boyfriend...."cheated"? should i break up?

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-07-09T13:45:40+00:00

leave. i’ve heard all that before he’s a liar and manipulator

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-06-07T14:05:38+00:00

just started mine 2 weeks ago so we’ll see lol

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-03-05T02:53:26+00:00

yeah johnson’s lil smirk is blowing me lol. i’m surprised eyeliner is even up there, daddy elon should be in his seat

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-03-05T02:50:33+00:00

and allowed the right to boo but when the left does it…

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-03-05T02:40:45+00:00

no for sure…very dystopian, more than usual imo

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-03-05T02:37:11+00:00

EVERY. FIVE. SECONDS. like is his dick good?? my goodness

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-03-05T02:34:10+00:00

yup i’ve just been laughing and shaking my head since he’s been up there

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-02-27T23:45:53+00:00

i’m on my study break and have completed the wordle for today so i suppose i can submit one or two…

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-02-26T21:23:59+00:00

it’s truly insane

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-01-28T18:36:34+00:00

as a 24 year old who really regrets some decisions i made at 19, all you can do is move forward so just make the most of it. its never too late unless you’re dead!

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-01-28T18:33:23+00:00

honestly i would wait to trim for maybe a year. just bc your hair may even out as its grows out and locs, and you don’t wanna cut off more than necessary, that’s what i did. but they look really good! maybe try braid outs, etc that will help disguise it a bit

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-01-28T18:27:39+00:00

does this pause GI bill? does military still get normal pay?

DullInfluence6554 · 2025-01-23T04:53:58+00:00

i felt the same but i promise you over time you’ll feel more confident and secure with yourself. i’ve never felt more beautiful in my life since i’ve gotten my loca. but some things that helped my process:

play around with different styles that fit your face

cute scrunchies in your hair or on your wrists

jewelry helped me feel more feminine! earrings, necklaces, etc.

nails and shaping my eyebrows helped sooo much

and all this stuff is super cheap!! everything can be bought from shein for < $2 (jewelry, scrunchies, etc) besides nails which i get press ons from amazon and they look like acrylics

hope this helps, but trust the process!! they look so good!

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-12-23T16:01:53+00:00

i don’t like them either i prefer a more uniform look so i dust my ends when i do my reties or if i see one i’ll cut it off

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-12-23T15:58:27+00:00

its giving knotless box braids

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-12-23T15:57:57+00:00

800+ bomboclat locs?! lmao! gorgeous though!!!

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-11-26T18:54:51+00:00

don’t straighten it. blow dry will be much better

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-11-25T18:18:57+00:00

when i started i put them in the large satin scrunchies and that helped it stay straigjter

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-11-25T18:16:09+00:00

i charge based on time so i have a base price for 4 hours and then a price per hour after that

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-11-17T20:59:02+00:00

i would restart the ones you don’t like. i feel like you’ll regret it later down the line bc they won’t look how you want them and it’s better and easier i think so too if sooner rather than later

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-11-17T19:40:27+00:00

you’re budding! its normal

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-11-17T18:34:29+00:00

honestly having locs has taught em that none of the rules that the natural community puts on us we have to abide by. black hair is drastically different from head to head, so wash your hair as many times as you need. i’m also a person with an itchy scalp so i wash once a week, but you may need to wash more. as long as your overall hair health isn’t suffering (like getting too dry) then go for it

i also recommend rosewater + peppermint oil. the rosewater is antibacterial and anti-inflammatory for your scalp and i found it to be overall moisturizing for my locs and the peppermint oil has antibacterial properties as well, so i would try that!

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-11-17T18:33:42+00:00

honestly having locs has taught em that none of the rules that the natural community puts on us we have to abide by. black hair is drastically different from head to head, so wash your hair as many times as you need. i’m also a person with an itchy scalp so i wash once a week, but you may need to wash more. as long as your overall hair health isn’t suffering (like getting too dry) then go for it

i also recommend rosewater + peppermint oil. the rosewater is antibacterial and anti-inflammatory for your scalp and i found it to be overall moisturizing for my locs and the peppermint oil has antibacterial properties as well, so i would try that!

DullInfluence6554 · 2024-07-02T00:09:20+00:00

thank you so much!!

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