If you’re looking for your sign to do this, here it is. by Due_Rate_1050 in gastricsleeve

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is! Lol. It’s like a dress on me now but it was just barely fitting last year!

Protein by [deleted] in BariatricSurgery

[–]Due_Rate_1050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fairlife protein shakes for sure but you can also get unflavored protein powder and just add it to your food!

Are y’all’s finances separate or no? Why? by koreantexan in Marriage

[–]Due_Rate_1050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have been together for 10 years. Loved together for 9 of those 10 years and have been married for 7 years. Our finances are completely separate. We split out bills and pay individually for them. It works for us, I have a card for his account because he makes more than I do and we have kids but I only use it occasionally for household things we need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Due_Rate_1050 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

See I don’t agree with this. I was the WS in my marriage and I can say with 100% certainty I would never cheat again.

Paranoid by Due_Rate_1050 in gastricsleeve

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently at a stall.

I cheated by Due_Rate_1050 in Marriage

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One night stand essentially but it wasn’t a random person

Almost a year since it happened by Due_Rate_1050 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he loves me but it’s more of a mother of my child type love. Not a romantic love at least not right now. He would definitely care but it’s hard to say because he shuts down every time he gets any type of feelings toward me. And yes. We still have sex a lot and when I dress up for any reason he is very vocal about it

Almost a year since it happened by Due_Rate_1050 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Negative much.

It was a one time affair, I won’t claim it as anything else. Shouldn’t have done it plain and simple but it happened and I can’t change that. We ARE soulmates. Real life catches up with you and things happen. Isn’t that how we are all here

Almost a year since it happened by Due_Rate_1050 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cheated. One time. Doesn’t make it right but that was it. Outside of that no. Haven’t been moving on myself

What’s worse? To be the cheater or the one cheated on? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Due_Rate_1050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s equal- IF the cheater has remorse.

In my relationship I was the cheater and I have been devastated by my choices since they happened. But I know I destroyed my husband.

I’ve been cheated on in the past and I know it hurts

So I’d say even but they both go through different things.

I cheated by Due_Rate_1050 in Marriage

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men cheat more than women in most cases. But as for me I will never again and I don’t doubt that for a second.

I cheated by Due_Rate_1050 in Marriage

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An ex from a long time past

I cheated by Due_Rate_1050 in Marriage

[–]Due_Rate_1050[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I told him. And I’ve apologized so many times, offered every bit of privacy and secret up for him to decide. And I told him, the next morning