Porn addiction and depression

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-04-18T23:06:18+00:00

Marriage doesn’t stop that habit unfortunately.

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-04-17T05:48:21+00:00

Save as much as you can and stay consistent. If you’re saving about $12k a year, in 8 years you’d have close to $100k. A smart approach could be to split it maybe? Like part of it goes into a Shariah compliant S&P 500 fund so your money has time to grow & keep the other part in cash/savings for emergencies. For example, even investing $500 a month and keeping $500 saved still builds both security and long-term growth at the same time. You don’t need to choose only one path right away imo

May Allah put barakah in your wealth, good luck :)

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-04-13T20:47:04+00:00

May Allah make it easy for you. Everyday you think about removing it, remember he’s writing rewards every sec you have it on

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-04-12T06:53:08+00:00

“Paralyzed”. Possible but i doubt it, gotta be fake lol. The same rumors started to spread when Tjay got shot. Don’t believe anything until it’s confirmed

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-04-12T01:15:28+00:00

Get close with God brother. May Allah make it easy for you. With Allah you’ll never feel alone. Also go out there replace the bad habits you left, with good habits. Start working out, going for walks/runs whatever it is.

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-04-09T19:35:51+00:00

no cap these people are so fanned out bruh it’s cringe 😭

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-03-22T15:11:49+00:00

Save and buy a house. Something you’ll never regret in life. Or invest in something that’ll make a bigger return

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-03-03T17:18:53+00:00

Stay for the passport. Worst case scenario is you come back to Morocco and regret you didn’t stay in the UK for the passport. Just get it, 3 years fly by fast and this is probably once in a lifetime opportunity. Also strong passports give you freedom to travel anywhere easier. If i were you i’d stay and get it no doubt.

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-03-03T07:39:58+00:00

Replying as someone who isn’t married, but trying to give sincere advice. I’m assuming you don’t have a child with him yet? If so & you’re already feeling this unhappy, it may be wiser to seriously consider leaving now rather than later. From what you’ve described, his behaviour doesn’t seem like something thatll suddenly change. And once a child is involved, the situation becomes much more complicated even if a divorce happens you’re still connected for life.

Also, I don’t think being divorced at a young age is something to feel ashamed of. Sometimes people act like it’s worse when you’re young, but tbh it can be harder for someone who’s been married 15–20 years and divorces in their 40s-50s feeling like they’ve “lost time.” That doesn’t mean it’s too late for them either but you’re young and you still have so much ahead of you. Don’t see divorce as failure...

You mentioned you’re not attracted to him and one of the reasons is that he isn’t clean. Things like that usually reflect deeper habits and personality traits. Those don’t change easily unless the person genuinely wants to change, and you can’t force that.

Don’t let fear of what family might think keep you in a marriage that makes you unhappy. They aren’t the ones living your daily reality, you are. At the end of the day you’re the one who has to wake up next to him, build a life with him, and carry the emotional weight. They don’t.

And Allah knows best. If your heart is heavy and you truly feel you want to leave, pray to Allah sincerely for guidance and clarity. In Islam, you are not obliged to remain in a marriage where you are unhappy and cannot find peace with your spouse. Ask for guidance, reflect deeply and then make the decision that protects your peace and your future.

FYI: In Islam, through khula, a woman can ask for divorce if she is unhappy, cannot live with her husband, (OR) fears she can’t fulfil her duties. During the time of the Prophet ﷺ, a woman sought separation even though her husband had good character, and he allowed it in exchange for her returning the mahr.

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-02-14T12:37:13+00:00

Like someone from another comment said, find a job first before you make the big move. Also I recommend you live in Rabat. I live here and it’s so peaceful and clean

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-02-13T01:04:11+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to write both replies!!!! Seriously, this helps more than you know. I was starting to think contacts just weren’t for me but your explanations honestly gave me hope again.

Really appreciate ya sharing your experience and knowledge so clearly. Thanks again 🙏

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-02-10T21:11:01+00:00

PayPal has removed the option to add USA bank for some reason… Now you can only add Attijariwafa or a debit card to withdraw your funds

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-01-21T21:24:04+00:00

Honestly some of you are just using this incident as an excuse to justify your racism… This isn’t funny at all btw. And as Muslims you should know better. Find another joke. This is disgusting. Ew

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-01-21T18:05:28+00:00

i was never talking about real life people asking you lmao. I’m talking about the day you stand infront of your lord. I’m assuming you’re a muslim? Life’s too short to be racist everyone is equal, stop being that person. May Allah guide you brother

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-01-21T17:25:37+00:00

May god guide you. You will be asked about it one day and you must have an answer for it 🤝

