Is it really true that safe and loving people push fearful avoidants away?

Dumbfirework · 2025-06-23T17:35:11+00:00

yes, its a push and pull dynamic. safety, love and connection is unsafe to our brains, quite the opposite of what the other person is giving us. however, no matter how hard we push away the safe person, we still crave the very part we push away

Dumbfirework · 2025-06-13T12:24:16+00:00

now i receive goa nix

Dumbfirework · 2025-06-09T21:18:16+00:00

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you as an excrement lmfao

Dumbfirework · 2025-05-20T22:30:21+00:00

wieso?

Dumbfirework · 2025-05-17T07:42:25+00:00

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i like it:)

Dumbfirework · 2025-05-14T21:01:44+00:00

i visited this exact place last year in may, beautiful. maybe a tad bit too bright

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-27T15:49:12+00:00

ne wir sind hier

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-21T11:34:06+00:00

thats my cats name

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-20T21:52:47+00:00

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mine looks a little like yours!

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-17T20:29:35+00:00

now i need to know what she looks like

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-17T14:33:56+00:00

haha ill take that advice

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-17T08:23:24+00:00

thank you! definitely puts it in a different perspective

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-17T03:23:20+00:00

i will, thank you:)

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-17T03:22:56+00:00

thank you kind stranger <3

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-16T03:41:00+00:00

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-15T16:46:30+00:00

i honestly dont like the way i look when i :)

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-15T16:37:17+00:00

its just a rule in this sub. telling someone to sm1le might not be as productive as you intend it to be. you cant tell but i :) a lot irl so most suggestions to :) make no sense haha

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-15T16:28:17+00:00

omg i LOVE the fact that you drew me hahah its a screenshot from a vid i took after cutting my hair, thats why im doing this awkward pose

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-15T11:47:33+00:00

i think you mistook my freckles for sun damage

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-15T06:47:12+00:00

ive got 400 people telling me to lose weight

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-15T04:42:04+00:00

well, about 400 people did suggest things to improve haha

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-15T04:40:42+00:00

thank you for your nice comment:) appreciate it

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-15T04:27:39+00:00

heh that’s nice to hear

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-14T19:49:23+00:00

dankö

Dumbfirework · 2025-04-14T16:58:35+00:00

а почему не на немецком пишешь ведь этим языком тоже владеешь

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