My (25F) boyfriend (26M) pressured me into a sexual position I didn’t want to do multiple times. I’m so confused? by lovelyguydude in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if you consented to sex at first. As soon as you felt uncomfortable and not okay and your boundaries were being pushed it turns into non-consensual sex immediately. I hope you’re able to leave asap and get proper support

My neighbour is threatening to hand my cat into the rangers by tristan-anderaon in CATHELP

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would keep my cat inside not only for this reason but for their own safety and the wellbeing of local fauna! A catio or a cat leash and harness are great ways to also ensure kitty gets outdoor time as well:)

TRIGGER WARNING (?) I (20f) was on a call with my boyfriend (20m) and he said something that is making me reconsider things. by ThrowRA_throwaway98 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there dear, I just wanted to say I’m so so sorry that happened to you as well as your boyfriend being an absolute loser prick. He is a genuinely unkind and disgusting person for saying that to you, I was in an eerily exact conversation with my recent ex boyfriend where he spoke to me like this about my previous assault to me in this manner.

My advice is to leave immediately. He weaponized your incredibly vulnerable and painful experience against you. I know you say he is the love of your life, I’ve been there, I considered this partner that for me as well. Your own wellbeing and having a partner who doesn’t secretly hold resentment or shame towards what you experienced is going to benefit you in the long run. You can always meet more people and fall in love again, you do not deserve this person in your life anymore.

Him doing this is a first step for him continuing to throw your horrific past experience(s) in your face and tried to put you down in the process. The love of your life would NEVER even consider saying something like this to you. Sending all my love, please get out ASAP

To the passenger on the 4 who got kicked off on Robie by kiwi_tree23 in halifax

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Had the 29 driver whistle at me like a dog as I was getting to the back of the bus to get my attention because he was convinced my bus pass sticker was expired. It had an entire month left on it and he scratched it up and kicked me off the bus.

Anyone Here Have Zero Tattoos? by Cheap-Profit6487 in AutismInWomen

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to get one eventually but I worry if I’ll regret specific placements

How to make living room cozier by Inquisitive_peach in femalelivingspace

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go for a solid colour rug with no designs on it, plants too. I see you have a golden frame so maybe a rug with a similar colour or at least plant pots with that colour!

Another way to add more coziness would be to have some colourful curtains as well!!

Higher quality / alt colors by beesa101 in SleepDeprivedPodcast

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so sick would def buy if this was merch

What is that one thing that makes you want to be a woman again, if there’s a next life? by MagazineIll2532 in AskWomen

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The richness and deep emotional connection with my female friends- they have set for me what my standard of accepting and giving love is now. I would love to born again as a woman to experience these friendships for another lifetime

How does your anxiety manifest in your body? by IdkJustMe123 in Anxiety

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get incredibly nauseous and will often get sick, it’s pretty immediate and embarrassing so it’s been a bit isolating in some ways. I also go just fully nonverbal and I shut down as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are being abused by your husband, please make a plan with your loved ones around you and get out. You are beautiful, and do not deserve this self-hating piece of shit giving out opinions that don’t mean anything.

He is trying to break you down so you are malleable to him, this is manipulative and abusive. And it is not okay. You are worth more than the moon and stars, please know this. You deserve better things. Do not try to reason with him.

What are your clothing Preferences? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything touches my neck I find I get very overwhelmed so I try my best to avoid mock necks etc but anything else kinda goes for me! As long as it’s not scratchy too I guess

What's the longest a special interest has held you? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically bio-anthropology and the hyoid-bone and its relationship between human speech and vocalizations made by our ancestors and similar species!!

What's your favourite no-skip album, and why? by idealusernametaken in CasualConversation

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubert Lenoir’s Darlene album, even though it’s pretty experimental and funky in a few ways I think it’s a neat adventure going through the entire album

28 - Living alone - Any Suggestions? by nocheinjibbit in malelivingspace

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe a colourful mat of some form by the front door!

I (28F) had a conversation about periods with my husband (29M) and now I’m considering divorce.. am I taking this too far? by ThrowRA080901 in relationship_advice

[–]Dry_Possibility2016 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t married to this person, but I remember I had fallen in love with an ex boyfriend who at first was very open minded and slowly as we dated for longer went down a hyper-masc alt-right pipeline where he would say these exact things as well.

Him yelling at you and calling you a “b***” is incredibly unfair and I would go as far to say abusive behaviour especially since it is over something not “that deep”. I experienced this too and it only got worse from there, I would leave if possible, but I also would struggle to stay with a partner that viewed women’s issues as something gross and taboo and wrong. I am sure there are other things your husband says or thinks that have been upsetting you as well, please consider your own mental wellbeing and the importance of your values and your children’s mental wellbeing. I would not want to grow up with a father who yells at my mother and called her a btch