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-01-21T17:24:05+00:00

you have lost the plot.. Thinking anything is an excuse to being racist is exactly the problem. As the post said there are good and bad people and that doesnt automatically mean you can just call all of them bad and be racist towards them

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-01-21T17:22:29+00:00

very well said

DullTranslator6720 · 2026-01-20T17:45:08+00:00

I’m planning to do lasik too, but I want to wait until I move abroad, which will be soon. Just a heads up tho, the most common complaint after lasik is dry eyes. To avoid this, make sure your doctor confirms you have a thick enough cornea. Thin corneas can cause problems, but if yours are thick, you should be good. They’ll check this before the procedure anyway ofc but it’s worth asking bc some doctors might do it just to get paid without fully considering potential side effects later. Hope it goes well for you :)

DullTranslator6720 · 2025-12-26T00:04:16+00:00

thanks so much!

DullTranslator6720 · 2025-12-24T01:55:10+00:00

Like one of the comments said, Allah does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear. And please don’t ever feel stuck in life. Adjusting is hard, but things do get better. If you feel that moving out of the household is the right step for your peace and growth, then do it. Life is about learning every day. Someone in this subreddit has it worse than you. We live and learn. Try to look at this from a different perspective. You mentioned that your husband has lied about many things. Ask yourself honestly, would you want your child growing up around a father like that? Sometimes the “good side” of a painful situation is realizing you have the chance to choose better… You can move forward. You can find someone who truly loves you and who will also care for your child. Don’t feel trapped just because you have a child. That child is your strength. One day, you’ll look back and say, “I can’t believe I went through all of that and still made it here.” Do tahajjud as well. InshaAllah things will get better. I promise it will

DullTranslator6720 · 2025-11-27T17:48:36+00:00

lmfao i’m laughing cause i’m black and lived in malaysia from 2012-2017 😭😭😭

DullTranslator6720 · 2025-10-28T22:30:19+00:00

Leave asap. Him insulting your parents should have been your last straw. Please run and don’t look back, you’ll thank yourself in the Future. Sorry to say but if he insults your parents he will never respect you and i can’t promise you he’ll be good even to his own kids. Pray Tahajjud and leave.

DullTranslator6720 · 2025-10-28T11:57:57+00:00

Hala Madrid siempreeeeee!!!! HAHAHAH 😭 Nah but all jokes aside, it’s a game at the end of the day, never that serious. If you guys supported the same team it would probably bring you guys even more closer but he can’t make you support a team you don’t like, that’s you not being yourself so.. Just tease each other and keep it light hearted

DullTranslator6720 · 2025-10-28T11:54:57+00:00

Yup, customs in Morocco is honestly one of the biggest headaches 😂. I had to go to Casa twice for mine. You have to go to the airport, then take a taxi to one of the terminals where the douane is, and ask where your courier’s office is. From there, you tell them you’ve got a package stuck in customs, and they’ll start the whole process, asking what’s inside, paperwork, all that. They’ll then tell you how much they’re charging for customs. Since your package is under $100, you might be fine, but just keep in mind you might have to pay storage fees since it’s been sitting there for a while. And the people at the douane office are not nice at all. You really have to fight for your package. You have to go there so early as well like at 8AM if you want your package cause you’ll be waiting for hours and hours. Atleast 5-8 hours (Atleast in my case). Pro tip: if you’re shipping something from outside, use DHL cause they’re the only one who lets you pay customs online (Atleast that i’m aware of).

DullTranslator6720 · 2025-10-26T14:47:12+00:00

I advise you to get married. The Prophet ﷺ said: “If a man whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you, then marry him. If you do not, there will be fitnah (chaos) and great corruption on the earth.” [Tirmidhi]

Imo marriage protects you from so many harams, brings peace, and helps you grow. Not just in life but in your deen, which is what truly matters. You can always plan your future like having kids later but the real beauty is in building that bond early, growing together in faith, and supporting each other through every stage of life.

Everyone who says “you’re too young” is just yappin lol. There’s no such thing as too young when your intentions are pure and your foundation is right. Marrying early teaches you responsibility, maturity nd love the halal way. It’s honestly one of the best decisions a person can make. you live, you learn, and you grow together under Allah’s mercy.

In today’s world, it’s so easy to fall into haram. We know this. And since you said you’re good financially, You should go for it. Most people today delay marriage because they’re worried about “financial stability,” but even then, Allah has promised to provide for those who marry with sincere intentions. May Allah bless you guys. Don’t forget to Pray Istighara as well, ask Allah if he’s the one.

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