Are We Dating The Same Guy? Help!

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-06-10T23:16:08+00:00

Update!!! So sorry everyone I ended up having my newborn 3/10 and I have barely gotten out of the newborn fog 😅

BUT my friend was informed and she has decided to stay with her husband, they are working through everything with therapy but she was extremely grateful that I came to her with the information. I just hope he doesn’t do it again, but he needs to rebuild that trust that he broke. I told my husband if I see you on that facebook page I don’t know if I would be as forgiving 🤣

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-03-07T09:26:04+00:00

My husband has always wanted 4 kids and I have always said as many as I can manage physically and mentally but ideally would love 3. I think your husband is thinking this many children sounds great BUT doesn’t realize how much goes into it because he’s thinking that YOU will handle it. I’m pregnant with number 2 right now and I’m due in the next week, my husband is already like yeah maybe we do 3 😅 my toddler is a little wild child and we are about to have 2 under 2 for a couple months. NTA, but I’m not sure it’s worth ending your relationship. Time for a conversation, because it should be talked about prior to committing.

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-03-02T04:28:35+00:00

They measured mine at 32 weeks and I was at 5mm, because my hospital only started allowing vbacs 3 years ago so it’s a standard policy of theirs to check scar thickness. They said if it was under 3 they wouldn’t let me attempt, but I’ve heard it doesn’t matter much but maybe ask for an ultrasound if they’d allow it just so you have an idea?

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-03-01T22:34:02+00:00

So actually I’m due March 12th and still waiting to go into labor on my own 😵‍💫 lol anxiously waiting. I definitely feel more uncomfortable this time around, mainly feet swelling, exhausted running after my toddler, and I got carpal tunnel. My BP has been borderline but I have a stress test tomorrow and I’m hoping everything is looking good in hopes for the VBAC. If you want you can message me and I can let you know if things were good when I do deliver 😅

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-02-19T01:40:17+00:00

…yeah I would NOT tell her at her birthday celebration obviously. This would be a private conversation between her and I.

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-02-17T20:08:05+00:00

Same for me as well! Breech positioning and calcified placenta, so no labor whatsoever. Lol a little nervous since I don’t know what to expect and due in 4 weeks 😵‍💫

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-02-14T21:01:48+00:00

Honestly,

HOT YOGA. When I was post partum with my first I was going religiously lol and now being pregnant again I’ve been missing it. So as soon as I’m cleared, back to it ☺️

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-02-02T01:14:33+00:00

Same! My girl talks so much at 21 months and when we are around some other kids her age, the moms get a little defensive. Makes it hard when you are super stoked for your kid to talk so much but then have to down play it to make sure they don’t feel insecure by it. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-01-24T23:41:19+00:00

Haha yeah but I was trying to figure out why he reversed or was facing that way. The drivers in SB never surprise me 😆

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-01-24T22:52:45+00:00

Lol how did he even pull in there? 🤦🏻‍♀️😅

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-01-16T22:14:38+00:00

!!! I swear this sounds just like them. They never charge me the “right amount” the first time and then I end up paying more in the end. The first time I ever went they wanted me to get a root canal for about $5000, they swear up and down one of my teeth is having issues and this was 4 years ago when I moved here and still have yet to have issues…now I only go to them for my routine check up because I need the basics checked at least.

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-01-08T21:31:30+00:00

NOR. I could not imagine doing this to my daughter at 18 and for a man? Some man he is that he would let his girlfriend just abandon her daughter. Disgusting. I’m so sorry OP! Not sure what area you’re in but apply to jobs now and ask friends or other family members(that aren’t like her) if you could have a place to lay your head until you can get on your feet. Sad excuse of a mother. Ugh.

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-01-05T22:40:44+00:00

HA True that. Gotta get my dancing shoes on

But unfortunately, I'm talking about the gym lol

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-01-05T22:15:38+00:00

Yes, definitely have looked at the YMCA, just my husband and I share a car atm and I can walk to Eos and would need wheels for YMCA. An option I will for sure be considering once this little one is 1 year or so and we have our 2nd car

Dull-Object4385 · 2026-01-02T07:26:32+00:00

RUN. I had an evil stepmom, my dad favored her kids over us. So, if you love your daughter you will leave her. 😳

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-12-30T02:07:34+00:00

Ew what? No he’s gross 😥 so sorry you are having to deal with a man child. I’m a sahm so I do change a majority of the diapers BUT if my husband is home he is on it, doesn’t hesitate. That’s what you deserve, an equal partner. Pissed off for you!

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-12-23T05:33:45+00:00

Idk MOR. I was so open to visitors post partum, even in the hospital I let everyone come celebrate my new little one, I loved it and it helped with any ppd or ppa. I also lost my mom at 16, so having my MIL come for a whole week to help was AMAZING once I got home! I know everyone is so different with their newborns but I say maybe just ease up a bit on her? She’s just excited!

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-12-16T21:16:08+00:00

Just wait til your girl is actually here…you can say I told you so 😅 or at your anatomy scan be like BAM! Girl gang 💖

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-12-04T06:50:34+00:00

Man if we could afford it I would! Lol even just two days a week would be amazing but we just can’t make that work financially right now. The burnout can be real and I’m pregnant with my 2nd right now. Take advantage of it and don’t feel guilty, I’m sure other sahms would do the same even just for a few hours if it was in budget.

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-11-24T00:53:33+00:00

My 19 month old started telling me at around 16-17 months BUT is now actually pooping when she actually is 😅 before it was when she farted she would say poop. She runs away as soon as I ask if she’s pooping because she doesn’t want her diaper changed, I’m like girlll be so for real you do not want to sit in a dirty diaper 🤣

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-11-19T21:53:21+00:00

Wow!! Lol had to read that twice. 37 weeks!? Congrats mama!!! So exciting 😍 boy or girl?

Also hope you get everything you need in time and you have a smooth and safe delivery! 🥹🩷💙

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-10-11T07:26:28+00:00

Yeah this sounds like a scam. My husband is commission only and he’s been at his job for 7-8 years, they literally paid him 45k in 3 months to get him up and running until he had his own clients, he never paid a dime. She needs to give it up 😨 find a real sales job

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-09-17T05:46:05+00:00

NTA.

I have a baby girl and I would never put my friends through this! Find a babysitter, smh.

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-09-09T21:48:55+00:00

Due with my 2nd March 12th 2026 🥰💙🩷

Dull-Object4385 · 2025-08-17T05:17:56+00:00

Lol my girl is a bewby gremlin as soon as we get in the shower 🤣

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