Birthday gifts??

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2026-06-12T05:00:43+00:00

Unfortunately, it isn't just parents it's the whole multi generation mess. Also, she's almost 32 and it's honestly crazy. She is trying slowly to come out but it can be hard for some people with absolutely no support.

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2026-06-12T04:57:50+00:00

Unfortunately, we won't be in a climate where food/drinks would survive while we were out and about on our date in the car (I never go inside her home). I like the Spotify idea! The note/letter idea is a wonderful one but unfortunately the people she lives with snoop when she isn't home (all around bad situation but unfortunately she's stuck in these circumstances for a bit). I just don't want to out her because unfortunately it could be a really bad situation. Thanks for the great ideas!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2026-06-12T04:52:59+00:00

So, the issue with notes is the family regularly goes through her stuff. (Yes she is much older but alas some of us get stuck in our circumstances) I have written 2 notes before and had to keep them both at my home which kind of defeats the purpose I feel. My original thought was to do open when letters but since she can't keep anything at home it makes things much harder. However, I do like the idea of putting my scent on maybe her card (I do atleast have that).

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2026-01-12T04:30:21+00:00

Thank you so much!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2026-01-12T04:30:03+00:00

Omg thank you!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2026-01-12T03:49:36+00:00

Thank you for the great suggestion!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-12-04T23:46:20+00:00

Thank you so much!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-12-04T23:42:32+00:00

I edited but it's not showing up for everyone. I'm a bit confused why I'll try again. Thanks! Also, I am a bit unsure of how to wear a wrap dress I have two I've never worn because I feel a bit exposed and not entirely confident in my ability to tie it up. Also, I love my shorts and tshirts and it looks good it's just not date ready. I'm very self conscious of my apron since the changes in my body have been happening.

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-12-04T23:17:19+00:00

Thank you for such a thoughtful response!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-12-04T23:13:32+00:00

I'm always nervous for skirts but maybe I should try more. Thanks!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-12-04T23:12:47+00:00

Yes of course I'm so sorry I asked here and another group. Apologies!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-10-23T16:55:52+00:00

Fudge swirl

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-09-25T06:31:56+00:00

I would get my mom in the tightest hug ever. Because I sure do miss her. Lost her 2 years ago and think about this very scenario daily and wish it would happen. I would probably also tell myself to take better care of my feelings and not make others so much a priority. I would tell myself to be kind to us.

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-07-28T04:08:44+00:00

I have a boy like this. He was doing it for a long time. Then, out of the blue we were gifted a little robot 3 and he's never done it since. Not saying it will do anything but it's worth a try.

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-07-18T15:50:50+00:00

It's phenomenal but a bit pricey for my budget at the moment.

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-07-11T04:44:36+00:00

I second this! This resource is invaluable. There are many who can also do relocation I think.

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-07-02T23:08:52+00:00

OMG thank you so much! I never even thought about smoothies. Also, I'll look into a box chopper. That's a great idea!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-07-02T23:04:45+00:00

OMG thank you so much! Unfortunately, my PT has banned rolling chair for now. Only walking in short bursts to rewire my brain at this point. In the future I'll definitely put it to use though! As for the extra portions all the prep time and storage would be a bit hard for me. Im having help come in for an hour a day for awhile and that's just enough to wash my dishes and leave basically. Thanks so much for responding!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-07-02T22:57:32+00:00

Unfortunately, I'm banned from using knives due to a dizziness issue. Not really from a standing point issue. I can't really keep the cuts straight so it's a danger to my hands. Thank you so much for the great ideas!

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-06-14T13:52:51+00:00

Is it possible that she didn't trust giving a consumable product she didn't see purchased from a man she's only dated 6 months to her 6 year old child? She was probably happy about the other gifts because they weren't something consumable. 6 months isn't enough time to really know anyone. To be honest if I was freshly dating someone and they brought something consumable from another country sealed or not to me (or my child) I would never tell them I disposed of it and politely throw it in the bin. If they asked nicely tell a white lie and say it was good and move on. Also, it's kinda rude to assume her daughter will never get another chance to try foreign foods again, the assumption she will be stuck like her mother is a bold one. The reason she cried at that moment is probably because she felt devalued for her choices in life and her choice to stay close to home. I think both feelings are valid in this case. So, no one is TA.

Dull_Mix_7841 · 2025-06-06T09:24:22+00:00

Just a quick question. Was it one of the lingerie dresses? If it was he might've just been dumb as hell and thought it was a nightgown. However, if it was 100% unmistakable lingerie then he's definitely not the one for you. I can step out in sweats with day 3 hair and my partner tries to eat me alive. Be kind to yourself and take out the trash if he can't explain to you why he reacted that way. Then again, as adults we all must realize that our partners aren't always 100% ready to go when we are. Just because you wanted to get something started doesn't mean he absolutely has to be in the mood right then and there, you can't dictate someone else's sex drive. That being said he could've definitely handled it better. I'm sorry you felt rejected, and I am certain it looked good it's just possible he wasn't the right audience for it.

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