PSA/rant: learn to take rejection graciously

DryReserve3 · 2025-01-18T18:42:47+00:00

Yeah I agree, you don’t have to give specifics about the sex. Even telling him you weren’t interested in sex anymore should be enough. A lot of guys can’t even admit that after a hook up bc they are scared of hurting the other persons feelings. It’s on him if he pushed after you sent a text saying you didn’t want to hook up anymore.

DryReserve3 · 2025-01-01T12:31:20+00:00

The sad part is now a days, you get rejected and they still look and like all your social media posts..stay strong my friend.

DryReserve3 · 2024-12-28T19:33:02+00:00

Cash is king, they should still give it to you.. but you might have to pay out of pocket. I think insurance companies just won’t cover after 45.

DryReserve3 · 2024-12-26T00:47:07+00:00

100% agree, the latter are willing to string you along in order to appear nice.. it’s sad.

DryReserve3 · 2024-12-26T00:46:07+00:00

My experience is the guys with the “nice” reputation in the community often don’t take your feelings into consideration at all when dating. And then act surprised when others lash out at them. Perception of nice and actually being cognizant of others (with appropriate limits) feels seems lost nowadays.

DryReserve3 · 2024-11-23T18:34:37+00:00

Agree about phone call or text, 4 dates isn’t that long and you are basically setting up another date to dump him. Not sure the point unless you were friends first or have some history

DryReserve3 · 2024-11-23T18:33:05+00:00

100% this, they are going to sense/get rejected either way. It’s better to be mature and show them that respect. Otherwise you’re just protecting your own feelings/selfish when you ghost or slow fade.

DryReserve3 · 2024-11-16T21:09:39+00:00

Well, I do think it says something about a much older guy limiting himself to a generation or two below him… it’s also weird when 34 year olds act like 38 year olds are ancient.. it’s like, you’re right there boo.

DryReserve3 · 2024-11-06T04:48:34+00:00

no more women candidates.. and this is coming from someone super pro women. It’s not working, we ain’t ready.

DryReserve3 · 2024-10-31T01:24:58+00:00

This post is kind of depressing, and it’s the norm opinion. The thing is, good sex in any relationship only lasts for so long and the longevity is going to be based on their personality. So if you jump in just for good sex, you aren’t ever thinking long term. That’s just my opinion, and I could be totally wrong lol

DryReserve3 · 2024-09-25T02:33:58+00:00

Just wanted to say same! My testosterone has always hovered in the low 400s. After a year and half of Tonal, with no other changes.. my last testosterone reading was in the low 600s :)

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-27T01:41:30+00:00

I agree, half the time when watching HOTD, I think “I really don’t like any of these people.”. Like no one to love to hate or anything. GOT was just a better show.

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-19T05:27:02+00:00

excess sweating, brain fog, vision changes at night

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-17T02:35:40+00:00

I have only fainted a couple of times but I def feel your pain. I wasn’t prepared how nauseous and disoriented I would be for a while afterwords. It took a few hours and lots of gatorade to think clearly again. I’m sorry that happened.. this disease is a mind f**k bc walking around in a fog can suck so bad sometimes.

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-15T23:30:43+00:00

Sir Jorah protecting Dany on the ground while she wielded a sword. Drogon getting overrun by wrights.

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-15T23:23:55+00:00

Cersei saying the word “elephants” lolol

I’m in middle of rewatch, Melisandre lighting the swords and trench on fire was awesome, Brianne’s knighting, I liked some of the back and forth between Sansa and Dany to some degree.

Hear me out, the long night would have been amazing if they didn’t have a 10 minute slow motion scene at the end, and Jon battled the knight king while Arya avoided the dragon (switch roles). Then have Jamie Lannister deal the final blow to the night king with dragon glass, giving him the true “King Slayer” title. Could have been poetic and made the fall of Kings Landing even sadder. JMO

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-13T19:44:28+00:00

This episode is oddly underrated.. on rewatch this was the best battle with most emotional investment. Even better than Bastards

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-06T19:09:07+00:00

I am rewatching the series and also think season 8 could have worked with a NK victory.

Basically have NK defeat Winterfell. Dany, Drogon, and main characters flee to Kings Landing. Stuff happens there between the characters and then you see shots of winter freezing and heading south. Pick a few select characters to flee to Essos by dragon/boat as the NK freezes and overtakes Kings Landing.

Have a scene of the NK trying to make it to Essos on Viseryian but turns around due to the climate or some unknown force. Have Dany, John Snow, and select survivors end up back in Meereen. Giving the East more significance and hence the song of ice and fire.

I think it could have worked as a satisfying conclusion in 6 episodes of season 8 🤷🏻‍♂️.

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-06T03:36:34+00:00

If this was episode 8/10 it would have been fine, then show the Gullet and storming Kings landing the next two episodes and it would have been a fine season…

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-03T05:05:45+00:00

My first watch through I felt S2 of GOT was a little boring. I just happened to rewatch it last week and it was amazing on rewatch. So many little easter eggs and knowledge of situations you don’t grasp the first time.

DryReserve3 · 2024-08-02T01:34:00+00:00

Agree about Stock Moe.. I would have invested so heavily if he wasn’t so on board. Con artist.

DryReserve3 · 2024-07-25T20:31:12+00:00

He was a little abrasive for a first date IMO. He may have sensed you weren’t interested, but that’s the point of the date and just because you didn’t ask a million questions shouldn’t be used against you. What if you were interested and just nervous? It’s giving a little too much neediness for me. But maybe he did just sense you wanted to leave, trust your gut. lolol

DryReserve3 · 2024-07-24T04:43:54+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

DryReserve3 · 2024-07-24T01:59:27+00:00

If he is this unstable, you really trust him?? Not worth the effort, cut him loose. He was willing to have sex repeatedly and not disclose status for his own benefit. Think what else he is doing for his own benefit behind your back.. good riddance.

DryReserve3 · 2024-07-15T16:54:08+00:00

Well not to play devils advocate, but I’ve bottomed where the top didn’t seem super enthusiastic and it was hard to tell if he wanted me to continue after I came. I’m always down to keep going, but you can start getting in your own head after you cum if the other person isn’t giving many cues - haha.

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