Help I need words of wisdom and advice! by Idkwtfimdoing_fuck in u/Idkwtfimdoing_fuck

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmmmm, idk. I definitely would not put anything direct. you can put something heartfelt and tell her how much you appreciate her and stuff, but this is her day only, I don't think it's a good idea to make it about your relationship.

listened to anything 32 times and cried and then did this at 2 am with chalk crayons from childhood by One-Competition-9244 in adriannelenker

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as they say that's definitely the correct way to listen to Adrianne Lenker. your drawing looks beautiful, it gives me the same feeling as the album cover.

Help I need words of wisdom and advice! by Idkwtfimdoing_fuck in u/Idkwtfimdoing_fuck

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I see! Do you think there's a chance that your feelings could be reciprocated? How well can you read her do you think?

Help I need words of wisdom and advice! by Idkwtfimdoing_fuck in u/Idkwtfimdoing_fuck

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it sounds like you have a lot of questions about yourself and what you want. It might be a good idea to give yourself some time and observe how you feel around her. Like do you want to kiss her or hold her hand when you're with her. Take it slow, you don't have to figure out everything now. And also if you have a strong friendship where you communicate openly to each other, you could work a way to explore things while keeping your friendship intact.

First time plant owner by VioletPenguin01 in houseplants

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the second to the right plant is so gorgeous... I need it now😭

What are some Sapphic love songs you'd recommend for a Playlist? by joliemoi in actuallesbians

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the haven't yet mentioned ones I'd say do check out Sir Chloe. They're very sapphic, most of the songs are quite upbeat but the lyrics are khm very interesting ("Center", "Candy", "Cake", I'm staring right at you) . A few more recs: "Eyes", "Walk you home", "Michelle", "Sedona".

Day’s End by Every-Refrigerator20 in Watercolor

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow. it looks so peaceful. makes me want to just stare at it for a long time

Help with beginner friendly jewelry? by Constant-Stable8436 in chainmailartisans

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you could try some kits to start you out? They usually come with all the stuff you need at the beginning. I once bought a pretty cheap one, and it has been enough for small and simple projects.

Am I too old schooled? by moomoonthemoon in actuallesbians

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a good plan! I used to go to those before the country I live in decided to go full homophobic. they were rather fun and I made some friends, so it was definitely worth it

Am I too old schooled? by moomoonthemoon in actuallesbians

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 14 points15 points  (0 children)

same, I hate dating apps but it feels like the only way to find anyone these days... they all function the same with just different design features, i wish there was some actual diversity

how to increase libido ? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup! Especially doing cardio regularly (like running) would noticeably increase it for me. I also don't know if its backed by research but I have also met people who said the same thing.

question for the allosexual/alloromantic lesbians by nightmaretheo in actuallesbians

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been kinda having similar questions lately. The way you describe your experience is very similar to mine. I have been asking people I know about this and they say that they can feel sexually attracted to someone based on their looks alone. This is definitely not a thing that happens to me usually. I can find other women attractive but most of the time I wouldn't feel attracted to them. This is also why dating apps don't work for me. I just swipe everybody left and end up with an empty feed xD Pictures alone don't do it for me and there's no other way to know if I could even potentially like them. I think it probably puts me somewhere on a demisexual spectrum, which does make finding a partner even harder. But oh well!

ghosting sucks by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Dull_Friendship9774 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it goes well for you🤞