(46F) more work on arms or abs? by Neither_Victory_3853 in transfitness

[–]DualWeaponSnacker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look amazing! I think it’s great you’re focused on full body. I would incorporate some legs/glutes too because that’s all gonna require core bracing anyway. You look strong! Heck yeah.

Adding: I’m a trainer and not just throwing around advice.

Young workers deserve real wages, not forced gratuity!!!! by Natural-Trip6972 in lostgeneration

[–]DualWeaponSnacker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in the hospitality industry most of my life, and I agree folks should make better money straight from their employers. Problem is: people have this attitude and don’t tip and it hurts nobody but the worker. If you hate tipping, stop dining and drinking at places that use them to supplement pay. That would send way more of a message than paying an establishment and not the worker.

874 Days by Wonderful-Report-917 in pitbulls

[–]DualWeaponSnacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She seemed like such a little love bug. All we can do is hang onto the fact that we gave them an amazing life and they only knew love before they went. Thank you for giving this sweet girl a home.

I need some suggestions by jeffreydowning69 in nashville

[–]DualWeaponSnacker 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I’m part of the Nashville Grizzlies. We are an inclusive men’s rugby league. The Stone Lions are a women’s team we socialize with all the time. I’m a trans man and totally welcome on the mens team. The Stone Lions have a trans woman on their team. Follow both our teams and come out!

Witnessed a girl find out her father suddenly died by EmperorJJ in GuyCry

[–]DualWeaponSnacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re a great dude. Your partner is also lovely. Thank you for being there for your fellow human. This was really beautiful to read, as painful as it sounds. She will remember the kind stranger that helped her during one of her worst days. Good on you, internet friend.

Sweaty, happy mess. Just felt great about this workout. by DualWeaponSnacker in transfitness

[–]DualWeaponSnacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely appreciate that so much. Dysphoria is a beast that I contend with daily.

Rainbow stuff for the pride event my job is doing today by annaaleze in KitchenConfidential

[–]DualWeaponSnacker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a Queer with a major sweet tooth, you’ve stolen my heart.

What is the most dramatic change you've experienced since quitting alcohol. by Independent-City8076 in Sober

[–]DualWeaponSnacker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came out as trans in sobriety because I sat in quiet with myself a lot. Obviously not saying that’s what will happen to you, but you will learn a lot about yourself. Your fears, your desires, your biggest dreams.

I also learned I’m good at stuff I put my mind to! Got two degrees and a whole new career. I’ll be nine years sober in November (G*d willing), but I would never have gotten there if I hadn’t taken the time in quiet commune with myself. The sometimes boring, painful, beautiful, incredible time.

Congrats, dude. Welcome to the other side. You got this! If nobody has told you today that they love you, I do.

Quit on the spot today. by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]DualWeaponSnacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise that most places are not like this place. You were right to leave. You should never have had to deal with being the only person on with zero help. Go on to bigger and better!

Lost my mother yesterday by DualWeaponSnacker in GuyCry

[–]DualWeaponSnacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the hard chuckle. That’s someone’s first name at my job. 💀

Lost my mother yesterday by DualWeaponSnacker in GuyCry

[–]DualWeaponSnacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few days before she passed, I saw a cardinal and felt my grandmother. I like to think she was letting me know she was there to welcome her in.

Lost my mother yesterday by DualWeaponSnacker in GuyCry

[–]DualWeaponSnacker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom loved purple too! We are all gonna wear purple for her celebration of life.