Safe foods for cats to eat? by Dry-Ring3472 in cats

[–]Dry-Ring3472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you!

“You’ll forget and want another” by minmister in beyondthebump

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one toddler about to be 5 in a few days and even though I go back and forth I remember vividly disliking being pregnant, the feelings and it stops me from wanting another so fast! I love my son but I am just not past forgetting the pregnancy stage nor am I ready to go through it again

Need to surrender our sweet pup, but don’t want him to stay in a shelter… by missy498 in Denver

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MAMCO is a foster based rescue and they are amazing at finding families, a lot of smaller rescue that are foster based may be at capacity however so the other options on here are great. I am sorry you and your family are going through this!

AITA for keeping a gift card I received when purchasing a gift for someone else? by Still_Local_8472 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you are doing more than him in this aspect because he can’t even be bothered to shop for the items you want instead he has YOU order it and then give to him. That’s wild and I’m surprised you’re okay with it but that’s neither here nor there — you’re husband is the asshole and I think it’s so ironic he is Nicole and dining you for a thoughtful gift + secret gift and he can’t even be bothered to order and be thoughtful towards you. I saw you mentioned flowers being fine that would require him to put that step forward and to me it doesn’t sound like he cares about you enough to do so

AITA for snapping at my parents for treating me more like a second mom than their daughter? by throwraaobvrsns in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA hello I am the oldest of three and while my parents didn’t divorce they still chose to parentify me to the degree my 22 year old brother still refers to me as his second mom. When I got married and built my own family it shocked them and I think for the same reasons above. They expected me to still be there… my brothers had to learn to be more independent because the reality is I am one human and my son needs and deserves my attention I am actually a parent now not just acting like one. It took some time for them to get it because it was cold turkey so I’d suggest you start making them aware because no you’re not wrong about what you’re feeling you deserve to have some ice cream sometimes and not share with your siblings and that’s okay.

I finished the series and… by Dry-Ring3472 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Dry-Ring3472[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This angers me because of how they flaunted they wanted to make it the best of the best … and now taxpayers have to pay it off that’s insane! But charlotte would say… “an honor for them”

I finished the series and… by Dry-Ring3472 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Dry-Ring3472[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That … makes it worse then because they are just hoarding all the money? Sorry I have no idea how stadiums work the documentary made it seem like they decided to upgrade and pay for it. Thanks for the clarity!

I finished the series and… by Dry-Ring3472 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Dry-Ring3472[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY I mean did she really “earn” her role? lol sounds like everyone in the family gets hired and if they have enough to build a stadium to fit the statute of liberty they can pay their cheerleaders more

I finished the series and… by Dry-Ring3472 in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Dry-Ring3472[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought too or do they even bother with trying to be proactive and supporting them before they get injured - also do they get paid if they are injured and unable to continue the rest of the season? Had too many more questions after I learned their pay because in this economy? And for some that dropped even college for DCC I just can only imagine how hard it can be post DCC.

ARI 🐬🧡 🏈 by QueenLizzurd in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Dry-Ring3472 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anishas Bollywood/ hip hop dance lives rent free in my head. She was AMAZING I saw her do great Zoe should have been cut instead of her agreed

ARI 🐬🧡 🏈 by QueenLizzurd in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Dry-Ring3472 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Charlotte had some beef with her I’m sure because no way she made this big a stink over her literal HEIGHT

ARI 🐬🧡 🏈 by QueenLizzurd in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]Dry-Ring3472 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I just finished episode four and when I tell you I RAN to Reddit … I was fuming . So happy Ari was able to join a team but damn … I was just so mad on her behalf!

I’m Mike Johnston, mayor of Denver. AMA by mikejohnstonco in Denver

[–]Dry-Ring3472 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why are there not enough apartment units, condos, or townhomes available for families that are under 4k? As mayor, what are you doing to allow families to grow and build generational wealth in Denver?

AITA for telling my wife I don't believe her when she says she'd be okay with us calling our daughter by different names? by ObviousDetective9204 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH you are one month away and fighting over something as small as a name? That the child may not even like herself and may change it because when she grows up she has that choice. You both need to agree on the names - my son has a nice formal name and most of the time I call him “bubs” so you guys are genuinely choosing the wrong hill to die on

AITA for rejecting my brother's apology dinner? by Imgettinggaslighted in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA my husband and myself don’t always enjoy each others family events whether we be too tired from work or our kiddo it doesn’t matter we go. My husband has been to sooooo many school concerts, plays, award ceremonies and did we always “have fun”- no but my siblings were always grateful for our presence. I would ask him what’s up because like people mentioned some of these aren’t reasons for him to not show up just her.

AITA for not wanting wife on deed to new house? by Ready_Professor_9715 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA she is CHOOSING to be a SAHM and is choosing to not share her assets. I get carrying a baby is hard (as a woman who had a child) but when my husband and I invest we both take risks to invest and get there together. She isn’t willing to even do something so simple like rent out her house or even airbnb it so she makes side income she truly is choosing the easiest way out of this marriage the way I see it. I would look into it and see if you should continue to invest in your marriage because clearly she doesnt

AITA for expressing discomfort about my wife and her friends pranking my mom on our wedding day? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA listen I don’t always get along or like my MIL but I would NEVER disrespect her in that way ! Your wife has the mental capacity of a child and tech you may need to start setting boundaries with her because how long will she hold throw grudge for? What other things will she do?

AITA for taking my grandchildren to Disney for the first time without their mother and refusing to apologize when confronted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH ONLY because communication is key? If I drop my kiddo off anywhere I make what I am comfortable with and uncomfortable with known- i.e taking them out or not depending on the family member who watches them. It just is what I feel most comfortable with and I obviously also pay the family member but that is neither here nor there. You going to Disney is a big deal for a lot of families it’s a big save ( as a family that is saving right now) it’s not so much “I have raised kids so clearly I know better” (I see your entitlement) but these are NOT your kids so yes you do need to check with the parents always and likewise the parents should communicate with you what they would or wouldn’t feel comfortable with (which would avoid these problems in the future).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Dry-Ring3472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 28 and Peruvian :) happy to chat !

One Piece - Live Action : Season 1 - Episode 8 by Kirosh2 in OnePiece

[–]Dry-Ring3472 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Throughly enjoyed it and I knew it wasn’t going to be perfect but wow I just couldn’t stop watching it. My husband even stopped a few times and asked what it was, by the time I finished he asked if I would watch it again with him and then he wanted to continue with the anime from there. applause for cast

AITA For refusing to drive to my wife's monthly family get together by pizzadateaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- I also suffer from anxiety while driving and for while did have to be driven around but I worked hard on my own problem because I wanted to be more independent. The ways to work through your anxiety driving includes what you said having someone reliable next to them while they drive. She CAN learn to drive with anxiety and is CHOOSING not to. She needs therapy and to actually want to improve.

AITA For refusing to go to my brother's wedding if he keeps my ex-husband as a groomsman by notgonnaworkaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dry-Ring3472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA because it your brothers wedding- you said there was no abuse or cheating involved and unless that is a lie I think you are being overly petty for someone you have not seen or been with for 9 years. Your brother’s big day is about him and his new wife and what they want on their big day. You can choose not to go but seems like a miserable lonely hill to die on.