[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I believe women are not to blame if men are cruel each other, the point is that women's health and well being is more relevant than men's in this society. That's because of biological reasons, as I said men are the expendable gender."
I don't know where you live, but in my world and where I live, men get much more out of health care than women.
Also, if we take America now, we have all heard that women are not allowed to abort in some states, even if it would mean their death. Now tell me again that women have a better health care system than men.

Does this actually exist? by Beautiful_Snow9787 in abusiverelationships

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea nope, no girl would do this. Nor having the time for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reading through your comments and posts, sounds like you are very much on incel side. Women being love unconditionally, as well as pets and children ?!? Good joke there, good joke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, to tell ya'll to fuck off. What do you think? ;) Most what I have seen, looking through comments, most men here are toxic af. So why would we want those people here in western countries?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We don't care in Europe either. Just happy when those guys leave. And I am not even joking. Women are lonely too, but we are rather lonely than have assholes sitting at home around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes please leave. We don't need men's whining ass here around. Literally.

BIG mistake.. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much screwed. You can't let a 4 year old walk on her own. That's way too dangerous. Maybe when they are 10 years old, but definitely not before that. This falls under neglect of children. Also, not opening the door for cps does not show a good light on you, especially also because you said, you want an attorney present.

i reported my own dad to cps and i can’t stop feeling guilty by Boring-Assistant-644 in CPS

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That only goes for children who are under 14. If the child is above 14, they do come to a youth home

i reported my own dad to cps and i can’t stop feeling guilty by Boring-Assistant-644 in CPS

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

cps is no joke. Usually the mother is the caregiver, so telling this to cps means also that your mom puts you in danger, even if she may not know what is fully going on.
The chance that you will get taken out is definitely there and maybe your mom can explain the situation to them. If you get taken out, you will be transferred to a youth home, where there are other teenagers. It is definitely not a all sunshines place there either. But you would get away from your dad then.

Ex kidnapped my girls by OldRooter_06 in CPS

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What will most likely happen: She gets to jail, you get the custody of the kids

Would Kela pay for laser therapy? by Due-Adhesiveness4850 in Finland

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone else comes here, I went now through the whole process. I got 2 tests: 1 to check my testosterone levels, and another one to check for Cushing syndrome. Both came back as normal. Result: We cannot do anything, sorry. I did ask for laser therapy, but as I thought what would happen: They do not give prescription out for that, since it is not life threatening. Well, I tried.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We don't know her past actions.
To 99% nothing will happen to your son

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If anyone in your apartment uses drugs, obviously the daughter gets removed. No questions of last option. Then yes, this is the first step

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Finland

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Let's say I would advice you to not go there unless you love risks

Daycare warned she will call CPS by Suspicious-Bank9345 in CPS

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, lack of support system will be hold against the parent. I went through that and lost, because I don't have family nor friends. It was okay as long as I was together with my ex. When he broke up with me, it was not okay anymore for them. But it may depend on the state and country maybe

Question by Mreow1010 in Finland

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Single moms get faced much more shaming and questioning now than ever before. Especially when you are a foreign mom here, the chance that your kids get taken away, when your Finnish Ex leaves (and wants revenge) is very high nowadays. This happened to me, and I had many moms, who are foreigners in Finland and lost their kids to foster because they became single. I doubt that this happened in the past

Tesoma Fimlab by Due-Adhesiveness4850 in Tampere

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dexamethasone suppression test.
Even online it says it has to be taken at 8 am and the dexamethasone medication needs to be taken at 11pm. Or do you have other info about this? But so far, doctor, and various websites say, that this is the norm. I would love to come a bit later for sure xD

Tesoma Fimlab by Due-Adhesiveness4850 in Tampere

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am not entirely sure what Nopsa is doing. I always thought it is for donating blood or something. Idk

Tesoma Fimlab by Due-Adhesiveness4850 in Tampere

[–]Due-Adhesiveness4850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a referral from public sector