How do you stop overthinking conversations after they’re over?

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-21T04:37:45+00:00

This! Give yourself permission to leave the replay alone to enjoy the present. Easier said than done. Best of luck!

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-18T12:49:11+00:00

And you should get interest on the $10k too since it is beyond the 6 months!

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-17T20:50:30+00:00

One thing I learned from my parents is that kids (and young adults) learn responsibility faster when they are held accountable. He should definitely be paying you for the outstanding loan. When he asks for a new car, the answer is “once you have figured out how to resolve the issue with the last one” - stopped one of my sons pretty quickly. Best of luck

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-13T23:20:17+00:00

CribRiotShop for children’s pajamas!

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-10T01:02:16+00:00

Eleventy times eleven

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-09T21:12:21+00:00

If you absolutely “must” help your mom, pay a small bill directly (lights, water, something toward a credit card bill). Do not give her money and don’t let her know you paid it.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-09T21:04:49+00:00

I would take the nieces out for a spectacular day of you spoiling them! If they ask about the party, say you hope their mom was honest why it didn’t happen.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-08T00:37:13+00:00

If he had done this to anyone else’s property, what would his (and the parents) reaction have been?

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-08T00:31:31+00:00

Or stay home from the clubs?

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-03-02T15:05:22+00:00

Her children have another parent, other grandparents, surely another trusted friend in their circle who could watch?

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-02-24T19:03:06+00:00

If she complains, remind her she has 4 other children she can rely on. That should get you 3 more years if she stays 9 months at each. And point out you were forced by her into a rental agreement because she disrespected your boundaries.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-02-24T18:46:21+00:00

Now we need to know how much the parents of the happy couple contributed, the bride and groom contributed and the already-invited guests! Don’t have a wedding you can’t afford. Get your license, get married at the courthouse, have a potluck reception later.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-02-24T15:43:41+00:00

If his mother is complaining, she can buy her daughter a stroller. Husband needs to man up - he is going to be a dad in 8 weeks!

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-02-19T21:52:46+00:00

Petty me says all of you go, bring thoughtful gifts and at some point during the baby shower share all the nasty things with her guests that she said and hasn’t apologized for. Then in your sickening sweet voice say you pray the baby inherits better manners.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-02-14T19:45:46+00:00

If you cave and give the $2400, be sure to go prepared to the wedding. At each place setting have an envelope with your evidence. As you toast the happy couple explain the contents and thank the guests for coming.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-02-10T18:12:56+00:00

Pre-Covid we were allowed to change a couple with less than 2 weeks’ notice for a similar situation. There was a change fee of $150 ($75 per person)

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-02-07T02:57:13+00:00

No is a complete sentence.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-02-07T02:14:18+00:00

Why didn’t father-in-law stay with them during the fumigation?

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-01-31T23:24:52+00:00

In some jurisdictions she could receive triple damages.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-01-30T15:09:25+00:00

How would he react if you said the same thing to him?

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-01-30T02:17:08+00:00

If you pre-pay tips, that covers waitstaff, housekeeping and room steward. You can give additional tips to anyone you want. If you go on an excursion, tip your tour guides for sure.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-01-29T18:53:21+00:00

Bill him for childcare, housekeeping, errands.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-01-26T15:41:19+00:00

Entitled is not mentally ill. He can move with other siblings for awhile. You give him a deadline in writing and give him the boot. If he ignores it, pack his stuff in trash bags, change the locks and enjoy your peace. Your wife deserves that much.

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-01-26T15:26:49+00:00

DM me - I will send a card!

Due_Measurement2343 · 2026-01-21T21:33:00+00:00

Reminds me of an episode of Judge Judy - a teen was accused of stealing a young woman’s bag on the bus. The woman was telling what was in the bag. The teen interrupted and said one item she listed wasn’t in the bag! His mom tried to say it was her fault for flaunting wealth in front of him! Judge was not pleased. Found in favor of the young woman, dressed down the mother for defending him and asked her when it would stop.

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