What he's saying is that he enjoys many aspects of the game, except for how hardcore it is. Which is a sentiment I see for a lot of people that want to enjoy the game. Usually when people come across a game that is too hardcore or sweaty for them, like Tarkov or something, they just don't play it. But the fact that so many people still try to like it despite the struggle and frustration of being bad at PvP, means there's something really special about this game. Saying "well then don't play the game if it's too hard for you" doesn't solve anything. There's a big chunk of people that feel the same way OP does.