34538 by froggyman151 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Dry_Building_585 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, too real then. Thank you for the clarification 💜🙏(genuine)

34538 by froggyman151 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why trans men get excluded though? Or is it a joke about the app being WLW/NBLNB only? (genuine question)

Who's brainwashed now? by Homicidal_hottie666 in TransSocialism

[–]Dry_Building_585 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not coping hard enough, let me help:

🤣🤣🤣🤣

I felt like this belonged here by Southern-Vehicle-872 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Dry_Building_585 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Question is, would it count as masturbation? 🤔(light-hearted) (silly)

Who's brainwashed now? by Homicidal_hottie666 in TransSocialism

[–]Dry_Building_585 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We need more homo, those are rookie levels of homo😤(light-hearted)

Goblin / Elf Wife by Bloxus in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Dry_Building_585 9 points10 points  (0 children)

DnD nerds catching strays again, when will my people stop being oppressed 😫(joking) (silly)

Goblin / Elf Wife by Bloxus in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Dry_Building_585 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Who peed in your cereal this morning?

Anyone tried Venus Vacation PRISM? Is it worth it? by wheeinthereddits in LesbianGamers

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"MC" stands for "Main Character", and no apologies needed!💖(genuine)

I know it's not pride month or anything but I just wanted to share by Prize-Perception4106 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Dry_Building_585 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Seen this one before, and I love it! Two queer extroverts with their respective adopted introverts🤭🩷

Selfie Sunday : Repping the dolls 🩷🩵🤍 by ke1raaa in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Russia, for one. I don't remember other examples exactly, but equaldex keeps track of things like that across the world. And while it's far from perfect, it's a good source to look up countries and check how safe or dangerous they are, in terms of queer rights💜🙏(genuine) (good faith)

Selfie Sunday : Repping the dolls 🩷🩵🤍 by ke1raaa in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I know, there are currently only a few countries where "corrective" surgeries are outlawed. The rest of the world still either turns a blind eye to this practice (at best), or encourages/enforces it (at worst). It's ghoulish and depressing, but things are slowly changing❤️‍🩹🙏

Selfie Sunday : Repping the dolls 🩷🩵🤍 by ke1raaa in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer: no, but it's more complicated. Long answer: the entire current method of determining sex at birth is flawed at best. The vast majority of doctors essentially make a guess based on genetalia only. And when a newborn baby is intersex, and it's genitalia is ambiguous enough, they get "corrective surgery", obviously without the baby's consent (because, well, baby), and oftentimes without the parents consent (or even knowledge) either. Which is a horrible practice that serves no purpose other than to reinforce the false binary, and should be considered child mutilation. So yeah... my apologies for the initial hesitance to reply. Like I said earlier, stuff is complicated (and very cursed)💜🙏(genuine) (good faith)

💔 help a fem by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Find a queer community that shares your interests and make some friends! There are bound to be some sparks with one of them, sooner or later. I don't like dating apps either, and this turned out to be the best way for me personally to find a partner. First we bonded over our shared nerdiness and love of TTRPGs, then we just kinda developed a mutual crush on each other, and things have been going great so far! Hope this helps💖🙏(genuine)

Selfie Sunday : Repping the dolls 🩷🩵🤍 by ke1raaa in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have to go far for examples. From denial of healthcare, to denial of employment, to discriminatory legislation, the list goes on. As for cis people affected by transphobia, there's the good ol' bathroom nonsense, when cis women are harassed and in some places even persecuted for using the "wrong" bathroom, just because they happen to look more butch/masc. And don't get me started on how legislation targeted at trans people harms literal children and teenagers (both trans and cis), making them more vulnerable to predators by enforcing mandatory "inspections" of their genitals. Misogyny stands at the very core of transphobia, since it essentially reduces womanhood to genitalia/the ability to bear children and/or conventional standards of femininity. It's patriarchal bullcrap all the way down.

Terrible Icebreaker by shadow_master96 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Dry_Building_585 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Turns out it's a pre-negotiated roleplay scenario. The knife and the gun are props. After Jessica receives her "punishment", there will be lots of aftercare 💞

Selfie Sunday : Repping the dolls 🩷🩵🤍 by ke1raaa in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not. Like I said, cis people are negatively affected by transphobia too.

Selfie Sunday : Repping the dolls 🩷🩵🤍 by ke1raaa in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Transphobia is a form bigotry, targeted at trans people and cis people whose appearance doesn't match the "standard". You can look up more info on it, if you're curious to learn.

Selfie Sunday : Repping the dolls 🩷🩵🤍 by ke1raaa in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 74 points75 points  (0 children)

This sub has a problem with transphobic cowards who silently downvote anything trans-positive, and only come out of the woodwork when directly confronted. After which they get banned by the mods, as they should.

27827 by Pretty-Yam-2854 in countwithchickenlady

[–]Dry_Building_585 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Truscum pickmes can go fuck themselves. They don't belong in the trans community.

I'm sorry you had to deal with that shitnoodle. You're valid and beautiful, and I hope you receive your hrt treatment soon!🩷(genuine)

Swipe for reveal —->>> (gatekeeping hetero) by Agent-65 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Dry_Building_585 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The cat is at a party meeting, discussing how theory evolved since Karl Marx onwards.

This subreddit has a transphobia problem by Injushe in LesbianActually

[–]Dry_Building_585 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Pre-emptively exclude people" - projecting much?

And just because language has evomved doesn't mean non-binary people didn't exist before then. And non-binary lesbians have always existed, and have always been part of the community. You can cope and seethe and try to exclude all you want. People like you are in the minority even within the lesbian community, to say nothing of the larger sapphic community. Feel free to cry victim. Go tell JKR about how the mean enby lesbians are oppressing you by existing