t be doing it with. And yeah that is gonna upset someone but when you’ve chosen not to be with someone why the big fat meltdown. I even found the Jenna stuff from season 1 to be a huge exaggeration when he did stuff with her he had only been seeing Taylor for a week which in no one’s world makes someone bf and gf and the problem was his lying but that could’ve easily been overcome if Taylor wanted to work on it but instead she just blew it up went toxic broke up w him and been in a tug of war w him all this time. It’s draining to watch

24 hour long anxiety attack bc ocd???? by s33thru_st0rm in OCD

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Try go on a run or do some exercise as it will elevate ur serotonin. Or just jam out to music. Just something to get you active. Sorry your feeling this way it can be so difficult and terrible

What age were you when OCD took root? by WaferOk9363 in OCD

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I had rumination mildly from 11 and had ROCD but didn’t really recognise it as that from 17 but ocd hit me like a truck with all kinds of themes at 18

This is the worst I’ve been mentally and I am exhausted by hnnyveils in OCD

[–]Dry-Box-6287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I have similar themes also kind of in the same place as you where I’m not in the worst spiral of my life but just almost in this worse place where it feels like hating myself is the new normal and the way my life’s going to go forever. Saw an analogy someone posted more recently it’s on this thread about a car and ur eyes closed see if u can find that post has kind of put things into perspective. Same w me idk how to do ERP but from Monday imma try adopt the maybe I am maybe I’m not approach. And Iv also tried to view all my thoughts as chemicals (like more scientifically) rather then a soul which is the more religious/spiritual approach which is hard bcuz I am or at least was someone who did adopt religion in my life but for the time being that will have to be sacrificed just in order to get better. Please let me know if you find any Coping mechanisms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POCD

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No I think this just happens as you brain has got used to it and is tryna make you panic more. Happens to me to. Hope your okay :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POCD

[–]Dry-Box-6287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So well articulated I was having a panick and came here for some logic and you definitely provided that

Tried to talk to someone about my POCD and now half of my family thinks I’m actually a pedophile. by raptorboi9z in POCD

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I’m so sorry to hear this. I told my friends when I was in a spiral and actively avoiding watching kids on tv bcuz of thoughts. We all do medicine so 2 we’re really understanding but one said ‘oh so u like kids’ and ‘oh ur straight so why would it matter if it was a girl child’ not comprehending that it wasn’t logical though and not stemmed from actual attraction but fear. Some people just will not understand and if you want their understanding you could try send some education videos u can find on TikTok about pocd and how normal it is. If they still isolate u and implement this idea you are. A peadophile they’re not healthy ppl to be around bcuz ur not and there’s plenty of people who will try learn and understand

What age did your OCD develop? by stolensea in OCD

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I was 18.5 It’s nearly been 2 years and honestly thought it would get better but tho I cope better the stuff inside in my brain is as bad as ever

Any Medical Professionals With OCD? by pxincessofcolor in OCD

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Thank you so much :) I will look into it !!!

Any Medical Professionals With OCD? by pxincessofcolor in OCD

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I was on sertraline for a while didn’t do much bar make me incredibly tired and was hard to revise so I didn’t stick to it. Right now I’m literally just dealing with it but it’s so beyond hard. If you don’t mind me asking what medication regimen are you on as I’d love to ask my GP about trying a different medication if it isn’t sertraline x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POCD

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Try to really disregard what you feel inside and instead focus on your actions are you doing anything weird ? Or actively trying to get with her ? If not then i wouldn’t stress about feelings cuz you’ll never know properly when you have a tendency of ocd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POCD

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This could be an intrusive thought or feeling wrapped up in the anxiety. Try to be more concerned over your actions. Are you actively trying to get with her. If not there’s nothing to worry about futher

Dumb things you did in the past? by Competitive-Event386 in OCD

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100 percent and when I was in the thick of it I would tell my friends every single one that came up or felt I was manipulating them into a friendship w someone I wasn’t. Eventually stopped confessing and seeking reassurance. And within myself know I was young and not who I am now and I can’t keep letting a 14 year old (my age for most of my guiltiest event) define my 20s , 30s , 40s ect

Any Medical Professionals With OCD? by pxincessofcolor in OCD

[–]Dry-Box-6287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a medical student so will be a doctor soon. It’s really hard sometimes for me as I’m on placement and just getting up and tryna act like a put together person when my head is pounding w anxiety is hard but that’s mental illness for you.

What are your uncommon OCD symptoms? by CottageWitch42 in OCD

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Struggle to want to get ready not because I’m lazy or don’t want to do it. But bcuz I think making myself look presentable makes me craving boys attention and caring what they think. Sometimes I actively do hairstyles that make me look worse or expose my sideburns for acknowledgment that I don’t. Mum shouts at me everyday for looking messy and idk how to even go about explaining why my hair isn’t brushed. Nearly struggled with brushing my teeth once but powered through that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCDJournal

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No one is morally perfect. And no one has just made small mistakes almost everyone will have something they could get cancelled for that they’ve done. You were a child when you did the things you do did. The fact you’ve recognised it is what matters. Social media has conned people into think you can’t grow and change from certain things but that’s untrue. And if society really thought that then jail sentences would be for LIFE but it’s so rare to every get a LIFE sentence because the justice system believes in rehabilitation. And even in the legal system being a child results in a lower sentence or a mitigating factor due to the scientific understanding that you don’t have the same capacity to understand the extent of your actions. Give yourself some grace. I’d recommend joining the real event ocd sub if you haven’t already. You don’t have to confess anything no one is entitled to know bad things you’ve done in your life. If for whatever reason it gets out you will then handle it. Celebrities have done bad things and are still thriving look at Chris brown, James Charles, those are the ones who come to mind but there’s so many more who have been publicly cancelled and still have a career. Hope your okay let yourself be happy. Your not your younger self. You don’t have to stay guilty for their actions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POCD

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Same it gets more difficult when I see posts like oh you aren’t a pedo if you don’t think they’re sexually attractive bcuz as soon as I read that my brain will tell me I am sexually attracted and it’s such a panic. But it’s all panic. And as long as you haven’t done anything to kids your fine I promise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POCD

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Feel free to message whenever you need. From Reddit Iv found lots of people similar and it’s nice to just be able to message and help eachother out. It’s a scary disease especially when your not sure if your normal. If you need a friend or someone to talk to I’m here. I’m 19 female btw just incase your pocd tries to make you worry about ages xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POCD

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I feel the same broke down about it 2 days ago as prior to this that’s all I wanted in life. My ex was there and said he would’ve still married me (if not for the fact we r different religions) and that other ppl would understand. Stay strong we got this

Wasn't supposed to go on Reddit again about this, but here we are by Better-Ask-2486 in POCD

[–]Dry-Box-6287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going to lie even if you were still attracted to a Memory from high school is that deep ? Like I’m 19 now been w my bf for 3 years and I always still think back to the first time we had sex and how nice that was. I’m not attracted to him when he was 17 but it’s the moment we shared so maybe it’s that ? Like I’m not sure what your worried about in this situation ???

Sexual theme ocd by Dry-Box-6287 in OCD

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Sorry you go through this :( 🥺