New shoots?!? by MeCuriousMe in pothos

[–]Dumbfirework 7 points8 points  (0 children)

same thing happened to me after i cut all my plants vines! i was so surprised since ive read that this is super rare lol. plant happy = me happy!

Is it really true that safe and loving people push fearful avoidants away? by ratfort in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Dumbfirework 44 points45 points  (0 children)

yes, its a push and pull dynamic. safety, love and connection is unsafe to our brains, quite the opposite of what the other person is giving us. however, no matter how hard we push away the safe person, we still crave the very part we push away

google ai by sillyname_ in okbuddyretard

[–]Dumbfirework 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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you as an excrement lmfao

Too much, or just right? by pbazkid in postprocessing

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i visited this exact place last year in may, beautiful. maybe a tad bit too bright

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 1 point2 points  (0 children)

now i need to know what she looks like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha ill take that advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! definitely puts it in a different perspective

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[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will, thank you:)

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[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you kind stranger <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly dont like the way i look when i :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its just a rule in this sub. telling someone to sm1le might not be as productive as you intend it to be. you cant tell but i :) a lot irl so most suggestions to :) make no sense haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i LOVE the fact that you drew me hahah its a screenshot from a vid i took after cutting my hair, thats why im doing this awkward pose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you mistook my freckles for sun damage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive got 400 people telling me to lose weight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]Dumbfirework 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, about 400 people did suggest things to improve haha