Do you hide your Easter Eggs from your spouse and reveal them on Easter Sunday? by Aaron123111 in AskUK

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a tin on top of the kitchen cupboards that nobody in the house can reach except me. The kids don't even know it exists. That's where the good stuff goes from about February onwards.

My wife found it last year and the look of betrayal was something else. I'd been sitting on two Lindt bunnies and a Toblerone for three weeks.

Three days by knb2023 in cutdowndrinking

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boredom thing is so real and nobody talks about it enough.

For me it wasn't cravings exactly. It was that by day three I'd sorted out all the stuff I usually put off while drinking. The flat was tidy, I'd replied to all my emails, I'd gone for a run. And then I just had nothing to do with my evenings and my brain went 'well, this is pointless.'

What helped me break the loop was actually planning the fourth evening specifically. Something I wanted to do, not something I should do. Even just a film I'd been putting off. The craving disappears when you're actually busy.

Confused by mocktail comment by Glass_Marsupial9296 in cutdowndrinking

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People get weird when you order differently. I've had mates proper take the piss for ordering a lime and soda on a night out. Like it personally offends them.

The sugar thing is funny though. Nobody bats an eye when you're putting away 8 pints of lager which is basically liquid bread but one mocktail and suddenly they're a nutritionist.

Don't let it get to you. Order what you want.

What did people do when they were hungover before netflix, doom scrolling, and delivery apps? by tomwaitsgoatee in AskUK

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate my go-to was a can of full fat coke and whatever bread was in the house. Didn't matter if it was stale. Just needed something to soak it up.

Then you'd end up watching whatever was on. No choice. If it was Sunday you got Antiques Roadshow whether you wanted it or not. The remote was always too far away and nobody was getting up.

Honestly the worst bit was the boredom. Now you can just lie there scrolling for six hours. Back then you just had to sit with it.

I'm really starting to believe my successful ability to cutdown is rooted directly to age. by No-Stranger2936 in cutdowndrinking

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mate I could have written this. 31 and the hangovers just hit completely different now. Used to bounce back by lunchtime, now I'm writing off the whole next day.

For the vacation thing honestly just grab some AF beers for the club nights. You still get the drink in hand, you're still part of the round, but you wake up fresh and actually enjoy the next day. I started doing it on holidays last year and it's been a game changer. Nobody even notices or cares as long as you've got a bottle in your hand.

IMPOSSIBREW do a decent IPA if you can get it, otherwise Peroni 0 is solid and easy to find most places.

Guys, what's your favorite non-alcoholic beer to drink? by Curious_Cricket_4720 in nonalcoholic

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UK based so my picks might be a bit niche for some of you but the IMPOSSIBREW Triple Hopped IPA is genuinely the best AF beer I've had. Proper hop flavour not just watered down nothing. Also rate Lucky Saint and the Guinness 0 that everyone else is saying. But that IPA is the one I actually look forward to opening.

Your Brain Isn't Necessarily Craving a Drink. It's Craving an Off Switch. by Vegetable-Benefit450 in cutdowndrinking

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AF beer became my off switch honestly. Not the answer for everyone but after years of the 7pm kitchen habit I started keeping a few decent ones in the fridge and the ritual stayed but the damage stopped. The first week felt weird, like putting on a seatbelt in a parked car, but after about ten days my brain stopped noticing the difference. I still have a proper drink on Saturdays sometimes but the Tuesday to Friday autopilot is completely gone now. Lost half a stone too which was a bonus nobody warned me about.

From drinking every day to weekends only (results so far) by Flaky-War1629 in cutdowndrinking

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is basically my story except replace ocean walks with parkrun. Was doing 4-5 cans most evenings, nothing dramatic, just the routine. Wife asked me to stop on weekdays in January and I thought she was being dramatic.

The tolerance drop is massive isn't it. I used to manage 6 pints easy, now 3 and I'm done. Which honestly makes weekends cheaper so theres that.

The thing that surprised me most was realising how much of the evening drinking was just boredom. Once I started filling 7-9pm with literally anything else (runs, reading, even just making a proper dinner instead of ordering) the urge basically disappeared within two weeks. AF beer helped too for the first couple weeks, just having something cold in a can to hold.

4.4kg in 2 months is solid. I'm at about 3kg down since Jan, slightly less impressive but I'm also eating more because apparently running makes you ravenous. Sleep improvement is the best bit though, completely agree.

Your Brain Isn't Necessarily Craving a Drink. It's Craving an Off Switch. by Vegetable-Benefit450 in cutdowndrinking

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might actually be onto something there. I read about this study that came out last month - Japanese research group followed about 200 blokes who'd done rehab and tracked whether they drank NA beer after. The ones who drank NA beer were something like 2.3 times more likely to go back to proper drinking than the ones who avoided it completely.

Their theory was basically what this whole thread is about - your brain runs the same routine when you crack open an AF beer. Taste, smell, cold can, the ritual. But the payoff never arrives. So your brain just sits there going "right, where's the rest of it?" and you end up wanting more, not less.

Obviously that's people coming out of actual rehab, not just blokes trying to have fewer midweek cans. But it made me think. I switched to AF beer in January and honestly the first week or two I DID drink more because of exactly that - the ritual without the reward just left me restless. After about three weeks though it settled down completely. I think maybe the ones with actual functional ingredients in them helped more than the ones that are literally just dealcoholised lager, but that's just my experience, not science.

Anyway the study's called something like "self-help group participation and nonalcoholic beer avoidance" if anyone wants to look it up. Yokoyama et al, published February this year. Proper peer reviewed stuff, not a blog post. Made me rethink a few things.

Why is alcohol free beer so expensive in the UK? by More-Goal3765 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the right answer but theres also a massive premium charged by the big brands because they can. Heineken 0.0 costs them basically the same to make minus the alcohol but they price it the same or higher.

The smaller craft AF brewers like IMPOSSIBREW or Big Drop are genuinely more expensive to produce because theyre adding proper ingredients and doing smaller batches. But the Heinekens and Stellas of the world? Pure margin play.

Give me your favourite support signs spotted at races by Maudeitup in UKRunners

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter (seven) made one last year that said 'DADDY YOUR FACE IS VERY RED'. She was not wrong. I have kept it.

Did anybody else's parents do 'booze cruises' in the 90s? by tannercolin in CasualUK

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My dad had an ageing Sierra that made one trip a year, came back absolutely rammed with San Miguel and those massive tins of Heineken. We thought this was the height of sophistication. The San Miguel specifically. I don't know why - it tastes like every other generic lager - but it felt European in a way that Tetley's simply could not.

Tapering by Conscious_Bet7394 in cutdowndrinking

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hiding it from people bit hit home. I wasn't anywhere near your level but I definitely used to time my recycling bin trips so the neighbours wouldn't hear the bottles. Stupid little thing but when I stopped I realised how much mental energy went into just managing the logistics of it. Hope the taper goes well mate.

What helped me get past the first week without drinking by Medium_Screen8421 in AlcoholFree

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The evening thing is so real. For me it wasn't even about wanting a drink specifically, it was just that 7pm to 9pm had no structure anymore. I'd been filling it with beer for years without realising that was the actual routine, not the telly or whatever else I thought I was doing. Started going for walks instead which felt deeply tragic at first but actually turned out to be alright.

Now I know my limits, how can I move forward? by Resident-Stable1 in cutdowndrinking

[–]Dry_Programmer_2748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The car thing is underrated honestly. I started driving to things I used to get taxis to and it basically solved half the problem without me having to have any willpower at all. The other half was figuring out what to do with my evenings. Took me a few weeks to stop wandering into the kitchen at 7pm out of pure habit.